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To ask him to meet me at the airport?

53 replies

Burritowrap · 05/01/2025 19:20

Bf and I have been together for over a year.
For xmas, we flew to visit our families seperately for 3/4 weeks.
I flew back home yesterday, it was a 24 hour journey. I had heavy luggage and needed to pick up my pet on the way home.
I have asked him several times to meet me at the airport, I dont know why but it makes me feel cared for and I am excited to see him after a month, but he never has. Bearing in mind it takes 20 mins on the train for a pound!
Yesterday, he said he couldnt come to meet me as he did not have time. He had work to do, I know he went on a night out whilst I was flying and was too hungover to bother.
Ive told him I am hurt and he has now come back with that I am unsupportive of his work!

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OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 05/01/2025 20:19

Pick you up in the car, or get public transport to accompany you on the journey?

And was this within working hours?

needhelpwiththisplease · 05/01/2025 20:16

Do you mean to pick you up or to literally get the train to be stood there when you arrive?

If it's the latter, then Yabu

OtterlyMad · 05/01/2025 20:09

He can’t be arsed to do something that would make you very happy, for the sake of 40 min round trip costing £1? I’m sorry but it sounds like he’s just not that into you.