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Foodbank buying items from shops?

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girlfriend44 · 04/01/2025 21:57

I always thought that foodbanks were given out of date stock when I saw them collecting from shops and supermarkets.
I have now found out they buy items from certain retailers at a reduced price.
They put orders in. Where does the money come from to purchase?
Also they have vans, which cost money in petrol etc.
Anyone else think the same, never realised they were collecting stuff they had ordered in. I thought it was donated to them?÷

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LlynTegid · 05/01/2025 10:01

Superhansrantowindsor · 05/01/2025 09:59

Food banks have become normal now. It’s not normal in a supposedly civilised and affluent country to have people so hungry they rely on food banks to survive. When did this happen? Why do people just accept their existence? More should be done so they are no longer needed. It’s a sorry state of affairs when people have to use them even once, never mind months on end.

Normalising came in the 2010s. I agree that they should never be needed.

Superhansrantowindsor · 05/01/2025 09:59

Food banks have become normal now. It’s not normal in a supposedly civilised and affluent country to have people so hungry they rely on food banks to survive. When did this happen? Why do people just accept their existence? More should be done so they are no longer needed. It’s a sorry state of affairs when people have to use them even once, never mind months on end.

HamAndMustardSandwich · 05/01/2025 09:59

InfoSecInTheCity · 04/01/2025 22:04

All our local ones collect monetary donations as well. Hey have to order stuff in because they would t be able to make well balanced parcels with just donations, there are always gaps in what's donated, people tend towards pasts, rice, sauce jars etc but users also need toiletries and oil and sugar.

There is an app called Bank the Food which shows what items your local bank needs urgently and what they have excess of, my local one has bleach and lemon juice on their urgent list at the moment 2 items I would t think of to add.

I’ve just downloaded that app, thanks. I just did my monthly donation but it’ll be good for next time. One thing I buy regularly is squash because I remember how awful it was having to constantly drink water as a kid because my mum couldn’t afford to buy it. It never quenches your thirst properly.

MILLYmo0se · 05/01/2025 09:58

ueberlin2030 · 05/01/2025 09:51

To be fair, if people need to rely on FBs for that long then clearly there are potentially other unaddressed issues - some which probably need professional support.

In many cases yes, but that not the families fault isn't there and withdrawing support for the FB doesn't fix the issue either. I think there is a lack of awareness and understanding too as to just how tight things have become for so many families even with working parents.

hazelnutvanillalatte · 05/01/2025 09:53

Rosscameasdoody · 05/01/2025 09:50

The independent ones may do that, but charity run ones won’t. Why would they want to give you food that’s likely to make you ill ?

This was charity run. It wasn't going to make anyone ill, it was the same as yellow sticker food that people buy discounted in shops.

Longma · 05/01/2025 09:52

We donate to food banks via Ocado - so money rather than specific items.
We can also donate money, as well as food items, at some of our local shops for the food banks.

They need the vans to go and collect donations from shops, schools, community collections, churches, etc.

Food banks are something you can donate to in different ways. If you don't agree with the way they do things you aren't forced to donate.

And why would they want food items which are out of date?

ueberlin2030 · 05/01/2025 09:51

MILLYmo0se · 05/01/2025 09:49

So you thought there was a time limit on poverty, like people are only poor for a maximum of 18 months? How would that work exactly?

To be fair, if people need to rely on FBs for that long then clearly there are potentially other unaddressed issues - some which probably need professional support.

sushibelt · 05/01/2025 09:50

ueberlin2030 · 05/01/2025 09:48

Yes, hole plugging only goes so far though.
I personally don't feel able to do any more hole plugging for the time being, I'm busy trying to make sure I don't make any holes of my own. We can all only give what we're able to give.

Fair enough. I don't really know what I can do other than plug holes. Sorry my earlier responses may have been overly harsh.

HamAndMustardSandwich · 05/01/2025 09:50

People can donate money to foodbanks as well as food so I guess that’s how they buy the food.

Rosscameasdoody · 05/01/2025 09:50

hazelnutvanillalatte · 05/01/2025 06:53

? I've been to food banks and they definitely get a lot of stuff that is going out of date. Most of the food where I went was on the turn, that's how they got it.

The independent ones may do that, but charity run ones won’t. Why would they want to give you food that’s likely to make you ill ?

ueberlin2030 · 05/01/2025 09:50

valentinka31 · 05/01/2025 09:48

Addiction is a huge and very specific life issue, it must have felt impossible to help them properly, because yes just keeping them alive with food is not going to change their long term outcome. However, with other people using the food bank, I do believe that temporary support with the basic requirements of normal functioning can do a lot to help someone through. It's like they don't have to be trying to cover all bases at once, so if the food is mostly taken care of, they can focus, for example, on getting back on track with their income.

I think that as food bank referrals come from a support organisation, then people who are there do have the bigger picture being addressed by other support.

I don't disagree. I just don't feel personally able to help for the tome being.

MILLYmo0se · 05/01/2025 09:49

MrsKwazi · 05/01/2025 01:36

i stopped donating to food banks when I read a thread on here about families accessing food banks for 2+ years continuously, and then learned this was a regular thing. And ‘shopping’ at the food bank.

The reason why there are more food banks than ever is because people cottoned on to how the system works. Same with our country’s bloated benefits bill. Food is an emotive subject, no one want to see anybody go hungry, so people donate and keeps the whole thing going.

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So you thought there was a time limit on poverty, like people are only poor for a maximum of 18 months? How would that work exactly?

Bumcake · 05/01/2025 09:48

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 04/01/2025 22:25

Housing Associations give out referrals to food banks, just after they insist tenants pay their rent / arrears or put their rent accounts in credit. So they take the money, telling tenants not to panic they have no money for food, as they'll give them a voucher to visit the food bank. I know, I worked for a HA that does this and common amongst all HAs. Yes, I know you should pay your rent, but incomes are struggling to even cover social rents now. I raise this as whether money or food you are also facilitating organisations to take with one hand and give what you donate with another. I hate that food banks are needed and they are allowing issues with employment, behaviours that see food banks as top up shops, wage stagnation and benefits that should be addressed but sadly aren't.

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But housing associations don’t run on air. How will they buy / build new stock or carry out repairs if people don’t pay rent? The government used to provide grant but those days are gone.

valentinka31 · 05/01/2025 09:48

ueberlin2030 · 05/01/2025 09:17

I used to feed drug addicts a hot meal 3 times a week, so no.
People in these situations need more than a foodbank though, they need support with their addiction.
I actually felt like we weren't really improving anything for them in the long term. Several disappeared and least one died of an OD. It felt like pouring boiling water down the drain while constantly trying to boil the kettle. Maybe that experience shaped how I feel about aimlessly feeding without addressing the bigger picture.

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Addiction is a huge and very specific life issue, it must have felt impossible to help them properly, because yes just keeping them alive with food is not going to change their long term outcome. However, with other people using the food bank, I do believe that temporary support with the basic requirements of normal functioning can do a lot to help someone through. It's like they don't have to be trying to cover all bases at once, so if the food is mostly taken care of, they can focus, for example, on getting back on track with their income.

I think that as food bank referrals come from a support organisation, then people who are there do have the bigger picture being addressed by other support.

ueberlin2030 · 05/01/2025 09:48

sushibelt · 05/01/2025 09:41

That's kind of how I see foodbanks - hole plugging.

Yes, hole plugging only goes so far though.
I personally don't feel able to do any more hole plugging for the time being, I'm busy trying to make sure I don't make any holes of my own. We can all only give what we're able to give.

Bumcake · 05/01/2025 09:45

Dunnoburt · 04/01/2025 22:25

Meanwhile.back in the UK.........

What?

YellowPixie · 05/01/2025 09:45

But the OP is just talking about "foodbanks". If you want free food do you really care if it's coming from a charity, a church or an independent community pantry sort of place? And yes, if you're a CF who doesn't need free food but just wants free food, there is nothing stopping you "rocking up" to foodbanks and that is what the poster I was responding to said didn't happen. When it clearly does.

Maybe there is an argument that people should be better informed about the ethos of the foodbank they are choosing to donate to, and the consequences of the no referral needed approach.

Rosscameasdoody · 05/01/2025 09:42

Maboscelar · 05/01/2025 09:36

My friend works for the charity which, among other things, runs our local food bank. They get donations but they also apply for grants to cover their running costs.

How did you think it worked?

I suspect a lot of unconscious bias at play. The concept of people volunteering their time and money seems alien to OP.

sushibelt · 05/01/2025 09:41

ueberlin2030 · 05/01/2025 09:31

I didn't say they were the same - my answer was in response to being asked if drug addicts should survive. Foodbanks didn't really exist at that time, but we (and other agencies) did also collect leftover food (which we got from a local bakery), which they could take away after the meal (rolls, bread, filled sandwiches, sausage rolls, cakes etc) and we also had a small selection of clothes they could take if needed. We did what we could but it was hole plugging.

That's kind of how I see foodbanks - hole plugging.

Whoknowsnotmeshrug · 05/01/2025 09:40

Hazylazydays · 04/01/2025 23:24

What evidence do they provide?

Depends.. we can accept:

a receipt for a large unexpected bill
a pip/ dla statements
a screenshot from their bank showing lack of funds

There is a bit of flexibility eg if someone had just been placed and they can show their paperwork to say it’s the first month in the properly or if a social worker contacts us we often offer a 1 off emergency parcel without the evidence.

Mydogisamassivetwat · 05/01/2025 09:39

I had to use a foodbank a few times years ago when ds was little. I’d left my ex husband, I was working min wage but claiming top up housing benefit. He called them to tell them I was committing benefit fraud as he paid child maintenance, just to be a dick. Obviously it wasn’t fraud, but they had to immediately suspend my claim to investigate the claim and he decided it was best not to pay maintenance while they did so. Absolute prick, we almost got evicted and the council work at a snails pace to rectify things. The council do refer us to the foodbank though.

Ds and I are both coeliac, so we can’t just eat anything. Luckily, food banks use donated money to buy gluten free food.

The awful thing is, I did have people, even on here at times, tell me I should have been grateful for any free food and just eaten it regardless of dietary requirements. Anyone with any understanding of celiac disease will understand why that’s maddening to hear.

Joy69 · 05/01/2025 09:39

girlfriend44 -Why don't you volunteer to help out at a food bank or a soup kitchen? Get to know the stories from the people who use these facilities. Yes it can seem daunting if it's out of your comfort zone, but 99% of the users are just grateful for food/hot meal. You may get a lot out of it.

Rosscameasdoody · 05/01/2025 09:39

YellowPixie · 05/01/2025 09:27

Untrue in some cases. I just googled -

"the foodbank has been running for over 12 years it is totally non referral with no paper work involved we provide around 500/600 food parcels each week people travel from all over Glasgow"

"Our fully stocked community pantry is open to everyone. (No referral required) Pop in anytime during opening hour"

"Our food bank is open from 10am to 12 noon monday to friday
All those who are in need are welcome with no requirement for a formal referral."

"Members of the community are welcome to come along and help themselves to bakery products, fresh fruit and vegetables and cupboard essentials. The pantry is open 7 days a week 11am-3pm and no referral or assessment is needed."

And that's just in Glasgow. Now I am totally on board with reducing food waste and think it's briliiant that there are organisations which are redistributing food which would otherwise have gone in the bin. But let's not pretend that food banks are only for people who can't afford food - anyone can "rock up" to any of the places I linked and get free food, whatever their financial circumstances.

These are independent foodbanks like Cycle, which uses food which would otherwise go to waste. Local churches also run foodbanks. Our community pantry here is a mix of free and low cost food. To access foodbanks like The Trussel Trust, Salvation Army and others who are funded by charities, donations and grants, you need a referral. And that’s important because it means that the person referred may have multiple need, and a referral to a foodbank may be just one part of multiple referrals for the help they need. For those people ‘rocking up’ at any one of the organisations you’ve mentioned, would mean a bag of food and nothing more.

Maboscelar · 05/01/2025 09:36

girlfriend44 · 04/01/2025 22:13

Fair enough, but who pays the van and the running costs?

My friend works for the charity which, among other things, runs our local food bank. They get donations but they also apply for grants to cover their running costs.

How did you think it worked?

dottydodah · 05/01/2025 09:34

Regulatorsmountup Maybe be thankful you can afford to buy your food /essential items /medicine and not be having to use a food bank? What a judg mental post!