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To hate Americanisms...?

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Groof · 05/01/2025 22:54

I think maybe because it feels like all English-speaking cultures are becoming boring and homogenous.

New ones I've noticed that people in the UK didn't routinely say five years ago but are now EVERYWHERE:

  • birth control (instead of 'contraception' or 'the pill')
  • wait list (instead of waiting list)
  • reach out

Which ones do you hate or AIBU?

OP posts:
SinnerBoy · 08/01/2025 19:47

FatOaf · Yesterday 14:15

But "uni" isn't a word:

It's an abbreviation, surely? I don't think I'd ever heard of it until I saw Neighbours, in 1998 (?).

Pallisers · 08/01/2025 19:45

My children are like HotCrossBun's son. They were raised by two Irish people who still speak with Irish accents and use a lot of Irish vernacular/hiberno-Irish and they went back to Ireland a lot. They use more Irish phrases and constructions than their friends but they certainly wouldn't be authorities on how english is spoken in Ireland.

ErrolTheDragon · 08/01/2025 19:40

@HotCrossBunplease So how come my son is not native fluent in Scottish English then, and does not code switch?

I think @mathanxiety should have said 'can actually confer native fluency in both' rather than does. Because obviously some individuals can do this and others can't, similar to how some people can pick up accents (either temporarily or more permanently switching) and others can't.

ErrolTheDragon · 08/01/2025 19:37

CulturalNomad · 08/01/2025 19:34

Is carrying a torch for someone an American phrase ?

Yes, meaning having a crush/unrequited love

Is it used that way in the UK?

Yes, we use it too. And I'm pretty sure the mental image it might convey is the flaming torch variety not a battery operated one!Grin

HotCrossBunplease · 08/01/2025 19:36

mathanxiety · 08/01/2025 19:25

Having a father who speaks RP English and a mother who speaks Hiberno-English does actually confer native fluency in both. Hence the ability to move seamlessly from one dialect to the other, aka code switching.

After several decades in the US, I've picked up American English too, though I draw the line at the silent H in 'herb'. Fyi, I believe I used the term "fluent speaker" of American English, not "native speaker"; there is a difference that I was careful to observe.

The possibility of having superior knowledge of everything is small, I agree, but as in all things, never zero.

So how come my son is not native fluent in Scottish English then, and does not code switch? Same scenario. Cf all the kids in his class who have parents with completely different accents/dialects to them because they moved to the area from other regions. Such as the boy with a US mother and Australian father who speaks with neither an Australian nor an American accent or vocabulary, even when with his relatives from those countries. Or Canadian London resident Katherine Ryan’s observational comedy about her daughter’s cut-glass English accent.

ThePoliteLion · 08/01/2025 19:36

Cup cakes. Grrr. It’s fairy cakes.

CulturalNomad · 08/01/2025 19:34

Is carrying a torch for someone an American phrase ?

Yes, meaning having a crush/unrequited love

Is it used that way in the UK?

CulturalNomad · 08/01/2025 19:34

Is carrying a torch for someone an American phrase ?

Yes, meaning having a crush/unrequited love

Is it used that way in the UK?

mathanxiety · 08/01/2025 19:31

RitaIncognita · 08/01/2025 18:57

I should add, in the region of the US where I live, "torch" often refers to something that is actually flaming.

Same.

Hence the imagery of 'carrying a torch for Mildred'.

Snorlaxo · 08/01/2025 19:26

South Park have a character called Mr Hankey the Christmas Poo so is it regional or have I remembered it wrong ? Americans on social media seem to say poop.

mathanxiety · 08/01/2025 19:25

HotCrossBunplease · 08/01/2025 07:57

Having ancestors/ relatives brought up somewhere different to you does not make you a native speaker. I am a native speaker of Scottish English. My son was born and brought up in England, by me. He recognises some dialect words/ regional phrasings and of course has no trouble understanding my accent, but would not use those words or phrasings himself and he has no instinctive knowledge of how a Scottish person would say something.

Also, I would never describe myself as a native speaker of English English despite living in England for 32 years since the age of 18.

Why would my mind be remotely boggled that you speak German? I also speak French, Spanish and Portuguese, so what?

All I am saying is that sometimes you seem unwilling to accept what others are saying and you can’t possibly have superior knowledge of everything.

Having a father who speaks RP English and a mother who speaks Hiberno-English does actually confer native fluency in both. Hence the ability to move seamlessly from one dialect to the other, aka code switching.

After several decades in the US, I've picked up American English too, though I draw the line at the silent H in 'herb'. Fyi, I believe I used the term "fluent speaker" of American English, not "native speaker"; there is a difference that I was careful to observe.

The possibility of having superior knowledge of everything is small, I agree, but as in all things, never zero.

Snorlaxo · 08/01/2025 19:24

Is carrying a torch for someone an American phrase ?

I assumed flashlight was American like sidewalk or dish soap?

RaraRachael · 08/01/2025 19:20

DappledThings · 08/01/2025 19:01

Bored waiting in the queue at Pets at Home and just saw another one that regularly annoys me. They are selling poop bags. There is no need for the extra p. They are poo bags. We all poo. I do not poop.

In Scotland it's definitely poop. Never heard poo till I moved to England.

Pooper scooper sounds better than pooer scooper 😁

applestrudels · 08/01/2025 19:08

One I've noticed loads lately is people saying "right?" instead of using tag questions.

The writers of Eastenders are terrible for it, as they seem to have every single character do it, and while it suits some characters, it's totally incongruous for other characters.

So for example, instead of saying "you are coming tonight, aren't you?" a character will say, "you are coming tonight, right?"
Or, instead of "She's the one with the fake eyebrows, isn't she?" it's "she's the one with the fake eyebrows, right?"

It's not the use of "right?" per se that annoys me, but more the seeming erasure of tag questions.

DappledThings · 08/01/2025 19:01

Bored waiting in the queue at Pets at Home and just saw another one that regularly annoys me. They are selling poop bags. There is no need for the extra p. They are poo bags. We all poo. I do not poop.

CulturalNomad · 08/01/2025 19:00

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CulturalNomad · 08/01/2025 19:00

RitaIncognita · 08/01/2025 18:57

I should add, in the region of the US where I live, "torch" often refers to something that is actually flaming.

Also used as a verb meaning to set on fire.

As a child reading about someone "carrying a torch in their pocket" created quite the visual😂

RitaIncognita · 08/01/2025 18:57

I should add, in the region of the US where I live, "torch" often refers to something that is actually flaming.

RitaIncognita · 08/01/2025 18:50

Snorlaxo · 08/01/2025 18:44

I didn’t realise that flashlight was British and torch was American.

I'm pretty sure that it's the other way around. Flashlight is American English; torch is British English. (I'm American.)

Snorlaxo · 08/01/2025 18:44

I didn’t realise that flashlight was British and torch was American.

RitaIncognita · 08/01/2025 18:42

CulturalNomad · 08/01/2025 17:35

And nowadays if there's an unfamiliar word we can look it up so easily!

I love that we can do this so easily now!

I started reading British crime fiction/police procedurals in the early 1980's and had to rely on context when running across an unfamiliar word. Most of the time that was easy enough to do, but occasionally it wasn't so obvious. The word "jumper" always conjured up visions of a female character in a pinafore-style dress which could be quite comical in certain situations.😂

And "torch." I also developed an early love as a young teen for British crime novels, and I remember wondering why people were going about indoors with something on fire to light their way.

mathanxiety · 08/01/2025 18:26

debauchedsloth · 08/01/2025 08:53

@mathanxiety you absolutely do not get to tell me squat. You can share your views, give your opinions, even provide some facts.

And you're definitely American. Surely only an American would be that didactic and arrogant.

Wrong on all counts there, hun.

mathanxiety · 08/01/2025 18:25

Pallisers · 08/01/2025 18:05

I loved it when my american children started using words I had only read as a child in books like Little Women or What Katy Did.

Was it Oscar Wilde who said of USA and UK "two countries divided by a common language"

A lot of the books by American authors that I had read as a child made sense to me on several new levels when I got to the US. Many details of Little Women and Huckleberry Finn, in particular, had left me puzzled.

mathanxiety · 08/01/2025 18:18

It would most likely be termed a "wool sweater" as opposed to woolly.

CulturalNomad · 08/01/2025 18:13

ErrolTheDragon · 08/01/2025 18:03

@CulturalNomad - ah, I knew 'sweater' is the usual term in the US but I'd no idea 'jumper' might be unknown. What about 'woolly'?

I think many Americans would recognize "jumper" as a sweater now, but back in the 80's it was mostly unknown. When the young Princess Diana became a near constant feature in US tabloids more fashion terms crossed the pond.

"Woolly"? Can't say I heard that in New England, but maybe in use in certain other regions tbough.