I was thinking of reaching out to my ex. He hasn't seen the children in 2 years and contacted me in the summer to see them again. I felt like too much time had passed and spoke to the children and they didn't show interest in wanting to see him again "why bother when he will just disappear again" (something he did constantly) their words. However i've had a change of mind and I think it would be a good idea to start up contact again (I think the children would agree if he promises to be consistent) Would it be bad to reach out to him? What should I say? I had thought he may have reached out around xmas but he didn't.