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Groof · 05/01/2025 22:54

I think maybe because it feels like all English-speaking cultures are becoming boring and homogenous.

New ones I've noticed that people in the UK didn't routinely say five years ago but are now EVERYWHERE:

  • birth control (instead of 'contraception' or 'the pill')
  • wait list (instead of waiting list)
  • reach out

Which ones do you hate or AIBU?

OP posts:
poemsandwine · 06/01/2025 01:18

I'm OK with most but 'could care less' for 'couldn't care less' should be banned forever.

Tipsssy · 06/01/2025 01:17

'Passed' instead of dead/died/passed away

MumOfOneAllAlone · 06/01/2025 01:15

When english influences use an American accent, pisses me off so much!

Goldenbear · 06/01/2025 01:10

CulturalNomad · 06/01/2025 00:38

How do you know that British people under 30 aren't interested in their cultural roots, that's quite a statement to make especially if you are American, it sounds quite arrogant

I wasn't referring to British people or American people in particular. In general most younger people today consider language to be a fluid thing and adopt phrases and slang that resonates with them.

You can be interested in your "cultural roots" and still enjoy the ebb and flow of modern communication.

But language can preserve culture and for children in particular, it is an important part of understanding personal identity. I have DC who are teens both young and late and Americanisms are not used to communicate with us or their friends and they don't use them in essays for college work or any other written work. In fact, it would be quite noticeable if they did and their friends would think it was a bit odd.

It may be because I didn't let them watch endless You Tube videos when they were younger but equally, the books I read to them were very relatable in terms of identity and cultural mores so many of the books written by Julia Donaldson, Peter Rabbit, Wind in the Willows. We had the Disney Channel for free (sky package) when my eldest was 2-3 and he did get obsessed with Handy Manny but it wasn't at all relatable, the way Postman Pat was for example. I have Scandinavian heritage on one side of my family and I very much understand my Grandma had certain traditions that she had inherited from her side of the family, we respected that and celebrated those differences, we didn't try to change her and erase those cultural references; it wasn't an affront to us or racist of her so I don't really understand what is wrong with a British person having those preferences and bringing their children up to have them.

AmiablePedant · 06/01/2025 01:07

HumphreyCushionintheHouse · 05/01/2025 23:48

Words and sayings travel in both directions.

Im British living in US west coast. And I’ve noticed Americans now use words I never heard here 20 years ago, like …..

Cheeky. People used to look at me blankly and now I hear it all the time.
Fortnight. Same as above.
Mobile instead of cell

Loads more than this.

And thanks to Harry Potter, Americans now know that a jumper is not a pinafore dress.

ErrolTheDragon · 06/01/2025 00:59

What's an example of 'noo' in a British context?

Noo year?
But there are British accents which pronounce 'new' as 'noo' anyway.

CulturalNomad · 06/01/2025 00:57

itsparklesitshines · 06/01/2025 00:49

The 'Fanny bag' instead of those horrible waist handbags that we call bumbags Confused

They are a fashion abomination in any language😂

I think we can agree on that!

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 06/01/2025 00:57

2024TN · 06/01/2025 00:26

I used to live in the South where all soda is referred to as “Coke”.

“What coke do you want?”

”Sprite”

Yeah I think soda is more of a Midwestern thing (or at least it was when I was a kid). We called it a 'soft drink' in California back in the 80s. I don't really know if that's the case now. I just remember having this girl join my school. She'd moved from Minnesota and always used the word 'soda' which I thought was weird. And she had a lisp. So I always thought of her as the girl from Minnethota who drinks thoda. I know, it's mean. I was 11. Go easy on me.

itsparklesitshines · 06/01/2025 00:56

P.s. my DSIS lives on the West Coast USA and I love the USA! For balance, my favourite Americanism is that garden (yard!) tool known as a weed whacker - it's a strimmer here!

itsparklesitshines · 06/01/2025 00:53

@GulfCoast
And in the Uk, the 'Fanny' is your vagina, which is why it sounds so wrong to us Brits!

RobertaFirmino · 06/01/2025 00:52

Getting a prescription filled.
Swap out
Plenty. As in 'He's plenty old enough to know better'.

steff13 · 06/01/2025 00:50

Castilla · 06/01/2025 00:49

A couple things ...:
It's a couple OF things!

And it's "in THE hospital," not "in hospital."

GulfCoast · 06/01/2025 00:50

itsparklesitshines · 06/01/2025 00:49

The 'Fanny bag' instead of those horrible waist handbags that we call bumbags Confused

We call it a fanny pack.

Castilla · 06/01/2025 00:49

A couple things ...:
It's a couple OF things!

GulfCoast · 06/01/2025 00:49

DiscoBeat · 05/01/2025 23:49

I wonder this too. In our house it means water from the soda syphon. Otherwise the teens will get a coke or lemonade from the fridge (sorry, cooler 🤣)

A cooler is a box you take on a picnic or to an outdoor event with drinks/food in it. Not sure what you call it in the UK (I’m an American living in the US). The appliance in the kitchen is a refrigerator. Interestingly, I regularly see “American refrigerator” on here and I assumed it meant one that is made in the US and I wondered why that mattered enough to mention it, or how it would even fe viable in the UK due to the different voltage and outlets. But I eventually realized they were talking about what we call “French door refrigerators”.

It bothers me when people use Americanisms thinking they sound “cool” but they are using them incorrectly. I once saw on here someone posting about being comfortable on the couch watching the TV and her husband texted to say he would be home at x time and would like to have dinner when he got home. She then said “so I will have to haul ass off the sofa in an hour and into the kitchen”. I think she thought “haul ass” means to drag something bulky, and was being lighthearted about being heavy. But “haul ass” means to rush, move very quickly, like when you are late for work or something important. Not what she meant at all.

itsparklesitshines · 06/01/2025 00:49

The 'Fanny bag' instead of those horrible waist handbags that we call bumbags Confused

MyChumYumYum · 06/01/2025 00:49

Here we go again...

Many of these words and expressions were taken to the USA by emigrants from all parts of Britain and many are still commonly used in the various countries of Britain.

"Can I have" is used in Scotland and Ireland.
"Halloween" originated in Scotland and Ireland.
"Gotten" is from old English and Scots, and still used by many Scottish people.
"Candy" is 17th century Scots, as is "Candyman".
"Sydwalk" is a Scots word attested from the 17th century.
"Cookie" was used in Scotland from the 17th century, from the Dutch work "koekje".

Those complaining about the erosion of "British" culture should remember it doesn't exist. There is your local culture, and there is everyone else's local culture. Britain contains three countries with very different histories, languages and traditions, and some of us are quite at ease with some of the old words coming back, and are happy to embrace some of the new words that come our way.

So you speak your way, please, and stop complaining about those who speak their way.

N.B. I know Ireland isn't part of Britain - included it because it shares some traditions with Scotland.

CosyOpalMoose · 06/01/2025 00:46

A bunch of.
Fine for things that come in bunches, flowers, grapes, bananas.
Not good as a general word for quantity.

dreamingbohemian · 06/01/2025 00:45

MumblesParty · 06/01/2025 00:42

@dreamingbohemian I think she means the pronunciation of new as noo in any context, and gave New York as an example.

OK but that's a terrible example, because 'Noo' York is correct

What's an example of 'noo' in a British context?

mathanxiety · 06/01/2025 00:45

dentalflosser · 05/01/2025 23:42

I know there are way more important things going on in the world but:
Reach out - makes me imagine a giant arm and hand trying to grab something.
Garbage
Moving forward - instead of in future.
Happy Holidays
Making a huge fuss about Halloween.

Some of these 'Americanisms' don't translate as directly as you think they do.

Reach out, for example, implies a generous offer to share wisdom or experience or a shoulder to cry on.
Moving forward is more nuanced than 'in future'. Implicit there is the idea of moving forward together or the idea that you're getting a boost of some sort.

Making a big fuss about Hallowe'en has always been done in Ireland, where the holiday originated (with a Scottish origin too). It is a really big folk holiday, celebrated for centuries.

Happy Holidays is a greeting that makes sense in a multicultural society where wishing someone Merry Christmas might not be appropriate (because lots celebrate Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, Diwali, solstice, etc). Holiday retains its original Holy Day or special day or sacred day meaning in US English. It doesn't mean your annual trip to the Costa Brava.

MumblesParty · 06/01/2025 00:42

dreamingbohemian · 06/01/2025 00:35

How on earth can you complain about people pronouncing New York the way New Yorkers pronounce it

@dreamingbohemian I think she means the pronunciation of new as noo in any context, and gave New York as an example.

steff13 · 06/01/2025 00:41

YankSplaining · 06/01/2025 00:32

What?! I’m an American and I’ve never heard of this in my life.

Nor have I. Now, "giving someone a talking to," would be considered a bad thing, because it implies you're in trouble. But just "talk to?" Not inherently bad in my opinion.

SleepyCrow15 · 06/01/2025 00:40

“Let’s go to the art exhibit” instead of exhibition.

I’ve really tried to understand “I could care less” instead of “I couldn’t care less”, but I just can’t.

CongraDulations.

pronouncing words such as ammunition, ending in ‘tion’ , as ammuni’shin’ instead of ‘shun’.

I have to admit it all looks a bit petty written down, but I read somewhere that some people’s brains process these things in a different way and find it more grating than other people do.

MumblesParty · 06/01/2025 00:39

Femme2804 · 06/01/2025 00:26

I really curious here. I’m not english so i wanna ask, why you hate americanism? Its just language? Why though?

@Femme2804 I can’t speak for other posters, but I hate them because it feels like a rejection of the language I have grown up with, my native language, English. It’s as if people think English English isn’t cool enough, so they want to sound like Americans instead. Also I was the first person who spoke to my children and taught them how to speak. I want them to use the words I taught them, not words they’ve picked up from American TikToks!

CulturalNomad · 06/01/2025 00:38

How do you know that British people under 30 aren't interested in their cultural roots, that's quite a statement to make especially if you are American, it sounds quite arrogant

I wasn't referring to British people or American people in particular. In general most younger people today consider language to be a fluid thing and adopt phrases and slang that resonates with them.

You can be interested in your "cultural roots" and still enjoy the ebb and flow of modern communication.

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