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DP only wants to eat luxury food but doesn’t bring a luxury wage?

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Stargreystar · 02/01/2025 00:20

I earn well, 6 figures and my DP is a tradie earning circa 30k a year.

He seems to think just because I earn well he should only eat luxury food from m&s. We are not married yet but he discussed getting a ‘pre-op‘ which I can only assume means a prenup. However he has no assets or money so it’s merely to give him what I’ve earned.

OP posts:
healthybychristmas · 02/01/2025 00:22

Why do you think this wannabe cocklodger is the right person for you to marry? Your money is the best thing about you as far as he's concerned. Do you not think you deserve more than that?