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Fireworks - why are they still a thing?

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landobroken · 01/01/2025 00:38

Sorry to be a party pooper - but!

Surely they are horrendous for the environment?

Surely there are more environmentally-friendly options to replace them?

They're awful for pets, cost a flipping fortune etc etc. god knows how much the London NY show costs for example....

Not a party pooper by any stretch but I see people calling out things bad for the environment/COL all the time and yet this....

Anyway I'll go back to my scrooge self now 😅

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Inextremis · 01/01/2025 21:49

I live in Ireland. Private fireworks are illegal here, and public displays rare. Some twathead let a load of booming things off this NYE just down the lane from me, but that's the first time I've heard them in 25 years of living here. No one has died, children are not weeping in the streets due to lack of sparkly fire things. I love a good public firework display - as long as it's been publicised well in advance, it's away from livestock, safety measures are in place, and it finishes early enough for people to get a good night's sleep. I used to hate it in the UK when firework season started in October and went on until late January. I'm all for regulation, but not banning.

Rummly · 01/01/2025 21:23

I really do dislike dog owners co-opting war veterans for their campaign for their mutts’ comfort.

Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 01/01/2025 21:10

Only 28 days until the Chinese new year. Not long to wait for some more fireworks.

Treaclewell · 01/01/2025 21:05

HauntedBungalow · 01/01/2025 16:57

The vast majority of veterans aren't triggered by fireworks. PTSD is pretty complex and doesn't present as someone being perfectly fine, hearing a loud bang and suddenly being turned into a gibbering wreck.

Roping veterans into the argument is even worse than roping animals into it. If you care about veterans, donate to a military charity.

As I do. And listen to a man who has an opinion, and his reason. And don't belittle him just because he's in a minority.

Whatisgoingonheredear · 01/01/2025 17:13

Our dogs are fine with fireworks too. We did the work early.

Just so you know, dogs can develop sound sensitivity for medical reasons. There are strong links between sound sensitivity and chronic pain in dogs. Traumatised rescues also struggle. It isn't a "training issue" if a dog is scared by fireworks.

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 01/01/2025 17:01

Moglet4 · 01/01/2025 06:57

I did for 10 years. I don’t recall it ever being a problem. Maybe they’ve increased in use since then

They definitely have. Very frequent use here now.

AquaPeer · 01/01/2025 17:01

HauntedBungalow · 01/01/2025 16:57

The vast majority of veterans aren't triggered by fireworks. PTSD is pretty complex and doesn't present as someone being perfectly fine, hearing a loud bang and suddenly being turned into a gibbering wreck.

Roping veterans into the argument is even worse than roping animals into it. If you care about veterans, donate to a military charity.

100% this

HauntedBungalow · 01/01/2025 16:57

The vast majority of veterans aren't triggered by fireworks. PTSD is pretty complex and doesn't present as someone being perfectly fine, hearing a loud bang and suddenly being turned into a gibbering wreck.

Roping veterans into the argument is even worse than roping animals into it. If you care about veterans, donate to a military charity.

FelixtheAardvark · 01/01/2025 16:38

Because they are fun.

BIossomtoes · 01/01/2025 16:25

TrixieFatell · 01/01/2025 12:59

There are some great tips about getting dogs used to fireworks, I used the blue cross advice when I had my puppy. He sometimes arches an eyebrow at a particularly loud firework but he's fine with them and will happily be in the garden with us when we are watching the fireworks go off. I don't set fireworks off myself, I'm too tight to waste my money like that 🤣

Our dogs are fine with fireworks too. We did the work early.

AquaPeer · 01/01/2025 16:21

Treaclewell · 01/01/2025 16:15

Condescending. Nice. For scared read seriously disturbed, can't sleep for severaj nights, flashbacks, etc.
Patronising too.
I started on this subject in favour - lovely display in London last night.
But when I see what the others who like then argue like, I feel different.
Bring on the bangless.

Edited

This is such a weird post- It doesn’t really matter what you want since you don’t make laws. But also we can all imagine what a terrified person looks and acts like. We just don’t make decisions in our day to day life based on whether they might be impacted by them. That’s not normal, no matter what you want to think.

Treaclewell · 01/01/2025 16:15

AquaPeer · 01/01/2025 11:20

So you know an ex service person who might be scared of bangs. Sure that’ll make people pack away their pack of fireworks

Condescending. Nice. For scared read seriously disturbed, can't sleep for severaj nights, flashbacks, etc.
Patronising too.
I started on this subject in favour - lovely display in London last night.
But when I see what the others who like then argue like, I feel different.
Bring on the bangless.

MidnightMeltdown · 01/01/2025 16:03

Agree OP. People who let off fireworks in their gardens are massive dicks. Usually thick, ignorant types who don't give a shit about the impact on wildlife. They should only be sold for licenced displays.

Sallysoup · 01/01/2025 15:47

Dickheads were setting off extremely loud fireworks till 4am here. They should be illegal to set off after 12.30 on NYE, and 10pm any other night.

I appreciate some people are in sensory heaven but I personally like sleeping through the night!

theresabluebirdinmyheart · 01/01/2025 15:40

CamelByCamel · 01/01/2025 11:09

Dogs are a constant, so not really.

Yes nobody’s letting fireworks off on the bus or on the train or in Asda. I’ve encountered dogs in all these places in the last week alone.

HRkittenheels · 01/01/2025 15:25

I love a good organised display for special occasions (though with the tech we have now why do we still need them??) but I don't understand why people feel the need to set them off in their back gardens all the bloody time. Boy cat was so terrified last night he hid under the bed for hours before we could entice him out.

I don't understand why people who buy them privately don't just take a few twenty quid notes and set fire to them. Same result after all although arguably less explosive in our new 2025 incredibly volatile world...

And yes I sign every petition going to ban them privately.

AquaPeer · 01/01/2025 14:47

Runningribbit · 01/01/2025 14:37

I’m not sure how you managed to come to the conclusion that no one in real life cares much, what with you having no idea what any of us do or don’t do to address the problem.

well You don’t do anything to address the problem of other people letting off fireworks do you? Sign a petition or 2 maybe. It’s not like you can do anything else

HauntedBungalow · 01/01/2025 14:38

AquaPeer · 01/01/2025 14:32

No but it feeds into my theory that no one really cares that much irl but get hyped up enough to go wildly aggressive on internet forums about them 😂

This type of prannet just wants to moan about fireworks and they'll use any excuse available to pin it on. If people really cared about animals so much they surely wouldn't eat them.

Runningribbit · 01/01/2025 14:37

AquaPeer · 01/01/2025 14:32

No but it feeds into my theory that no one really cares that much irl but get hyped up enough to go wildly aggressive on internet forums about them 😂

I’m not sure how you managed to come to the conclusion that no one in real life cares much, what with you having no idea what any of us do or don’t do to address the problem.

AquaPeer · 01/01/2025 14:32

Runningribbit · 01/01/2025 14:27

Wasn’t aware we had to pick one thing.

No but it feeds into my theory that no one really cares that much irl but get hyped up enough to go wildly aggressive on internet forums about them 😂

Runningribbit · 01/01/2025 14:27

AquaPeer · 01/01/2025 14:07

Of all the things that traumatise wildlife, picking fireworks is wild

Wasn’t aware we had to pick one thing.

Joelle84 · 01/01/2025 14:11

I enjoy paying and attending an organised display. I think they should not be sold to the public. London NYE ones were OTT in the current economic climate. Save that money for the supposed black hole £

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 01/01/2025 14:09

Thanks Trixie I'll look that up.

Loving the idea of your pooch raising one brow Paddington Hard Stare style Grin

AquaPeer · 01/01/2025 14:07

Of all the things that traumatise wildlife, picking fireworks is wild

User135644 · 01/01/2025 14:06

BigSilly · 01/01/2025 12:59

I don't get the 'organised displays' argument Why aren't they bad for wildlife and frightening for pets?

They are, but seeing as so many people seem to love fireworks then licensed displays a few days a year would be a compromise if the public were banned from buying them

Personally I couldn't stand and enjoy a firework display, knowing the trauma it was causing to wildlife. It's very selfish.