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to be fed up of coffee shops never giving me what I've ordered?

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BrightOrangeDahlias · 31/12/2024 22:40

This has happened several times over the last few weeks or so and it's really starting to annoy me! It's when I order a "fancy" coffee or hot chocolate etc, usually from the seasonal range, paying a price premium for it too. It never comes with all the bits it's bloody supposed to!

It's happened in Costa (gingerbread latte that came without the cream and gingerbread man, they'd run out of both). At a service station on the motorway the other day, Starbucks (who I usually avoid) fleeced me five pounds fecking thirty (!!!) for a Chestnut Praline Latte that was missing the cream and sprinkly bits. I handed that back and asked whether I could have the extra bits I'd paid for and the man grudgingly produced a squirt of cream and muttered they had ran out of sprinkles. And today, thought I'd be ok in a local independent and asked for a s'mores hot chocolate, which was missing any type of topping. This time they were out of cream, and the guy said "you have to ask specially for the marshmallows as they're not vegetarian so we don't put them on unless you ask us to". So why have a fecking massive telly behind you advertising them with marshmallows on then?!?

Fair enough that shops run out of things, but if you've run out of half the ingredients, don't let me order it and then charge me for something you're not going to give me!

It's not me, is it?!?

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SolarWinds · 01/01/2025 10:29

Smaller independents are the way to go for decent coffee

The best and the worst coffee I've had has come from small independents. Chain coffee is never nearly as good as the best but is always drinkable (for me). I've had some truly terrible coffees from independents.

AsTheLightFades · 01/01/2025 10:26

Thelittleweasel · 01/01/2025 10:14

@AsTheLightFades

Off topic of course but DGM [long ago] was always confused by scalds and scolds. Always threatening to scald me!

Oh dear!! 😃

Thelittleweasel · 01/01/2025 10:24

@BrightOrangeDahlias

It is always sad I feel when cafes [etc] run out of things. Surely it would be simple enough to slip out to a local shop and buy some. I had a protracted correspondence with an M&S cafe which had run out of stuff. There was plenty in the M&S food hall but they "were not allowed to buy any"! Brilliant management?

It's often worth while writing to their head office who may send a voucher.

Rocksaltrita · 01/01/2025 10:21

Costa is the Weatherspoons of cafes, grotty, overpriced and not what it once was. Starbucks can be marginally better, depending on where you are, and the chai is nowhere near as tasty as the US version (though likely less sugary!). Smaller independents are the way to go for decent coffee… And large chains that trade on their reputations and regularly scam their customers by charging for products they can’t supply (akin to buying fish and chips without the chips 🤦🏻‍♀️) don’t deserve our custom. Make a NY resolution to go local and drink quality coffee in 2025!

hopeishere · 01/01/2025 10:18

Nextyearhopes · 31/12/2024 22:41

Or when you specifically say ‘extra hot’ and you could literally stir it with your finger when it comes.

Ditto when you ask for kids temperature or not too hot and it comes steaming as it it was heated on the surface of the sun!!

DelphiniumBlue · 01/01/2025 10:18

TomatoSandwiches · 31/12/2024 23:02

YANBU but to avoid disappointment get yourself a good flask and make it up with regular coffee and save the dessert type drinks for at home and get all the bits in so you can enjoy it.

This. I now take a thermos mug with my own coffee in it. I don't like having to pay the best part of a fiver for a lukewarm drink in a small cup. I'll only buy coffee out if it's part of socialising.

Thelittleweasel · 01/01/2025 10:14

@AsTheLightFades

Off topic of course but DGM [long ago] was always confused by scalds and scolds. Always threatening to scald me!

SnoopySantaPaws · 01/01/2025 10:14

mitogoshigg · 01/01/2025 09:42

The only place I'll get coffee these days is Greggs as part of the breakfast deal - £2.75 for a sausage bap and coffee, extra 50p for the fancier seasonal ones. Basically buy a relatively reasonable priced coffee and get free breakfast!

It might be reasonably priced but at my local Greggs it's like tepid dishwater!

the local indies are no better!

no costa or Starbucks in the village...localist (driving distance) are variable.

TinselAngel · 01/01/2025 09:59

My bugbear is that they only ever have one toilet, so you have to use the same one as all the smelly boys.

LegoLivingRoom · 01/01/2025 09:59

ObliviousCoalmine · 01/01/2025 09:04

Coffee isn't supposed to be 'extra hot'. It's supposed to be a drinkable temp when it's made, or the milk is scalded. They're trying to give you a drink that doesn't taste shite.

Sure, but drinkable for me is an extra hot. Standard ‘drinkable’ is when I would pour it away and start again. So I wouldn’t be drinking the supposedly nice tasting drink anyway.

ChopstickNovice · 01/01/2025 09:46

Yes!! I hate it. They don't even give you a small discount for not having the fancy bits that make the drink special!

mitogoshigg · 01/01/2025 09:42

The only place I'll get coffee these days is Greggs as part of the breakfast deal - £2.75 for a sausage bap and coffee, extra 50p for the fancier seasonal ones. Basically buy a relatively reasonable priced coffee and get free breakfast!

Christmascatt · 01/01/2025 09:40

This Soooooo much pisses me off too! Everytime I buy some festive or seasonal type drink it always has the bits missing too.
I now ask before I buy if everything comes with it…

fussychica · 01/01/2025 09:36

Just take it back or refuse to pay for it.
I had a cappuccino at a NT cafe a few weeks ago. It was pretty much hot milk and water. I just went to the counter and said I'd like a shot of coffee as it taste of nothing. They asked if I like a fresh one, I said another shot would do. No quibble, didn't attempt to charge me more. At 4 quid I expect to get what I paid for.

Ellie1015 · 01/01/2025 09:33

Our local Costa are good at letting you know if not available. You can take it with bits missing or choose something else. I would be very disappointed at no cream on a Christmas coffee!

daisychain01 · 01/01/2025 09:23

BrightOrangeDahlias · 31/12/2024 22:59

What would you say if part of the "extras" are missing? Would it be fair to ask for a refund for the difference (say) between a normal latte with syrup and the special edition latte? It seems so petty to quibble over a squirt of cream or some sprinkles or whatever, but when it happens every time it's really annoying.

I think I should revert to my standard, non-festive earl grey order anyway. Better for my waist-line and wallet...!

as it's happened quite a few times, I'd ask them to check if all the ingredients are in stock before you order.

"I'd like to order your nutty latte with creamy squirty blob and chocolate sprinkle hearts (made up drink!) but can you check you've got all the ingredients before I order".

if you were to take it to the limit on your consumer rights, you'd say they're breaching regulations by advertising a product that they can't supply, and try to take your money but fob you off with a lesser quality product.

if you can be bothered you could write to Starbucks/Costa HQ and highlight that their shops aren't able to supply the drinks according to the publicity and are therefore breaching the Trade Descriptions Act (1968) by misleading the consumer. I bet they get away with daylight robbery!

Balancedcitizen101 · 01/01/2025 09:19

BliainNua · 31/12/2024 23:01

'Cos they're too bloody terrified of getting sued for it being too hot 🙄😠

Where there's a blame, there's a claim. People will sue for all sorts, including this.

smokeandflame · 01/01/2025 09:13

DappledThings · 01/01/2025 09:12

Isn't that what a latte is meant to be though? If you just want a coffee with lots of milk ask for an Americano with extra room for more milk.

No, a latte is a milky coffee with foam on top (normally a centimetre or so). Not half a cup of foam.

DappledThings · 01/01/2025 09:12

smokeandflame · 01/01/2025 09:08

The worst thing is when you pick up your latte and it's so light that you know at least half of the cup is foam. By the time you drink it, the foam is gone and your cup is half full. Such a waste of money.

I only ever get Costa/ Starbucks at services when there's no other option, but it's become such a rip off that I'm going to start taking my own in a thermos.

Isn't that what a latte is meant to be though? If you just want a coffee with lots of milk ask for an Americano with extra room for more milk.

smokeandflame · 01/01/2025 09:09

ObliviousCoalmine · 01/01/2025 09:04

Coffee isn't supposed to be 'extra hot'. It's supposed to be a drinkable temp when it's made, or the milk is scalded. They're trying to give you a drink that doesn't taste shite.

Well yes, agreed, but the point is if someone does ask for it extra hot (which is an option at Costa etc), then it should be served extra hot.

smokeandflame · 01/01/2025 09:08

The worst thing is when you pick up your latte and it's so light that you know at least half of the cup is foam. By the time you drink it, the foam is gone and your cup is half full. Such a waste of money.

I only ever get Costa/ Starbucks at services when there's no other option, but it's become such a rip off that I'm going to start taking my own in a thermos.

CannotBelieveImAskingThis · 01/01/2025 09:07

SolarWinds · 01/01/2025 08:59

Why on earth are they working in Fahrenheit?

It's just the units on the thermometer. At Costa the milk is steamed or frothed by the barista using a milk thermometer. Starbucks is done by a machine to a set tempreture.

ObliviousCoalmine · 01/01/2025 09:04

Nextyearhopes · 31/12/2024 22:41

Or when you specifically say ‘extra hot’ and you could literally stir it with your finger when it comes.

Coffee isn't supposed to be 'extra hot'. It's supposed to be a drinkable temp when it's made, or the milk is scalded. They're trying to give you a drink that doesn't taste shite.

Sherararara · 01/01/2025 09:04

TomatoSandwiches · 31/12/2024 23:02

YANBU but to avoid disappointment get yourself a good flask and make it up with regular coffee and save the dessert type drinks for at home and get all the bits in so you can enjoy it.

Yeah cos that tastes so nice out of a flask…🤔🙄

SolarWinds · 01/01/2025 08:59

CannotBelieveImAskingThis · 31/12/2024 23:19

Not sure if this helps but I used to work for Costa Coffee.

The milk is heated 140°F, or 160 if extra hot. Milk burns at ~180.

Costa have a no questions asked drink swap policy. They don't advertise it any more but it's still in place. (The last time they used it widely was introducing flat whites in 2010. They told customers to try it, and we'll make your normak drink for free if you don't like it.)

However, it still applies. So if it's not to your liking, ask for it to be remade. If you like to have very, very hot coffee ask them to heat to 175. (If you want it tepid and immediately drinkable 120 is your number.)

Why on earth are they working in Fahrenheit?

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