Am I the arsehole for asking people to remove their shoes?
Since we bought our house in 2017 we have never allowed shoes upstairs or in the front room. In the front room we have a huge shaggy rug and the stairs and upstairs are carpeted.
Our front door opens in to the dining room which is wood floor and I had no issue with people being in their with shoes on. Fast forward to now, I have a 1 year old who picks up absolutely anything in sight, the last thing being a piece of dog shite. So now shoes are completely banned in my home and my god has this caused upset amongst folk!
We have ample space to remove and store shoes and a bench to sit down to do so.
I'm not posh or pretentious in any way but is it really such a huge deal to respect our house
Im prepared for a proper mums net roasting also