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Avoiding UPFs at breakfast

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Ayechinnyreckon · 05/01/2025 20:17

After breakfast we eat virtually no UPFs but the kids breakfast is a huge issue.

They wake early and are hungry. They're 9&6 so can be trusted to go downstairs, get themselves some cereal and occupy themselves in the morning until we get up.

They eat cereal and pastries mainly until we get up and make a more substantial breakfast if they want it) 90mins - 2 hours later.

AIBU to want quick and easy breakfast that the DC can get themselves? So I don't have to get up at 5.30!

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MumWifeOther · 06/01/2025 09:46

AhBiscuits · 06/01/2025 08:10

Bake your own! I make sourdough and it's so easy. A loaf costs me about 50p to make. It only contains flour, water and salt, not a UPF to be seen, and tastes amazing.

Do you use a sourdough starter? Do you have a recioe? I really should !

CarefulN0w · 06/01/2025 09:46

Yes Instagram the well known scientific research site. 🙄🙄

@QuestionableMouse, I didn't suggest it was scientific research. It's a useful resource for ideas and products that other people have found. Avoiding UPF where possible doesn't need anyone to knit their own lentils or become a kitchen martyr and it's good to share knowledge.

LuckySantangelo35 · 06/01/2025 09:36

AhBiscuits · 06/01/2025 08:10

Bake your own! I make sourdough and it's so easy. A loaf costs me about 50p to make. It only contains flour, water and salt, not a UPF to be seen, and tastes amazing.

@AhBiscuits

maybe she has other things she’d rather be doing other than baking bread? Like going to the gym or doing her hobbies or just relaxing?

erihskreb · 06/01/2025 08:59

Are you happy for the 9yo to use the microwave? I batch cook ful medames (Egyptian breakfast dish made of fava beans) at the weekend - it’s very substantial with pitta/flatbread and is easily reheated in the microwave.

QuestionableMouse · 06/01/2025 08:46

CarefulN0w · 05/01/2025 20:32

Some Greek yoghurts are UPF free. There is a UPF free instagram account that is a handy guide for some ideas.

Yes Instagram the well known scientific research site. 🙄🙄

Crunchymum · 06/01/2025 08:42

Why can't they just wait for you / dad to get up @Ayechinnyreckon ?

They get up at 6am as usual, build dens etc and then the adult gets up at 7am and makes them one healthy breakfast? Negates the sugary crap / 2 breakfast situation completely.

I'm very impressed that your DC are able to left to their own devices without complete anarchy. Mine are 12, 10 and 7 and need chivvying along in the morning!!

Wizzardry · 06/01/2025 08:40

@Ayechinnyreckon I don't know how your kids aren't starving by 10am at school if they eat at 6am.

I hear what you say about one of them being autistic and having their own set pattern.But they will have life experiences where they simply have to fit in with others and change their behaviour.

It's far too long to go from 6am to 12pm at school unless you're providing a healthy snack for break and if school allows snacks then.

Wizzardry · 06/01/2025 08:33

I'm fully aware that that's what he's saying. My point, which is made much more eloquently in that linked podcast, is that actually there is very little evidence for the harms that he claims.

@samarrange No, you're not fully aware because if you were, you'd not be disagreeing.

Maybe you've not seen the TV prog he did a while back? He ate UPFs for a while and had brain scans before and after - science. Done by doctors at UCHL.
The difference was astounding. The damage to the neurons was terrifying. I suggest you watch that programme before making more comments.

As for 'poor people' - it's not about money but education. A kilo of porridge oats is a fraction of the cost of packets of cereal with 30% sugar.
Saying they are 'not in control' is bollocks and also insulting to these 'poor people'.

Wizzardry · 06/01/2025 08:27

My concern is that any child eating breakfast at 5.30 or 6am will be starving again by 9.30am at school. It's not good for their concentration or behaviour.

I fully understand the 'rigid' behaviour of children with autism, but at the same time they have to be able to change their behaviour, not use it as a 'catch all' for behaviour that isn't in their best interests.

If they were starving, I'd put a flask of cold milk by their beds and a banana and maybe a packet of oat cakes.

Wizzardry · 06/01/2025 08:24

nopdhhd · 05/01/2025 21:43

@Wizzardry weetabix is UPF, and unless OP is making her own bread is one of the worst offenders for UPF.

There are some breads available that are not UPF @nopdhhd

We buy one from Waitrose that has no emulsifiers or anything added. It's a Duchy Organic wholegrain with seeds. There are also more bakeries now selling sourdough (genuine) .

Weetabix is not classed as ultraprocessed. It is processed, by the fact the grains undergo a process. If a child has to have cereal out of a box, it's one of the better ones.

AhBiscuits · 06/01/2025 08:10

MumWifeOther · 05/01/2025 23:56

I don’t toast Jason’s - only the ciabattin loaf needs toasting in my opinion. All 3 of my kids have the sourdough for the sandwiches in their packed lunch. Though it does cost me a fortune as we average a loaf a day 😢

Bake your own! I make sourdough and it's so easy. A loaf costs me about 50p to make. It only contains flour, water and salt, not a UPF to be seen, and tastes amazing.

Mishmashs · 06/01/2025 08:01

Don’t know why you’re getting a hard time OP for trying to feed your kids healthier foods! We’re not perfect but the kids breakfasts are usually cereal (bran flakes, weetabix, bought or homemade granola, bought muesli), toast (most often bought bread but I make a couple of loaves a month), pancakes (Mary berry drop scone recipe), and their absolute fave - overnight oats! Mine would be horrified at boiled eggs and spinach! They each got a jar of Nutella in their stocking but it’s not something we have in really, for toast we use a good quality peanut butter, jam, marmite or honey.

gotmyknickersinatwist · 06/01/2025 02:19

Thecrawdadssing · 05/01/2025 23:47

This thread has encouraged me to order a glass container and make some homemade granola.

I used to like the supermarket stuff but increasingly don’t like most of them them whereas I’ve dry roasted oats and almonds and thrown in some honey for a very simple one portion granola and it tasted so good.

So I think I’ll sit and have a proper go of making granola and make a large enough proton to last a week.

I have liked one or two supermarkets granolas though, I just wish I could remember which ones they were 😂

A proton is much too wee to last a week.

User79853257976 · 06/01/2025 01:39

Shredded wheat is not a UPF and they can do it themselves.

katter · 06/01/2025 01:20

ObliviousCoalmine · 05/01/2025 23:49

I came to say this. It's just another thing aimed mostly at women to add guilt and work onto an already full plate (no pun intended).

Do you think men are spending a significant amount of time reconciling whether it's ok to give their child a specific type of jam in the morning? They're absolutely not.

How is it more work to buy granola instead of cereals or make a fruitshake instead of popping something in the toaster?
Also more men then women are overwheight so clearly women care more about healthy eating.

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 06/01/2025 00:30

samarrange · 06/01/2025 00:21

I'm fully aware that that's what he's saying. My point, which is made much more eloquently in that linked podcast, is that actually there is very little evidence for the harms that he claims.

We have been here before with the demonisation of fat. Basically, since the end of the 1950s everyone has been looking for "the next tobacco", but the research is basically a bin fire, partly due to conflicts of interest, which in the case of nutrition science are on all sides, not just the makers of sugary cereals. The organic lobby is huge, and heavily backed by supermarkets - their mark-ups on organic produce are so much higher because people who buy organic are much less "price-sensitive".

As a PP said, you probably shouldn't be eating Coco Pops with added sugar for every meal, but the idea that there is one single attribute common to UPFs that is not found in any non-UPFs is ridiculous. Ultimately this comes down to making poorer people feel bad (again) about situations that are not always within their control.

Poorer people on average have much poorer health. Unlike wealth, genetics, disability etc. diet is one health input that people do have control over. Do you not want people to be given information about how they could adapt their diet to improve their health, for fear of making them feel bad?

samarrange · 06/01/2025 00:21

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 05/01/2025 23:50

I'm sure if you heard a scientist or doctor saying exactly what you wanted to hear, you wouldn't be so quick to accuse them of 'making a career out of it'. Confirmation bias - the ones you agree with are respectable, the ones you don't agree with must have an agenda.

The heart of what Van Tulleken is saying is:
-Whole food, in or close to its natural state, is what you have evolved to eat.
-Packaged food made in factories is produced to maximise profits and not with your good health as a priority.
-The former is therefore almost always better for you than the latter, and is what you should aim for as much as possible.

Taking the celebrities and internet experts out of the equation for a minute, does anyone actually disagree with this? If you do, I'd love to hear your reasons.

I'm fully aware that that's what he's saying. My point, which is made much more eloquently in that linked podcast, is that actually there is very little evidence for the harms that he claims.

We have been here before with the demonisation of fat. Basically, since the end of the 1950s everyone has been looking for "the next tobacco", but the research is basically a bin fire, partly due to conflicts of interest, which in the case of nutrition science are on all sides, not just the makers of sugary cereals. The organic lobby is huge, and heavily backed by supermarkets - their mark-ups on organic produce are so much higher because people who buy organic are much less "price-sensitive".

As a PP said, you probably shouldn't be eating Coco Pops with added sugar for every meal, but the idea that there is one single attribute common to UPFs that is not found in any non-UPFs is ridiculous. Ultimately this comes down to making poorer people feel bad (again) about situations that are not always within their control.

Hayley1256 · 06/01/2025 00:00

Could you make them some muffins, banana bread, granola bars for when the wake up? One of these with fruit and yogurt is a good breakfast.

MumWifeOther · 05/01/2025 23:56

Wordau · 05/01/2025 23:09

Many supermarkets I've found sell non or minimal UPF bread ready sliced. You don't need to make your own. Tesco does a sourdough loaf with no emulsifier or preservative, Sainsburys does ciabatta, pitta and a few loaves along the same lines - they might contain some ascorbic acid or barley malt. Lots sell Jason's bread (but it needs toasting).

Obviously your own bread may taste better and be slightly less processed but you don't need to go to a hipster bakery and spend 6 quid on a loaf to get something half decent. Just read the labels.

I don’t toast Jason’s - only the ciabattin loaf needs toasting in my opinion. All 3 of my kids have the sourdough for the sandwiches in their packed lunch. Though it does cost me a fortune as we average a loaf a day 😢

namestevalian · 05/01/2025 23:53

OtterlyMad · 05/01/2025 20:22

What’s wrong with cereal and pastries? It sounds like your children are currently having 2 breakfasts which is very odd. I would just give them a snack of fruit mid-morning if they complain of being hungry before lunch.

Well it's just sugar . No protein or healthy fats

Thecrawdadssing · 05/01/2025 23:52

Ayechinnyreckon · 05/01/2025 23:44

Well, we're somewhere in the middle! DS is allowed downstairs at 6am and DC2 whenever she wakes up. They can have what they want from a pre-determined selection of things (which is the selection I'm looking at adjusting off the back of this thread). They aren't allowed to use the oven or hob or knives and crafting is allowed but with the safety scissors only. They tend to make dens, build stuff out of Lego it draw. Usually with netflix on in the background. They've to be dressed for school by 8am. They're ace kids and we've had not had much trouble from this system and I'm definitely enjoying a bit more sleep!

Me and my brothers were the same. So are my nieces & godchildren. We were all perfectly capable to be up before my mum in primary school.

I assume the kids in that story with the chaotic kitchen had parents who didn’t mind them messing up the kitchen, if the pancake making was a regular thing I mean . I can’t see many parents allowing that.

I have suffered from sleep deprivation for long periods of time and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Sleep is so important so if you don’t need to wake up at 5.30am you’re quite right not to!

Jk987 · 05/01/2025 23:51

Weetabix and shredded Wheat are ok.

Don't buy pastries. Bananas, dates and nuts instead.

ODFOx · 05/01/2025 23:51

Tealpins · 05/01/2025 20:31

Oh my god. UPF is pure bullshit.

There's some evidence about food cooked at very high temperatures- but you can get muesli if this worries you.

UPF is wellness grifting bullshit tweaked to hit all the middle class prejudice hot buttons. Sliced bread from Aldi: Poison. Baguette from your local artisan sourdough place with a queue of bearded blokes: totally fine.

Come on people.

We'll, it isn't. But there is a wide difference between processed cereal, fake plant milk, fruit squash as a breakfast and a cube of oat, egg and cheddar flapjack.
The world if artificial additives is so confusing. In my head (for my sanity), it works like this: any food that can't be made nice by the way it is cooked or the addition of other foods can't be ok. If it needs to have something artificial or unrecognisable added it isn't good.
Basically if it only tastes good because of artificial stuff then it isn't good for you.

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 05/01/2025 23:50

samarrange · 05/01/2025 23:32

Yes, Chris van Tulleken is making quite a career out of the whole UPF thing. But maybe that's part of what PP was referring to as the grift.

I recommend this podcast, by a respected scientist and science writer, for some sober evaluation of UPFs: www.thestudiesshowpod.com/p/episode-6-ultra-processed-foods

I'm sure if you heard a scientist or doctor saying exactly what you wanted to hear, you wouldn't be so quick to accuse them of 'making a career out of it'. Confirmation bias - the ones you agree with are respectable, the ones you don't agree with must have an agenda.

The heart of what Van Tulleken is saying is:
-Whole food, in or close to its natural state, is what you have evolved to eat.
-Packaged food made in factories is produced to maximise profits and not with your good health as a priority.
-The former is therefore almost always better for you than the latter, and is what you should aim for as much as possible.

Taking the celebrities and internet experts out of the equation for a minute, does anyone actually disagree with this? If you do, I'd love to hear your reasons.

ObliviousCoalmine · 05/01/2025 23:49

Tealpins · 05/01/2025 20:31

Oh my god. UPF is pure bullshit.

There's some evidence about food cooked at very high temperatures- but you can get muesli if this worries you.

UPF is wellness grifting bullshit tweaked to hit all the middle class prejudice hot buttons. Sliced bread from Aldi: Poison. Baguette from your local artisan sourdough place with a queue of bearded blokes: totally fine.

Come on people.

I came to say this. It's just another thing aimed mostly at women to add guilt and work onto an already full plate (no pun intended).

Do you think men are spending a significant amount of time reconciling whether it's ok to give their child a specific type of jam in the morning? They're absolutely not.