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Aibu to ask what your favourite kind of posts are on aibu?

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 04/01/2025 15:05

Mine are relationship dilemmas (where the obvious answer isnt just to ltb) , sex and dating dilemmas, and gossip/tea spilling

More of those in 2025 please 🤭 x

My life is very uneventful, just revolves around my dd and my cat 😄 so I'm living vicariously through you all

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SkiingIsHeaven · 06/01/2025 02:53

Anything involving a nanny.

Also the real time parking or going on dates ones.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 06/01/2025 01:43

Projectme · 05/01/2025 22:19

Came to day this.

Love a good CF thread.

Not read all this thread but the latest CF one involved a dyson airwrap; I think sadly the OP is going to have to fork out for a new one.

Another was where the OP had lent her new laboutin shoes to someone who then bloody pawned them!! Unreal! 😳

But the best one of all was the Mexican House thief 🤣outrageous!!

Love a spooky story too...savernake forest!! 👻

Im gonna have to look up this Mexican house thief 🤭🤭

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 06/01/2025 01:42

JobhuntingDespair · 05/01/2025 14:00

I love the ones about something bonkers someone has done (including parking, decorating a house terribly, etc) that lead to a whole host of similar stories from posters, as well as humourous suggestions as to how to deal with the OP's situation. Even better if there's ongoing developments/updates from the OP.

(Best thread ever in this vein was years ago, involving the OP's neighbour knocking out a listed building window to put some patio doors into OP's garden. By the end of several threads, we'd had endless humourous suggestions, re-written several songs to suit the situation, had cast all the main characters for the movie version, had a comical saga running alongside about Putin following the thread, and located all the most tasteless garden ornaments one could wish for.)

MN has got too serious recently!

😄😄 yes we need more of this in 2025

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Yerroblemom1923 · 05/01/2025 23:19

Projectme · 05/01/2025 22:26

WHAT?!?! NOOOOO!!!!!
how did you find out the story was fake?!

I think lots of posters came on to say it was.... if course it might still be true! It gave me proper goosebumps and I've wanted to visit ever since I read it.

pimplebum · 05/01/2025 22:29

Balonz …! was my all time favourite post ! tittering now just thinking about it

and the one where the poor woman found a lipstick in her washing machine that wasn’t hers and the very next poster derailed it and it went off on a bonkers tangent about things found in the human body that shouldn’t be there - poor op didn’t get one sensible answer but it was awesome !

the ghost stories are super interesting too

Projectme · 05/01/2025 22:26

Yerroblemom1923 · 04/01/2025 20:21

Woo threads are quite good but I was gutted to learn the Forest one was fake!

WHAT?!?! NOOOOO!!!!!
how did you find out the story was fake?!

Projectme · 05/01/2025 22:19

Stickortwigs · 04/01/2025 17:14

CF ones. I’d like to see a CF dedicated board.

Came to day this.

Love a good CF thread.

Not read all this thread but the latest CF one involved a dyson airwrap; I think sadly the OP is going to have to fork out for a new one.

Another was where the OP had lent her new laboutin shoes to someone who then bloody pawned them!! Unreal! 😳

But the best one of all was the Mexican House thief 🤣outrageous!!

Love a spooky story too...savernake forest!! 👻

Yerroblemom1923 · 05/01/2025 22:14

The "someone has knocked on my door" threads, but they're too scared to answer it, but who could it be and what could they want?!
Only on MN are grown adults scared to answer their doors!!! What is happening to the world?!

EmpressaurusKitty · 05/01/2025 17:02

youvebeenjammed · 05/01/2025 14:56

I've never TTC or been pregnant, but I absolutely adore "line eyes" threads. I get such a vicarious rush when other people confirm that they can see lines or the OP posts a clearly positive test a few days later. It's just nice to share that wee bit of hope and joy.

They’re not AIBU though.

I know the normal argument is ‘posting for traffic’ but maybe what HQ need to do is spend a week or so focusing on moving threads to the correct boards & see if it makes any difference to where people post.

dreamer24 · 05/01/2025 15:05

”I had an EMCS with triplets in the back of a broken-down Robin Reliant on the M25 during Storm Arwen and I still did the school run for my stepchildren the next day because my DH was disappeared by a brutalist regime, why can’t you?”

😂😂

youvebeenjammed · 05/01/2025 14:56

I've never TTC or been pregnant, but I absolutely adore "line eyes" threads. I get such a vicarious rush when other people confirm that they can see lines or the OP posts a clearly positive test a few days later. It's just nice to share that wee bit of hope and joy.

Borgonzola · 05/01/2025 14:44

Stickortwigs · 04/01/2025 17:14

CF ones. I’d like to see a CF dedicated board.

Absolutely this. The woman whose mate stole her glasses. The guy who parked in what was essentially someone's garden. I absolutely live for those

smallsilvercloud · 05/01/2025 14:33

Supermarket ones
Smelly people in supermarkets
Should you have uncovered bread rolls
What's the best dupes
Also dating dilemmas

BanditofBrisbane · 05/01/2025 14:32

Parking threads and CFs.

I like a reminder that my own life isn't as batshit as it seems

hookiewookie29 · 05/01/2025 14:29

Onlyhereforthebatshitneighbours · 04/01/2025 15:14

The ones about batshit neighbours

This! My neighbours are saints compared to some on here!

thepariscrimefiles · 05/01/2025 14:06

I love the ones where an OP in a clearly abusive relationship comes back a few months later to say that she has left him and is now doing great.

The best of this genre was 'CoatsProtectionLeague'.

JobhuntingDespair · 05/01/2025 14:00

I love the ones about something bonkers someone has done (including parking, decorating a house terribly, etc) that lead to a whole host of similar stories from posters, as well as humourous suggestions as to how to deal with the OP's situation. Even better if there's ongoing developments/updates from the OP.

(Best thread ever in this vein was years ago, involving the OP's neighbour knocking out a listed building window to put some patio doors into OP's garden. By the end of several threads, we'd had endless humourous suggestions, re-written several songs to suit the situation, had cast all the main characters for the movie version, had a comical saga running alongside about Putin following the thread, and located all the most tasteless garden ornaments one could wish for.)

MN has got too serious recently!

thepariscrimefiles · 05/01/2025 14:00

Stickortwigs · 04/01/2025 17:14

CF ones. I’d like to see a CF dedicated board.

Agree, especially the ones where the CF gets their comeuppance.

NorthRiding · 05/01/2025 13:56

I like the ones with quite a straightforward dilemma - 'I can hear Jim and Sally upstairs shagging - should I tell them?' or 'My neighbour has called me Debbie for the last 11 years but my name's Danielle' - which bring out the Helpful Letter Suggesters, who create ever-more wordy and earnest texts to help inflame clarify the situation.

Printedword · 05/01/2025 13:53

Ones where people don't ruin it by wilfully misunderstanding answers or flying in with weird accusations.

Ones that don't seem made up - there's someone out there asking if they can eat 9 day old cooked and chilled poultry. As John McEnroe would say 'you cannot be serious!'

JMSA · 05/01/2025 13:47

I love the 'celebs you've met' threads.

I also enjoy the dating/relationship ones. I've pretty much given up on it now, but it's useful to sometimes give others the benefit of my experience ... especially if they're being a bit red flag blind!

Teenager ones are good. Sometimes it's handy to know that my 15 year old isn't that bad! I don't mean that in a smug comparative way at all. Just that it's hard sometimes, especially as a single mum, and I like the reassurance!

There was a recent thread where a new mum was struggling, and the VAST majority of posters were so kind and understanding. It really was Mumsnet at its best Star

There's loads of others, to be honest. I reckon I've used Mumsnet more over this Christmas break than I ever have Smile

NeedToChangeName · 05/01/2025 13:39

I'm amused by the unreasonable requests from brides

BoredZelda · 05/01/2025 13:37

The ones asking a question, where people don't take a couple of minutes to read through the thread despite it being quite a new post, and repeat something over and over as if they are coming up with something new. 👍

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 05/01/2025 13:25

Lammveg · 04/01/2025 17:23

The ones about something incredibly minor that happened 23 years ago

There was one recently by someone upset about a Facebook post from 3 years ago that may or may not have been about her from an ex colleague

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 05/01/2025 13:25

AmazingBouncingFerret · 05/01/2025 13:20

Hmm I’d say live updates.
I’m pretty sure Christmas 2006 didn’t happen properly in a lot of households due to absolute scenes on mumsnet.

Omg what happened 😄👀

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