He's off for a couple of weeks and I literally have to beg for him to go down with the kids, otherwise he just won't.
I had to go to work yesterday and he still only got up, 3 minutes before I left the house and also said I was only going to the office to get away from him and the kids and I could have worked from home. It's like he thought I was going on a jolly..
Today is another day and again, I've been up with the kids since 6-6:30 am and he's still not up.
It's been like this almost every single day. It's like this at weekends too. How can I change the pattern ?
I'm sick of doing most things around the house and being responsible for everything child related.
Kids are going to grandparents house today for her night stay and I just know that I will be getting them ready, I'll be cleaning the house before we leave ( from yesterdays absolute tip he left it in ) and all he will do is get himself ready.
The other day we went out with the kids and I got myself ready, the kids ready and cleaned the house in the same time it took him to get himself ready and I was still needing to wait in the car for him.
I am just sick of the dynamic. Then when he does get up, he moaps around in his dressing gown. I hate dressing gowns. The other day he came down, had breakfast, left everything out ( often happens ), never empties the dishwasher either. Then his brother came, he had some breakfast. My husband went upstairs to get ready and they both left, leaving everything out on the table.
They came back 6 hours later. I just don't know how to change it, without constantly fighting.