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Turning up to interview in jeans and trainers

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Cuffi · 06/01/2025 09:04

Awaiting for interview/assessment day. Out of the ten waiting. Three are wearing pale jeans, trainers, Adidas tracksuit bottoms.

All the rest including me wearing smart trousers, tops and shoes.

From what few workers I have seen, some are wearing dark jeans.

I think everyone needs to wear smart clothes for interviews. Doesn’t matter if the prospective employer has a casual dress code

OP posts:
HoraceCope · 06/01/2025 13:02

we had someone turn up in what i assume were pyjama bottoms.

Turophilic · 06/01/2025 12:58

Work culture has changed. Many sectors are very informal and a trouser suit would look ridiculous there.

DP is mid fifties and no longer owns a suit or any ties. My Dad worked in the same sector 25 years ago and wore a suit and tie every day of his working life.

As long as they are clean and have the requisite skills, who cares whether it’s jeans or trousers?

MildredSauce · 06/01/2025 12:58

Differentstarts · 06/01/2025 12:40

Because it's irrelevant what the job is, it's about giving the impression you are a capable adult who gives a shit. I always remember working in a clothes shop and this 16 year old lad came in for an interview in a suit and tie and my manager said to the interviewer give him the job this was before he had even opened his mouth because he had made such an effort

For anyone reading this and thinking it might be a good way to hire, it isn't.

Differentstarts · 06/01/2025 12:53

Conkers2 · 06/01/2025 12:44

I find it really difficult to believe that in something like 2017, that someone was hired for a job in any form of reputable shop based on appearance alone and without "opening their mouth" unless they were the only candidate

Edited

Believe what you want it happened. I dont think its that suprising it was a 16 year old being interviewed by someone in there 50s for basically a Saturday job earning less then £5 an hour nobody else made the effort he stood out. I honestly don't understand why you think I would waste my time making that up it's really not that deep

Conkers2 · 06/01/2025 12:44

Differentstarts · 06/01/2025 12:42

It was about 7/8 years ago

I find it really difficult to believe that in something like 2017, that someone was hired for a job in any form of reputable shop based on appearance alone and without "opening their mouth" unless they were the only candidate

Natsku · 06/01/2025 12:44

Really depends on the job, though I struggle to think of a job where trackie bottoms would be suitable for the interview.
Last two people that came for interviews at my workplace, the first wore hiking trousers and a flannel shirt, the other wore jeans and a big coat that he didn't take off. No one batted an eyelid as no one dresses formally in my workplace, not even the boss or the ceo.

Differentstarts · 06/01/2025 12:42

Conkers2 · 06/01/2025 12:41

Without being rude, when was this? In the last 15 years/ post 2010?

Edited

It was about 7/8 years ago

Differentstarts · 06/01/2025 12:42

LizTruss · 06/01/2025 12:32

That's it!
It's the colour!

It makes me think of a lettuce - which is very unsettling for me.

Does this freak you out 🤣🤣

Liz Truss Lettuce GIF by GIPHY News
Conkers2 · 06/01/2025 12:41

Differentstarts · 06/01/2025 12:40

Because it's irrelevant what the job is, it's about giving the impression you are a capable adult who gives a shit. I always remember working in a clothes shop and this 16 year old lad came in for an interview in a suit and tie and my manager said to the interviewer give him the job this was before he had even opened his mouth because he had made such an effort

Without being rude, when was this? In the last 15 years/ post 2010?

Differentstarts · 06/01/2025 12:40

LIZS · 06/01/2025 12:01

Unless it is customer facing, why is it an issue as long as clothes are clean and in good repair. Call centre sounds fine.

Because it's irrelevant what the job is, it's about giving the impression you are a capable adult who gives a shit. I always remember working in a clothes shop and this 16 year old lad came in for an interview in a suit and tie and my manager said to the interviewer give him the job this was before he had even opened his mouth because he had made such an effort

LizTruss · 06/01/2025 12:32

Anothernamechane · 06/01/2025 11:12

She's wearing a shirt and trouser suit? Is colour unprofessional?

That's it!
It's the colour!

It makes me think of a lettuce - which is very unsettling for me.

Isobel201 · 06/01/2025 12:21

Last interview I did in person was summer time, so I turned up in a long yellow dress - looked smart and did the job whilst feeling cool in the hot weather. Didn't get the job but that was due to other things, not what I was wearing. I'd imagine a man could wear smart black shorts.

MildredSauce · 06/01/2025 12:19

I think it's important that you're comfortable in whatever you put on for an interview. I've seen lots of candidates in grey/navy/black suits and they were clearly not happy in their skin. And running them round on the office tour gave a great insight into how often those heels really got an outing!

Trainers can be fab but I WILL judge on your brand!

Sevenwondersofthewoo · 06/01/2025 12:16

Acc0untant · 06/01/2025 11:11

Until I was interviewing somewhere known to be particularly formal my go-to interview outfit is:

Black skinny jeans (not faded or ripped)
Black and silver slim belt
Black Chelsea boots or flats depending on weather
White shirt, but a nice fitted one rather than one that looks like you've nicked your dad's
Black blazer
A couple of bits of silver jewellery

That’s my outfit for going out of a night sometimes my boots have a heel on them too

my take is
1 they showed up
2 clean
3 no BO
4 their qualifications

in a field I’ve worked in Ive asked for wellies or waterproof boots and some didn’t get why err we work with animals and it gets very messy.

one lad turned up in a suit to big for him, he looked so embarrassed I sent him home to get something else and a pair of wellies (he was local) and we proceeded with the interview, he was the only one to ask questions about everything which I found very refreshing. He got the job and worked for us for 4 years he’s a vet now but not local to me bummer 😂

SuzieNine · 06/01/2025 12:08

Nameynameynamename · 06/01/2025 10:32

It must vary then because I have a close relative who is a software engineer and he wears a suit every time he goes to the office

My job is casual jeans and trainers, I think I wore black skinny jeans and a long shirt to the interview. I would usually aim for slightly smarter than what would actually be worn day to day

Yeah, it's going to vary by sector, but if you are in say, games development, or AI, or music software, wearing a suit is a red flag that perhaps you don't have the skills and don't understand the culture. Even within the finance sector it varies: wealth management - suit; fintech - jeans and Star Wars t-shirt.

The inverse snobbery about suits and ties among hardcore techies is very real. It also acts as an invisible barrier to entry for candidates from ethnic minorities who often are more conservatively dressed, especially for interview.

LIZS · 06/01/2025 12:01

Unless it is customer facing, why is it an issue as long as clothes are clean and in good repair. Call centre sounds fine.

maverickfox · 06/01/2025 11:59

Cuffi · 06/01/2025 09:52

I remember about 30 years ago my DF was signing on. Guy next to him said he has no
suit. He was given £120 in vouchers for Burton.

My DF was annoyed as the guy could have gone to a charity shop and bought a smart pair of trousers and a shirt for a few quid

Really? It’s not always easy to find trousers in your size and height in a charity shop, never mind smart ones. The benefit in giving vouchers is the interviewee has clothing for the job as well, as a suit was expected in a lot of jobs in those days.

Bromptotoo · 06/01/2025 11:58

ALunchbox · 06/01/2025 11:56

How is that unprofessional?

It's not the Tramp bit but how the process was handled.

ALunchbox · 06/01/2025 11:56

JoeGrundyWasMyRoleModel · 06/01/2025 11:17

I once went for a job as tech support in a senior school a hundred yards from my front door. Four smartly dressed candidates and a tramp. Turns out the tramp was already employed by the school in a more junior role. His interview took a fraction of the time of everybody else and I was informed I wasn’t successful by phone on my way home. Guess who got the job. I felt really sorry about the candidates who had travelled up to 50 miles to get there. I should have complained about their unprofessional methods.

How is that unprofessional?

ohtowinthelottery · 06/01/2025 11:53

My DS went for an interview for a job in retail a few to years ago. He wore chinos and a smart shirt (I advised him that a tie was probably overkill). He came back and reported that one of the interviewers was wearing jeans.
DS got the job - which required wearing a uniform, so no clues from that for interview attire.

FinneganFois · 06/01/2025 11:45

"If you apply for a job nowadays, it's likely the person interviewing you will have been born 1980's ish"

Spot on.

LlynTegid · 06/01/2025 11:43

The trainers I would not object to, jeans depending on their appearance, but tracksuit bottoms I would.

This is the UK where we don't do style or have some pride in appearance. Just visit France for a day and the difference is notable.

ImmortalSnowman · 06/01/2025 11:43

JoeGrundyWasMyRoleModel · 06/01/2025 11:17

I once went for a job as tech support in a senior school a hundred yards from my front door. Four smartly dressed candidates and a tramp. Turns out the tramp was already employed by the school in a more junior role. His interview took a fraction of the time of everybody else and I was informed I wasn’t successful by phone on my way home. Guess who got the job. I felt really sorry about the candidates who had travelled up to 50 miles to get there. I should have complained about their unprofessional methods.

Employing the person most suited to the role is professional.

Conkers2 · 06/01/2025 11:43

Bromptotoo · 06/01/2025 11:29

It absolutely has changed massively.

I worked in the Secretariat of a Quango between 2002 and 2013. The Members, appointed by Ministers, met formally once a month. At the start dark suits and a tie were de riguer on Council Day.

By the time I left it was shirtsleeves and open necks.

The reality is a lot of the job advice I was given as a teen is out dated especially for entry level jobs

Some of it is just old advice handed down through generations for people that haven't interviewed for similar roles in decades.

If you apply for a job now days it's likely the person interviewing you will be born around the 80s ish, lots of the advice routinely given is from people trying to be recuited by generations far above that eg CV advice given to me is predominantly from people who were trying to market themselves to at best people born in the 40s.

I was taught how to do a CV for example by job coachs/teachers and my mum (who was probably taught by her teachers!), all of whom mostly have CV writing experience that is marketed at completely different people

My 60s born father got entry level jobs in a way that outright doesn't work now days for 90% of jobs, then hopped around in specialist interviews with bucketloads of experience.

In fact I could name lots of people who have tried to give me advice who haven't set a foot outside their industry, or even their company in 20+ years.

Like any task you can think of the climate 20+ years ago is very different to now

FinneganFois · 06/01/2025 11:41

Some years ago, before Lockdown, I was interviewed by a young man with three quarter length skinny chinos, no socks and sneakers !
It works both ways, the interviewer should dress appropriately too.
A manager at my previous job met some customers in her gym kit.
I've also been caught out walking to an interview, a car went past and soaked me driving through a massive puddle, I swallowed some of the water ! Needless to say i didn't get the job.