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To think I’m allowed to not like Aubergine

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IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 08/01/2025 18:44

Writing this is making me realise this is bananas but it wound me up šŸ˜‚

Went for dinner with a friend who has a tendency to be hard work to somewhere she’s been twice before but is new to me.

I ordered a dish that came with a side of either roast Aubergine or roast pepper, as an avid hater of aubergine (one of THREE foods I don’t like so am v not fussy!), asked for pepper, they said they were out, I said not to worry, I’ll order a different side dish, they pushed the aubergine (because I would have to pay for a different side) and I said no thanks, not a fan, I’ll have X dish all good. The MOST uninteresting conversation and the most something and nothing situation šŸ˜‚

They brought the food out, apologised for no peppers and said my side was on the house. ā€œOh that’s okay please don’t worryā€ ā€œno no we insistā€ ā€œthat’s v kind of youā€ followed, ate (delicious!), lovely chat with the waiter and off we went

I cannot tell you what a non event this was šŸ˜‚

Friend was a bit funny over dinner not THAT unusual and turns out is VERY annoyed that I ā€œshowed her upā€ by telling them I didn’t like their food and asking for them to swap the dish. Apparently ā€œshe’s a regular there and is now way too embarrassed to go back after thisā€ and her husband is really upset they can’t go for his birthday next month because of this. I’ve upset them both.

Aside from ā€œshut up you utter knobshiteā€ I’m not really sure how to respond šŸ˜‚

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Ilovethatbear · 08/01/2025 18:46

She’s batshit.

I will eat every single vegetable. Except aubergine. Because it’s yucky.

Nothing off about your behaviour. Does she have form for being this odd?

Zanatdy · 08/01/2025 18:45

Bat shit crazy. I wouldn’t be going for dinner with her again.

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