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Veggie served meat - what if anything would you do? do?

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TortellinimorelikeTorteLIEni · 03/01/2025 23:05

Went out for a meal tonight. A nice chain. Ordered aubergine tortellini. When it came and I ate the first couple of mouthfuls I thought it tasted odd. Had a bit more and thought it tasted and looked like beef. Asked a couple of the people with me and they agreed. I called the waiter over and asked if I could have been given meat by mistake. He said there was no meat version of the tortellini but he'd check with the kitchen. Came back and said it was definitely aubergine.

I checked the menu and there was no meat version on it so I told myself I must be mistaken. Took another bite but nope, definitely tasted like beef.

I Google and see that on New year's there was indeed a beef version of the tortellini on their menu. I am now 100% sure that's what they have given me. I check with a third member of my table, they also agree it's meat. The portion was small - literally like 6 big tortellini so by now it's almost all gone.

When the waiter comes to clear the table I mention it again, I tell him I'm now sure it was meat and ask him to inform the kitchen.

He comes back after some time saying they have now checked thoroughly and it is definitely aubergine. They have checked the meat tortellini from New Year's and it looks completely different.

I don't want to get into a big back and forth at this point as most of the meal has gone and the rest of the table have had nice food and are enjoying themselves.

However. I am wondering whether to email their manager or head office to ask them to check their tortellini and labelling? I'm not after money off but I am concerned about them dishing up meat to veggies and the potential for someone with allergies to eat something they shouldn't.

Is there any point now? Or should I leave it at this point?

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TortellinimorelikeTorteLIEni · 03/01/2025 23:40

Dartmoorcheffy · 03/01/2025 23:37

Aubergine can be quite fibrous so it's possible it really was the aubergine version. Hopefully it was.

I tried telling myself that at first but I am 100% sure it was beef. Absolutely no doubt in my mind.

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Dartmoorcheffy · 03/01/2025 23:37

Aubergine can be quite fibrous so it's possible it really was the aubergine version. Hopefully it was.

XWKD · 03/01/2025 23:36

I've been a veggie for 40 years and this kind of thing happened to me several times.

TortellinimorelikeTorteLIEni · 03/01/2025 23:35

HereForTheAnimals · 03/01/2025 23:23

I'm sorry you had this experience, and I'd be really upset. I'm not sure what can or can't be done now? However this progresses, just remember that if it was meat, it wasn't your fault and I hope you are ok.

Oh I'm fine thanks. I suppose I want them to check again..they're a chain so I imagine this food could be long life or frozen so if they have a mislabeled batch then someone else is going to be served up the wrong food. Unpleasant for more ethical veggies than me and potentially dangerous for people with allergies.

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TortellinimorelikeTorteLIEni · 03/01/2025 23:27

Comportment · 03/01/2025 23:23

How can anyone mistake aubergine for beef????

The filling was very loose and mushy and didn't have a strong flavour. The sauce was very strongly flavoured so the first couple of bites that was all I could taste initially, then I had the after taste of beef.

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Comportment · 03/01/2025 23:26

Ideally you could have taken some home. And called the local council who inspect these places. Scores on The Doors etc. Esp given that they dismissed it when you knew it was lies and the NYE menu confirmed it.

TortellinimorelikeTorteLIEni · 03/01/2025 23:24

APurpleSquirrel · 03/01/2025 23:19

Did you cut one open & see what the filling looked like? If it was beef the texture would have been completely different to aubergine.
Did you ask any of the staff to try it?
Unfortunately if not, it's just your word against the restaurant.

I did. The meat version on their NYE menu was slow cooked beef and red wine. The filling looked like fairly generic dark coloured mush. When I pulled some out and spread it around a bit I could see meaty fibres...

To the later poster about what it looked like, I think they were referring to the filling rather than looking at two intact tortellini.

I don't think they were deliberately lying. My guess is that they have mislabeled them so they pulled out the batch labelled beef but it was actually aubergine so it did of course look different to mine.

I'm quite a chilled out veggie in the sense it doesn't make me feel sick or upset to accidentally eat meat but I can imagine it would upset others.

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HereForTheAnimals · 03/01/2025 23:23

I'm sorry you had this experience, and I'd be really upset. I'm not sure what can or can't be done now? However this progresses, just remember that if it was meat, it wasn't your fault and I hope you are ok.

Comportment · 03/01/2025 23:23

How can anyone mistake aubergine for beef????

Mykittensmittens · 03/01/2025 23:20

id like to know how ‘tortellini’ would ever look completely different as visually it should be the same - tortellini is a circle of pasta, filled and pinched. So they can’t argue it ‘looked’ different?

for whatever reason you chose not to eat meat - dietary, ethical, cultural or anything else, it’s not okay to serve it to you incorrectly. What they can do about it retrospectively I don’t know, but I would indeed pursue the matter.

Saz12 · 03/01/2025 23:20

I'd email the manager. It's quite worrying given allergens etc. They'll probably still claim it was aubergine though, but perhaps theyll take more care in future.

APurpleSquirrel · 03/01/2025 23:19

Did you cut one open & see what the filling looked like? If it was beef the texture would have been completely different to aubergine.
Did you ask any of the staff to try it?
Unfortunately if not, it's just your word against the restaurant.

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 03/01/2025 23:15

I think you should pursue this. It could be very serious.

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