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To hate Americanisms...?

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Groof · 05/01/2025 22:54

I think maybe because it feels like all English-speaking cultures are becoming boring and homogenous.

New ones I've noticed that people in the UK didn't routinely say five years ago but are now EVERYWHERE:

  • birth control (instead of 'contraception' or 'the pill')
  • wait list (instead of waiting list)
  • reach out

Which ones do you hate or AIBU?

OP posts:
Treaclewell · 06/01/2025 18:45

ErrolTheDragon · 06/01/2025 16:49

@Treaclewell - and peppercorns.

And the small roundish painful things on toes. I forgot those!

UndergroundOvergroundWomblingFreeby · 06/01/2025 18:45

RawBloomers · 05/01/2025 23:39

Lots of Americanisms are uses that were common in Britain when Brits first moved over there but then fell out of favour here. This thread is just poorly disguised racism.

The annoyance is British people picking up and using Americanisms instead of using English words.
The French get annoyed with Franglais so why shouldn't we dislike Ameriglish?
Another cringe is 'myself' replacing me' or 'I'. I don't think that's an Americanism though.

ExquisiteSocialSkills · 06/01/2025 18:44

‘I eat healthy.’ instead of ‘I eat healthily.’

‘I could care less.’ Doesn’t make sense.

Talking about people/things having ‘Heart.’ I don’t know why because I agree it’s basically a good thing, it’s just the expression itself.

Deedee248
I agree about ‘obligated’.

Andylion · 06/01/2025 18:44

Deedee248 · 06/01/2025 18:00

I would call it a cake stall or a coffee morning, or even a baking sale (ie sale of your baking). So many Americanisms drop the ‘ing’, eg wait(ing) list, row(ing) boat, jump(ing, or ideally skipping) rope etc.

Thanks. I had seen it mentioned twice on this thread and couldn’t think what the UK alternative would be.

I’m Canadian, by the way, and have gotten used to most of the UK expressions here, “fell pregnant” being one that amuses me.

I have to use “gotten” as it feels wrong or pretentious to use “got”. But whenever I talk about a tv show from the UK, I use the word “series”. For any other country’s programming, whether it’s Canada, the US, Spain, etc, I use season.

phoenixrosehere · 06/01/2025 18:39

ErrolTheDragon · 06/01/2025 18:23

Yes! I was talking an out this at work - cake sale has now become bake sale.

That's a good change imo as it's inclusive of baked goods other than cakes.Grin

Yes. Bit weird to be annoyed by bake sale when it is baked goods being sold, not just cakes more often than not.

Half the annoyances some people hate aren’t even used widely in the States and like most ways language is used, is dependent on regions, no different than it is here or in most countries.

Greenfinch7 · 06/01/2025 18:27

StarlightLady · 06/01/2025 09:56

Irony often doesn’t come over in the written word. I’m a little surprised you don’t know that 😬.

Thought it was pretty obvious in my post.

The written word can certainly be the haven of irony, though only if it is handled masterfully and read with some degree of thoughtfulness... neither of which happens very often on mumsnet.

Createausername1970 · 06/01/2025 18:25

KeenGreen · 05/01/2025 23:06

Thought of more!

‘Math’ instead of maths

and legos instead of Lego

minor irritations again 😬

Oh yes! Legos. That grates.

ErrolTheDragon · 06/01/2025 18:23

Yes! I was talking an out this at work - cake sale has now become bake sale.

That's a good change imo as it's inclusive of baked goods other than cakes.Grin

Superhansrantowindsor · 06/01/2025 18:23

And another one ……
I hate it when they remove words like and.
for example, go get your bag. Rather than go and get your bag.
Similarly - the new film is out January 24th. It should be the new film is out ON January THE 24th.

I don’t like that New Year’s Eve is now just called new years.

Also putting already at the end of a sentence.
“go get your coat already’ or ‘I’m tired of waiting already ‘ instead of I’m already tired of waiting for you.

SerafinasGoose · 06/01/2025 18:21

gotmyknickersinatwist · 06/01/2025 18:19

Or as in Ireland, north & south I'm sure, drop the 'arse' & hole has you covered.
'Aye, yer hole' translates as 'yeah right', 'sit your hole down there & I'll stick the kettle on' etc.

Where I come from in Yorkshire, 'put t'wood in t'ole' means close the door.

To the uninitated I dread to think what misinterpretations might abound from that one!

gotmyknickersinatwist · 06/01/2025 18:19

Lafee · 06/01/2025 17:46

I thought ass was a reference to the fleshy bum part, and arse was the actual hole?
Sorry to be so direct 🙏🏻

Or as in Ireland, north & south I'm sure, drop the 'arse' & hole has you covered.
'Aye, yer hole' translates as 'yeah right', 'sit your hole down there & I'll stick the kettle on' etc.

StarlightLady · 06/01/2025 18:17

l made a lighthearted response up thread, but I think it’s getting too serious now. Yes there are terms l dislike, such as that awful word “panties”. Then, there are variations of words in different parts of the UK.

Language evolves. Look at Shakespeare, look at Chaucer. The important thing is that we can understand each other.

Superhansrantowindsor · 06/01/2025 18:15

Deedee248 · 06/01/2025 18:00

I would call it a cake stall or a coffee morning, or even a baking sale (ie sale of your baking). So many Americanisms drop the ‘ing’, eg wait(ing) list, row(ing) boat, jump(ing, or ideally skipping) rope etc.

Yes! I was talking an out this at work - cake sale has now become bake sale. I blame bake off!

Superhansrantowindsor · 06/01/2025 18:11

Movie for film
pillow for cushion
wait list
drivers licence
licence plate - this one really pisses me off!
pissed for pissed off.
I’ll think of more m sure.

sanityisamyth · 06/01/2025 18:11

All Americanisms annoy me. We have a perfectly good language but it's been eroded by YouTube and American tv. Most things they say don't make sense!

FatOaf · 06/01/2025 18:05

Lately on CNN discussing" See ree ya" instead of Syria .Drives me bonkers

(a) CNN is an American channel. Of course American English will be spoken there.

(b) In Arabic it's pronounced Sūriyyah, which I think is closer to the American pronunciation (an Arabic speaker might contradict me). It's not an English word, so there's no reason why a particular English-speaking people's pronunciation would take precedence.

AgnesX · 06/01/2025 18:03

CatchHimDerry · 05/01/2025 23:08

where do you all live? I don’t hear hardly any of these!

Apart from the “can I get” one, which everyone does say now actually. Probably me included, oops

That one has me grinding my teeth, it's more local than American.

no you fecking can't!

PinkTonic · 06/01/2025 18:01

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 06/01/2025 17:05

Arsed means bothered in this context. It's got nothing to do with being askedvto do something.

This bothers me much more than a few words and phrases from American films and culture, and I see it all the time on here along with could/should of and the like (pedalstall!) It shows that people don’t read, which is a pity.

I work with Americans and we regularly thoroughly enjoy the nuances of our shared language.

Deedee248 · 06/01/2025 18:00

Andylion · 06/01/2025 17:34

@Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue , what is UK English for bake sale?

I would call it a cake stall or a coffee morning, or even a baking sale (ie sale of your baking). So many Americanisms drop the ‘ing’, eg wait(ing) list, row(ing) boat, jump(ing, or ideally skipping) rope etc.

Lafee · 06/01/2025 17:46

YourGladSquid · 06/01/2025 01:41

I welcome ass replacing arse. What a disgusting word 😭

I thought ass was a reference to the fleshy bum part, and arse was the actual hole?
Sorry to be so direct 🙏🏻

gotmyknickersinatwist · 06/01/2025 17:43

Deedee248 · 06/01/2025 17:06

Yes I think you’re right about that. Unbelievably I heard a journalist recently referring to when the King was coronated!!! I’m not saying this is an Americanism. I was just gobsmacked to hear someone using such an expression!

But I'll be damned if I ever say obligated!
Obliged is a word I'll take to my hill to die on.

gotmyknickersinatwist · 06/01/2025 17:34

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 15:18

It IS meant to be sarcastic.. I could care less but I don’t.

But it still doesn't make sense that way!
And I've never heard it used as a sarcastic phrase, only ever as a straightforward statement.

Andylion · 06/01/2025 17:34

@Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue , what is UK English for bake sale?

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 06/01/2025 17:27

BarbaraHoward · 06/01/2025 17:09

What would you say, poorly? That's a very English phrase, we'd definitely say sick for a cold here (Ireland).

I'd say 'ill' or 'unwell'. 'Sick' is definitely used to mean unwell in some contexts in England though. 'She was off sick' or 'a sick note'.

Lafee · 06/01/2025 17:26

AngelsWithSilverWings · 06/01/2025 00:13

@Iloveyoubut what would you say instead of meds? Is it the abbreviation of medication that irritates you or something else?

Just interested as we say meds a lot in our house as our DD has a lot of medication and it's just become easier to ask her if she has taken her meds rather than asking if she has taken her medication. I've never thought it was an Americanism. When referring to collecting her medication from the pharmacy we say that we are ordering or picking up her prescription.

She doesn't like us using the word drugs as she thinks it sounds bad so we started saying medication instead.

I agree that being on meds, sounds more like you're on prescription drugs.

I'd never say (for instance) "I take drugs daily ", as for me, that conjures up an image of a coke head 😱

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