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LocalHer0e · 08/01/2025 19:27

I've got terminal cancer and we're looking for an Airbnb or cottage that will sleep 12 people for a last hurrah. In September

We're all in the northwest and would like to go to the north east or Scotland for a long weekend or a week.

Sleeps 12, 2 of which are children and siblings, everyone apart from the family of 4 are in couples.

Please help me!

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merryandbrightdelight · 08/01/2025 22:23

I don't have any offerings, but wanted to say that I hope you have a wonderful time ❤️

FizzPlease · 08/01/2025 22:14

If you want to go to the very top of Scotland, there are luxury lodges in John O'Groats. They have 3 double/twin bedrooms with an en-suite and an additional bathroom. They are beautifully presented and well-equipped with gorgeous sea views, wood burners, utility rooms. Lovely open plan living and dining.

You'd have to book 2 lodges - with the family of 4 + 1 couple in one and the 3 couples in the other, but they are close together, so dining, etc together as a group would be easy. (you can request 2 lodges side by side (ask for front line).

Pay the extra for the 3 bed sea-view lodges, as the views are spectacular with Orkney Isles in the distance. Loads of northern lights (not guaranteed, but you never know!), clear, fresh air and September is a decent month to visit - beautiful sunsets!

Here is the link

John O'Groats Hotel & Lodges | Self Catering | Together Travel

650A · 08/01/2025 21:20

Mountain Bear Lodge in Scotland. www.luxurylodgestays.co.uk/locations/scotland/mountain-bear-lodge-nethy-bridge/

ChocoChocoLatte · 08/01/2025 21:15

Hello 👋🏻 sorry to hear of your situation & love the idea of Christmas in Sept.

I recently stayed at a make 2nds count cancer retreat at Blairmore Farm situated between Perth & Crieff - and the accommodation was super.

Ard View cottage was massive and so beautifully equipped.

Wishing you the very best of times x

www.blairmorefarm.com/cottage/ard-view/

FoxtonFoxton · 08/01/2025 20:57

I can't add anything useful, but I just wanted to say that I hope you have the most wonderful trip 💗

Hall84 · 08/01/2025 20:56

@LocalHer0e We had a wonderful time there and plenty to do in the local area if you want. It's a lovely place to just spend time together though. (If you want any more details please let me know, I'd be happy to help!)

venusandmars · 08/01/2025 20:55

We stayed here near Perth in Scotland. Fanstastic, great communal space, wonderful scenery. We got a private chef from a great restaurant to come and cook one night (dining room seats 15). If you decide to go here, or somewhere nearby I'm happy to send you the details of the private chef.

5* Exclusive Use Wedding Venue and Holiday Home in Scotland

Dog and family friendly Exclusive Use Wedding Venue, Holiday Home and Glamping. For 2-120 Guests. Accommodation for up to 30.

https://www.alexanderhousescotland.com

KT1992 · 08/01/2025 20:50

www.uniquewelshstays.co.uk/bedw-barn

LocalHer0e · 08/01/2025 20:49

Hall84 · 08/01/2025 20:42

Craggan Mill is fab but very far north!

That's stunning

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Sahara123 · 08/01/2025 20:48

Salen pier holidays on the island of Mull. Right on the waters edge on the Sound of Mull, various accommodations including right on the old Salen pier which is incredible. The main house sleeps 14 I think, in 7 bedrooms .

Hall84 · 08/01/2025 20:42

Craggan Mill is fab but very far north!

LocalHer0e · 08/01/2025 20:39

Thank you all so much!

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Fr1day · 08/01/2025 20:25

https://foldyardhouse.co.uk/ - might not be far enough North though?

Home - Foldyard House

https://foldyardhouse.co.uk

MadBlack · 08/01/2025 20:24

Would you get the ferry over to NI and drive to the north coast?

6 bed, sleeps 12, close to beach, kids play park, shops, pubs. Quiet wee village called Ballycastle. £2K for 5 nights in September. Good reviews.

here

Thighdentitycrisis · 08/01/2025 20:15

This looks nice
www.airbnb.com/l/qwTfOndH

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 08/01/2025 20:06

Was going to suggest the landmark trust!

Or here? https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/holidays/northumberland-north-east/rothley-lakehouse?origin=search

MoveToParis · 08/01/2025 20:04

https://www.dunskey.com/lodges/the-royal-apartment/

could this work. They have multiple options? Maybe worth a call?

The Royal Apartment - Dunskey Estate

https://www.dunskey.com/lodges/the-royal-apartment

Newuser75 · 08/01/2025 19:57

misscockerspaniel · 08/01/2025 19:36

There are some amazing places listed there!

Rockfall · 08/01/2025 19:57

Ardtorna, west coast of Scotland. Beautiful area.

ardtorna.co.uk/

christmascracker123 · 08/01/2025 19:57

This one is gorgeous

www.airbnb.com/l/1QFhsSue

Thighdentitycrisis · 08/01/2025 19:55

www.airbnb.com/l/UZnN5SZn

christmascracker123 · 08/01/2025 19:52

There are some lovely air bnbs this looks nice in Durham:

www.airbnb.com/l/1aBe0go3

Thighdentitycrisis · 08/01/2025 19:50

https://www.airbnb.com/l/c0iPN8Q5

looks quite grand - struggling to find a farmhouse with 6 doubles

Villa in Scottish Borders · 9 bedrooms · 5.5 bathrooms

Wallace House

https://www.airbnb.com/l/c0iPN8Q5