Would you give this to your partner if that is what he wants?

He would never ask, gross

Not a snowballs chance I hell would I be doing that

He can piss right off with that. When they start harping on about it I cut them off, I just block and go, they don’t even deserve a reason if they think it’s cool to keep badgering me for nude pics or whatever it may be. ( but I’m quite cutthroat like that)

I would never send a nude pic of myself. At best I have done sexy underwear with face cropped out. I have come across way too many spiteful people in my travels of life to trust someone with this. If it was 1983 before the days of internet then maybe but nowadays, never.

I bet if you asked him for the same he’d say no, just like those dudes I come across that “love anal” but when I say to them let me wear a 10” Mandingo strap on and try Anal on him first then I will do it, you suddenly see how quick they drop that subject and lose interest in my ass!

I've (unfortunately) seen pictures of my Mum naked, because my Dad (exDad!) pressured her into doing pictures she wasn't comfortable with, and which he then used down the line as more fodder to bully her with. The fact that I saw them shows you what an arse he was with them, and the day we got hold of them and burnt them was liberating. Don't do it.

ALARM BELLS - RED FLAGS 🚩🚩🚩

DO NOT DO THIS. DUMP HIM.

Christ no. I trust DH implicitly and still wouldn't.

There's a wealth of free porn already out there if he so desperately needs a wank.

Eww, no. Bin him.
He’s a wrong un. How fucking dare he insist.

If you are not comfortable doing it then do not do it.

If he keeps insisting then I’d tell him to do one.

Anyone who tries to push you into doing something that you’re not comfortable with, does not care about your feelings and doesn’t respect you.

Right, well any man INSISTING on my doing anything that I'm not sure about would get very short shrift from me. What gives him the right? Being horny?

What specifically is it you think you've found on your gender hunt? Because I'm a woman on MN, like practically everyone else. I've probably been posting here longer than you have. I've heard this tired old nonsense before.

You don't know what every single woman is thinking any more than anyone else does. Women are not some homogeneous mass who all act and think the same way. That's actually the really offensive conclusion on this thread - that you think you are in any position to say what a woman should and shouldn't think. Regardless of how determined you are to misinterpret and insult me, I see right through this nonsense.

If you've got a point to make, make it. But please drop the bullshit.

Definitely don't do it, no one knows how long a relationship is going to last, imagine in 6 months time you ain't together anymore, you can't ask for that photo back, it is there forever. God knows what he will do with it. Even worse what someone else might do with.

nope. I’ve sent underwear selfies and maybe a pic of my boobs but cut my face out so nobody would know it’s me. I mean I trust him, but imagine he lost his phone 🤣🙈

Nobody’s life is ruined by not being able to see somebody’s nudes.

I don’t assume all men will share my nudes: whether online or just showing friends.

But I know some do. And given I know some do, if I never release my nudes I never ever have to worry about them ending up somewhere, or being shown to somebody I did not consent to.

It doesn’t matter what anyone else would do. What matters what you want. If you don’t feel comfortable doing it. Do not do it.

But you’re a man.

And I can confidently say that no woman is going to be as offended as you clearly are by a different woman’s choice not to send nudes.

You can continue pretending to be a woman but you’re been clocked.

I'm a woman so I'm definitely going to have to disagree that I'm a man 🤣

I've never been pressured to send anything and anyone would get short shift from me for demanding me to.

Maybe it's because I'm good at photography and I've got an ok figure that I know how to get good angles or lighting to enhance, but I've definitely enjoyed the thrill of it in past LDRs. It can be fun, just be sensible. Same as with any activities between consenting adults.

I've sent loads of naked/rude pictures to my partner I'm not really bothered if it gets out of the cloud I'm just not bothered about much nowadays since turning 40.

Can’t speak for it usually being that way round, I’ve never been pressured into it. Though I can accept some have.

But there also are women who, without undue pressure, choose to take part in that sort of thing. It’s not always all about just doing as a man says.

Those women probably also aren’t assuming that all men share with others, spread it around online, etc etc. I personally don’t always assume the worst in people.

Nope. Trust is great till it's gone. Then he might decide to do anything with it.

NO.

A school friend of mine did this for her partner. She found out a couple of years later that he kept photos of every girl he ever slept with. He had 1000s… ugliest man I ever saw too.