I think I already posted before about my fiance and some doubts I had on what I had seen on his phone (whilst shoulder surfing).
Basically, I like to think we are honest and transparent with one another. We both have friends of the opposite gender etc and we regularly talk about them etc.
Back in October, I saw on his phone that he was messaging a girl with a name I hadn't heard of before on IG. Before jumping to conclusions, I searched her name on his other friends lists on his SM but they weren't friends on anything else.
I became suspicious at the time, but put it back of my head as he does have a lot of gaming friends etc.
Fast forward to tonight, I am lying om his side watching TV. He's on IG again and this girl is back at the top of his IG messages. He is chatting back and forth, but I cant see whats being said as I am at a weird angle. I move, and suddenly he exits the app. He opens it again, so I ask him who that person is, and he says "its people wishing me a happy new year".
I dont know what other SM platform he switched to at some point in the night but I recognised her profile picture again before he quickly switched it off.
I didnt know how else to procesd without coming across accusational, so I let it go.
He was coming to mine for dinner today, and he has his dinner and leaves pretty soon afterwards. I tried having a discussion with him on the wedding planning but he told me to hold off booking anything else "for 2-3 months".
He seems a bit off with me the past couple of days.
I have been cheated on before, and I found out through messages etc, so I dont know if I am being super paranoid or if there is something here amiss.
Am I being unreasonable and being too paranoid about this situation?
If i am not, what do I do next to approach this?
Note: he is very tech savvy so phones are locked well, he stores all his passwords on an app that are random generated etc, so I dont have access to these myself.