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To hate seeing half-dead Christmas trees dumped outside

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MostHighlyFlavoredGravy · 05/01/2025 09:38

Inspired by another thread about xmas lights, one of the most depressing sights of the year IMO is when people leave their real xmas trees dumped in front of their houses in early January.

I get that they are (mostly) awaiting a booked collection from a charity etc, so I'm not suggesting that those people are doing anything wrong or should do anything different, but it always looks a bit sad, especially before 5 Jan. AIBU?

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Turophilic · 05/01/2025 16:11

devilspawn · 05/01/2025 11:39

It's better for the environment to get a real tree than an artificial one, I researched it a few years back.

As I remember, the magic numbers are 7 and 10. Depending on manufacturing etc, an artificial tree is almost neutral when used for more that 7 years and definitely more emotionally efficient than a real true from 10 years onwards.

I don’t care; I’m having a real tree because the smell is the best part.

SnoopysHoose · 05/01/2025 15:22

@devilspawn
I don't think an artificial tree bought and used for many many years is particularly bad.
Do you have nothing made of plastic? completely natural living? I doubt it.

CruCru · 05/01/2025 15:17

There are a few donkey sanctuaries who ask for them too.

tedgran · 05/01/2025 15:16

Ours is in our front garden, our council collects them. I heard on the radio that Whipsnade zoo collects some for elephants to play with, apparently they love trampling on them, they eat them as well!

CruCru · 05/01/2025 15:16

Mademetoxic · 05/01/2025 10:21

Sadly another example of the 'throwaway society'

My council organises Christmas tree collection points dotted around the borough.
But still some lazy person dumps them anywhere.

I mean this nicely but I am not going to live with a dead fir tree in my house year round because I can’t face throwing it away once Christmas is over.

Where I live the council used to pick up garden waste but now won’t unless you pay a regular fee. However over half the households don’t have a car so they just get left on the pavement regardless.

What I do think looks sad is when a brown tree appears on the pavement in July. I know that not everyone sorts this out on 6 January but I can’t imagine living with the tree until July.

mondaytosunday · 05/01/2025 15:13

Sad to see it on Boxing Day but after that doesn't bother me. Council will start collecting on the 6th but I'm trying to get mine out today.

MostHighlyFlavoredGravy · 05/01/2025 15:08

viques · 05/01/2025 12:51

OP do you also feel sad for all the trees whose life has been reduced to being wrapping paper and cardboard boxes? Or the ones who get burned in wood burners? Not all trees are lucky enough to end up as IKEA Billy bookcases , so maybe we should all take a moment and say thank you to trees.

Not sure if you are trying to suggest I'm somehow being a hypocrite, but yes, I dislike wasting wood/paper generally. I always wrap my xmas presents in recycled brown paper (tied with a pretty ribbon - I have a box of them and they get reused!). I don't have ikea Billy bookcases either - they're awful quality and don't last. But that wasn't the point of my OP, that would be far too deep for a Sunday morning!

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MostHighlyFlavoredGravy · 05/01/2025 15:03

SleeplikeababyTonight · 05/01/2025 10:33

We have had ours for 10 years, still going strong!

My parents' one has a broken branch from when my DB accidentally knocked the tree over age 18. He's 44 now!

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MainStreetOrHighStreet · 05/01/2025 13:15

https://www.soilassociation.org/take-action/organic-living/christmas/eco-friendly-christmas-trees-real-vs-fake/

We have a fake tree, but it's been going for 14 years and is still in good nick, so I'm going to stick with it until it's paid its debt to society. 🌲

Choose a sustainable Christmas tree | Soil Association

https://www.soilassociation.org/take-action/organic-living/christmas/eco-friendly-christmas-trees-real-vs-fake

viques · 05/01/2025 12:51

OP do you also feel sad for all the trees whose life has been reduced to being wrapping paper and cardboard boxes? Or the ones who get burned in wood burners? Not all trees are lucky enough to end up as IKEA Billy bookcases , so maybe we should all take a moment and say thank you to trees.

CasperGutman · 05/01/2025 12:47

Leaving aside the real vs artificial debate, I agree the ex-Christmas trees look sad. I can't stand looking at ours all bare outside, so I cut it up as soon as it's down - the branches are either used around the garden or else go into the garden waste bin for eventual collection by the council, and the trunk is sawn up for use as firewood (in a year or two, once seasoned).

Efacsen · 05/01/2025 12:39

TotallyTwisted · 05/01/2025 10:08

YANBU. Even worse when you see a tree that still looks fine dumped outside on Boxing Day like I did! Sad

As i said on another thread there were 2 or 3 trees at the council re-cycling on Christmas Day evening - seemed a little over-enthusiastic unless they were going away on Boxing Day!

Ghostin · 05/01/2025 12:29

I agree, it’s a bit of a sharp reminder that the festive period is over! And I say this as someone with three dead trees in my front garden as we speak…

Wildwalksinjanuary · 05/01/2025 12:13

I think it’s sad too, the contrast of the hopeful brightly lit Christmas trees with the dead decay of one thrown out ( I am sadly adding to this misery) I try to imagine it is a spring clean of the lands ready for a new spring. A necessary cycle but I agree I miss the gaiety and beauty of the decorations everywhere, and I will take more time to pause and enjoy them next Christmas.

Yamadori · 05/01/2025 12:10

Even more sad - going to a garden centre when it re-opens on the day after Boxing Day to see all the unsold trees sitting there undecorated and unloved, and just waiting to be thrown away. The potted ones are all right (and I bought a small one to turn into a bonsai tree), but I feel horribly sorry for all the others. they were chopped down and killed for no purpose.

Unpaidviewer · 05/01/2025 12:10

Seeing the plastic ones being thrown away is worse. I used to work with a lady who bought a new artificial tree every year. She liked to change the colour and style, and said they never went back in the box.

TwinklyStarlight · 05/01/2025 12:10

@Needmorelego great idea!

I am struck every year at just how weird it is that we bring an actual tree into our house to slowly die for a couple of weeks. I bought a potted, Christmas tree shaped bushy thing this year and will see if I can hang onto it for next year. It's not ideal for hanging decs on but we managed, and it's a nicer shape than a proper baby fir tree.

GetyourheadoutoftheovenIris · 05/01/2025 12:05

A pretty sight where I live is seeing a local charity collecting all of the trees to spread in the sand dunes.

Needmorelego · 05/01/2025 12:03

@DogInATent put a sign up telling people they can do that.

DogInATent · 05/01/2025 12:02

I wish they'd drop them round onto our drive. We'd happily shred the branches for garden mulch, and saw up the trunks for the wood pile.

ObelixtheGaul · 05/01/2025 12:01

devilspawn · 05/01/2025 11:39

It's better for the environment to get a real tree than an artificial one, I researched it a few years back.

Thanks, Devilspawn, that's good to know. In regards to the actual individual tree, though, I still feel a sense of guilt, irrational though that may be.

Ifailed · 05/01/2025 11:58

They ate not 'half-dead'. They died when they were severed from their root stock last year.

honeylulu · 05/01/2025 11:58

There are tree recycling points here so fortunately very few dumped on pavement. If someone has the means to bring a tree home, they have the means to take it to a recycling point.

Ours is still up but I'll remove all the lights and decorations this afternoon in honour of twelfth night and we'll drag it out on the patio. In the next few days husband will chop off all the branches and put them in the green waste bin to be collected/recycled and chop up the trunk which we'll store in the shed and use as BBQ fuel in the summer.

I love having a real tree - my parents disapproved so we had a small fake tree at home. As other posters have said, they are like any other crop and recycling the wood and needles is more environmentally friendly than manufacturing plastic crap and importing it from China.

LouisvilleSlugger · 05/01/2025 11:56

I’d love to give ours to goats. Never heard of that before.

Ours are (dumped) on the patio but look quite nice now they’ve got snow on them.

SunnieShine · 05/01/2025 11:52

I feel like this, OP. So poignant.

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