Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To hate Americanisms...?

768 replies

Groof · 05/01/2025 22:54

I think maybe because it feels like all English-speaking cultures are becoming boring and homogenous.

New ones I've noticed that people in the UK didn't routinely say five years ago but are now EVERYWHERE:

  • birth control (instead of 'contraception' or 'the pill')
  • wait list (instead of waiting list)
  • reach out

Which ones do you hate or AIBU?

OP posts:
AllProperTeaIsTheft · 07/01/2025 15:46

People do tend to fall over themselves to claim Americanisms 'don't make sense', without making any allowance for some words' range of meaning (even in Britsh English).

HotCrossBunplease · 07/01/2025 15:35

FatOaf · 07/01/2025 14:15

Someone told me the word university or uni, even, was considered pretentious in the USA, they say 'college', or even 'school'.
I refer to it as 'uni', sorry!

But "uni" isn't a word: it's a prefix. I recognise it's now so widespread that it's listed in dictionaries as an informal usage, but people saying "uni" instead of university irks me far more than most of the examples in this thread. If you really can't cope with five syllables, I think college would be preferable to "uni".

Declaration of interest: I am a member of academic staff of a university.

I think I love you.

Funnywonder · 07/01/2025 14:44

RaraRachael · 07/01/2025 14:40

@Funnywonder same here in Scotland. Maybe it's a case of people thinking the UK just consists of England.

People being English people😅 I strongly suspect you are right.

RaraRachael · 07/01/2025 14:40

@Funnywonder same here in Scotland. Maybe it's a case of people thinking the UK just consists of England.

Funnywonder · 07/01/2025 14:38

Powersout · 07/01/2025 14:32

'Can I get?'
It's only a matter of time before I explode in the Starbucks queue and scream 'It's 'Can. I. HAVE!!!!'

Oh dear. That’s a bit extreme. I think you’ll find that many on here also have an issue with the ‘can’ part of it. As in it should be ‘MAY I have …?’ I don’t mind though because we’re can-I-getting all over the place here in NI. The Americans probably got it from us😅

RaraRachael · 07/01/2025 14:35

It's. Can. I GET. In. Much.Of. Britain.

How many times?

Powersout · 07/01/2025 14:32

'Can I get?'
It's only a matter of time before I explode in the Starbucks queue and scream 'It's 'Can. I. HAVE!!!!'

jannier · 07/01/2025 14:29

Kidos ....why just why

FatOaf · 07/01/2025 14:27

I'm not American and everyone where I am says "can I get". Everyone.

Agreed. It's very widespread, and I really can't see much wrong with it. On a web site where 75% of people don't know the difference between "bear" and "bare", between "ball" and "bawl", etc., and where anyone who corrects someone's grammar/spelling is attacked vigorously, it's suprising to see so much vitriol about a common and trivial variation from "standard" English.

FatOaf · 07/01/2025 14:15

Someone told me the word university or uni, even, was considered pretentious in the USA, they say 'college', or even 'school'.
I refer to it as 'uni', sorry!

But "uni" isn't a word: it's a prefix. I recognise it's now so widespread that it's listed in dictionaries as an informal usage, but people saying "uni" instead of university irks me far more than most of the examples in this thread. If you really can't cope with five syllables, I think college would be preferable to "uni".

Declaration of interest: I am a member of academic staff of a university.

StarlightLady · 07/01/2025 13:05

Dreamingoftheunknown · 07/01/2025 12:38

But I think - as has been mentioned multiple times already - "can I GET..." has to be the very worst Americanism we now seem to be lumbered with.

I give up!!!🤯
(Hopefully you are joking??)

The worst Americanism we are lumbered with is Trump. Which, interestingly, means something different in the UK 😀.

RitaIncognita · 07/01/2025 13:05

Fordian · 07/01/2025 12:31

Someone told me the word university or uni, even, was considered pretentious in the USA, they say 'college', or even 'school'.

I refer to it as 'uni', sorry!

It depends. People do generally say "going to college" for anything from the local junior college to Harvard. But the need to use the word "university" arises often. For one thing, there are colleges that are not universities, and the distinction sometimes needs to be explained. And, of course, most universities have the word in their name. The word "university" is often used in the US, and no one shortens it to "uni."

SabrinaToolmaker · 07/01/2025 12:50

Are “I can’t speak to that” or “with that being said” phrases that originated in the US? I’m sure I’ve heard them more said by Americans but I could be wrong. Anyway they irritate me.

wholettheturnipsburn · 07/01/2025 12:44

CagneyAndLazy · 07/01/2025 12:25

Oh god, where to start!

I spend a lot of time working the US and on calls with US customers which is bad enough but then hearing all the Americanisms when home drives me insane.

I've heard several British born and bred people using American pronunciations, now, too.

o-REG-ano for oregano
Bay-zel for basil
Rowt for route

Then there's "license plate" instead of number plate (and yes, it's always 'licenSe' instead of 'licenCe' when they do it.

Windshield instead of windscreen, etc., etc.

But I think - as has been mentioned multiple times already - "can I GET..." has to be the very worst Americanism we now seem to be lumbered with.

I'm not American and everyone where I am says "can I get". Everyone.

RaraRachael · 07/01/2025 12:43

But I think - as has been mentioned multiple times already - "can I GET..." has to be the very worst Americanism we now seem to be lumbered with.

But, as has been pointed out before it's not American. It's the normal way to ask for things in Scotland (and I believe Ireland).

"Please may I have...." you'd be laughed out of the shop where I live

BarbaraHoward · 07/01/2025 12:39

Fordian · 07/01/2025 12:31

Someone told me the word university or uni, even, was considered pretentious in the USA, they say 'college', or even 'school'.

I refer to it as 'uni', sorry!

We say college in Ireland too (south of the border, it's uni in NI).

Dreamingoftheunknown · 07/01/2025 12:38

But I think - as has been mentioned multiple times already - "can I GET..." has to be the very worst Americanism we now seem to be lumbered with.

I give up!!!🤯
(Hopefully you are joking??)

Fordian · 07/01/2025 12:31

RitaIncognita · 06/01/2025 20:44

It's true that some British terms have crossed the pond. "Bonkers," "bespoke," "fancy' (for liking something), "gobsmacked," and "shag" are some examples.

As long as we don't start saying "uni" for university and "I was sat," it's fine with me.

Someone told me the word university or uni, even, was considered pretentious in the USA, they say 'college', or even 'school'.

I refer to it as 'uni', sorry!

CagneyAndLazy · 07/01/2025 12:25

Oh god, where to start!

I spend a lot of time working the US and on calls with US customers which is bad enough but then hearing all the Americanisms when home drives me insane.

I've heard several British born and bred people using American pronunciations, now, too.

o-REG-ano for oregano
Bay-zel for basil
Rowt for route

Then there's "license plate" instead of number plate (and yes, it's always 'licenSe' instead of 'licenCe' when they do it.

Windshield instead of windscreen, etc., etc.

But I think - as has been mentioned multiple times already - "can I GET..." has to be the very worst Americanism we now seem to be lumbered with.

tilypu · 07/01/2025 12:24

What I hate, are people trying to convince others that words and events are Americanisms, when they have existed in this country for way longer than living memory - just not in the south of England.

Thinking as examples - gotten, Santa, trick or treating (although when I was child, it was called 'guising', but it was the same thing)

But Scotland, Northern Ireland, the North of England apparently don't count....

helloworld19 · 07/01/2025 12:17

Sorry I don't know why that posted twice!

helloworld19 · 07/01/2025 12:13

I'm American and definitely not familiar with several of these Americanisms, it's a big country with huge regional variations though. This thread did remind me of this light-hearted sketch though :)

- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music that you love, upload original content and share it all with friends, family and the world on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JYqfVE-fykk

helloworld19 · 07/01/2025 12:09

I'm American and definitely not familiar with several of these Americanisms, it's a big country with huge regional variations though. This thread did remind me of this light-hearted sketch though :)

- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music that you love, upload original content and share it all with friends, family and the world on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JYqfVE-fykk

Dreamingoftheunknown · 07/01/2025 10:09

BarbaraHoward · 07/01/2025 07:16

My technical grammar knowledge is crap, but gotten is just a particular tense of the verb to get.

I went to the shop, I got milk.

I should have gone to the shop, I would have gotten milk.

I think in some areas of England they use "got" in both of those, but not in Ireland, parts of Scotland, the US, Australia etc etc.

Oh absolutely. I was just trying to give pp some examples of the senses in which it’s commonly used. It can mean much more than ‘obtained’.

Funnywonder · 07/01/2025 08:55

Language evolves and that is exactly what I find so fascinating about it. We don't speak or write in the same way as people in Shakespeare's time. In fact Shakespeare was keen on churning out new words and expressions, many of which have remained as part of modern language. But then he was English of course, not American, and there's nothing like a good old dose of xenophobia to bring people together.

I hear non Irish people using the word 'craic' sometimes and find it both funny and quite heartwarming. I will defend 'gotten' to my last breath! It is completely and utterly commonplace in NI and definitely not an 'Americanism' - not that it matters. Maybe I'm more relaxed about language changing because of the history of suppression of the Irish language. I can't help but think 'hell slap it up ye', as we like to say around these parts😆

Swipe left for the next trending thread