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Should they pay? AirBnB nightmare

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NanFlanders · 02/01/2025 20:03

My 18 yo DD and her friend have saved their wages from their PT jobs (at school) for a year to go to Paris for NYE. They booked an AirBnB (DD is autistic and wanted somewhere self-contained). When they arrived, the door of the flat wouldn't open. They called the owner who told them to be firm with the key - they tried this and the key broke off in the lock. They called the owner who became angry with them and told them they would have to pay, and that it would cost €1000 on NYE to get a locksmith. Things escalated and my DD's friend told the woman to "Fxxx off" (which obviously didn't help and I'm not excusing it) - though she did immediately send a Whatsapp message to her apologizing. At this point DD called me, as I speak some French, and I WhatsApped the owner to try to resolve the situation. She advised she couldn't do anything as she didn't live in Paris, "couldn't work miracles" and they should try a hotel. As you might expect, hotels in Paris on NYE were either extortionate or full or both. They called AirBnB who said they would help them get in the apartment that night - but didn't. Luckily they found beds in a mixed dorm in a hostel and are making the best of things, but today they have been sent a bill for £450 from Airbnb to pay for a locksmith. AIBU to suggest they should contest this? I feel they did as advised, were left in a very vulnerable position, are already out of pocket, and never even got into the flat!

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AirbnbhostAWOL · 02/01/2025 21:26

As my username suggests, I also had issues with Airbnb this year. They are terrible, certainly compared to a few years ago. They are now sufficiently big that they don't really give a shit about losing customers die to poor customer service.
In terms of the £450, that's just the host trying to claim that via the Airbnb platform. Airbnb themselves are not endorsing that, so I would immediately refuse to pay via the app if that's an option. That's totally outrageous.They should clearly get a refund as well, so definitely push for that. I'm not even sure how you'd deliberately break a lock, let alone why.

Ger1atricMillennial · 02/01/2025 21:21

The problem with Air BnB is its just normal people are providing a service that they have no understanding or experience in. You have to have someone on site or available if there is a problem.

Contest it the locksmith charge. The lock was faulty and as a result they were unable to utlise the service that they had paid in advance for.

I would also request a refund for their stay due to the inaccessibility of the property. As the owner is not able to attend in case of emergency i.e. a lock breaking, they should have a plan for this type of situation.

Hopefully your DD was able to tolerate the hostel as that is the best option for young travelers i.e. safety in numbers and in most places, you can rent a private room.

Cerealkiller4U · 02/01/2025 21:21

NanFlanders · 02/01/2025 21:07

Thanks so much everyone. I was starting to think I was being unreasonable, because I was so upset for DD after she'd worked so hard for this - they didn't even get to see the fireworks! I'll tell them to refuse to pay, to try to enjoy their last day and to try to claim for a refund when they get back!

I think they shoood be able to repair and replace some of the money off their insurance?

Needanadultgapyear · 02/01/2025 21:21

Sounds like the Air bnb host has requested a payment. They should contact Air bnb contact centre you can do this by message or on the phone. Air bnb provide insurance for hosts if guests do damage and it sounds like the lock was faulty and either the host knew it or air BnB have reviewed their claim and denied it so the host is trying it on.

Mrsgreen100 · 02/01/2025 21:20

Shocking, as an air b and b host myself, I would have called a locksmith and covered the bill
also worth mentioning that hosts have insurance coverage with air b and b
don’t pay it
unfortunately if the hosts don’t review you your review for them will not be posted ,

Havanananana · 02/01/2025 21:19

rookiemere · 02/01/2025 20:55

Airbnb is paid for in advance of the stay.

Hopefully the young lady paid for the booking Airbnb using a credit card, in which case if she has no joy with Airbnb she should contact the CC company and claim back her payment for the apartment, either as a chargeback or as a Section 75 refund. See MoneySavingExpert about how to go about this.

Likewise, any attempt by Airbnb or anyone else to claim money for the broken lock should be resisted. If there is an attempt to charge the CC, the CC company should be told - and as above, any money that is taken should be claimed back.

It would be nice to think that some compensation would be forthcoming for the inconvenience and extra costs incurred, but I suspect that trying to get Airbnb or the owner to pay this would be more trouble and more costly than it's worth.

BotterMon · 02/01/2025 21:14

She can whistle for her £450. You should also get a refund from AirBnB as they were unable to stay due to a faulty lock.

Phase2 · 02/01/2025 21:13

www.airbnb.co.uk/help/article/1415

Is it through the message centre? They have to respond within a short period don't leave it til they get back

CheeseTime · 02/01/2025 21:09

I hate Air BNB. Too many grifters taking money for poor service. You can’t expect to make huge profits and not be inconvenienced. I would context this all the way. Your poor DD.
Would be great if everyone stopped using them. Air BNB is overall bad for communities and society.

whenemmafallsinlove · 02/01/2025 21:08

That's a faulty lock and the owner admitted as much. Don't pay!

NanFlanders · 02/01/2025 21:07

Thanks so much everyone. I was starting to think I was being unreasonable, because I was so upset for DD after she'd worked so hard for this - they didn't even get to see the fireworks! I'll tell them to refuse to pay, to try to enjoy their last day and to try to claim for a refund when they get back!

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QuillBill · 02/01/2025 21:03

I would dedicate the rest of my life to fighting it. I really would.

PersephoneSmith · 02/01/2025 20:59

rookiemere · 02/01/2025 20:55

Airbnb is paid for in advance of the stay.

The £450 locksmith fee wasn’t paid in advance of the stay.

Urghto · 02/01/2025 20:59

rookiemere · 02/01/2025 20:55

Airbnb is paid for in advance of the stay.

She means for the key billing

Goldbar · 02/01/2025 20:59

MrsTerryPratchett · 02/01/2025 20:22

Contest it and send their own bill back.

This. The owner told them to use force to open the door. They were just doing as they were told.

PinotPony · 02/01/2025 20:59

Does their travel insurance include legal cover?

Magnastorm · 02/01/2025 20:56

Absolutely fucking no way would I be paying that, and I would be expecting a full refund for the cost of the stay as well.

rookiemere · 02/01/2025 20:55

PersephoneSmith · 02/01/2025 20:51

I’m not sure I would use the word ‘contest’ but they wouldn’t get a penny from me and I would advise them to take me to court for payment should they be so inclined.

if they did I cannot imagine for a second that the small claims court would award in favour of Airbnb in this circumstance.

Airbnb is paid for in advance of the stay.

SoeurFayre · 02/01/2025 20:51

Shockingly bad form from the host and Airbnb. And one of many reasons why I, as an Airbnb host and user of many years, am choosing not to use them any more

They expect more than that of hosts, so insist they do of your DD's situation. Dont obfuscate the situation with other issues: she's tried to get in, host said: try harder, she did, key broke. End of. Not good enough from a guest pov. Full refund AND compensation of alternate accommodation would be my end goal. Plus a mark on hosts reputation. As hosts we are asked to be available for our guests or have alternate representatives.

PersephoneSmith · 02/01/2025 20:51

I’m not sure I would use the word ‘contest’ but they wouldn’t get a penny from me and I would advise them to take me to court for payment should they be so inclined.

if they did I cannot imagine for a second that the small claims court would award in favour of Airbnb in this circumstance.

stichguru · 02/01/2025 20:46

Yes contest it - I cannot imagine how the would break a properly working lock (unless they were trying to, but that makes no sense!)

BrightSnail · 02/01/2025 20:43

Another vote for contest it. They were following host instructions, and the stress and inconvenience to them has been far greater than to the host. In fact I'd be tempted to claim against the host in this situation! Can't imagine how this bill can stick at all.

Crankyaboutfood · 02/01/2025 20:42

they should have no costs to airbnb. they should not pay a penny and they should be getting a voucher for their trouble

rumanah · 02/01/2025 20:40

Appalling. They should absolutely contest this.

Ayechinnyreckon · 02/01/2025 20:34

Absolutely contest it, and also they should look at their insurance - it may pay out for the alternative accommodation.

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