Married 25 years plus, 2 DDs now both in their 20s. DH stopped work to be caregiver when they were young (his idea) when they were older he went back to work less hours, lower salary. I always earn well (worked hard for it), but it worked for us, felt like a partnership, all good.
Recently we moved house, and for various reasons ended up having to take a lot of money out of my company account as dividends to pay for stamp duty, moving costs etc. I am freelance and had been earning very well, but have had a lean few months and do not have enough money in my business account to pay £30K tax bill due 1st Jan.
DH earns circa £40K pa and has paid nothing towards moving costs. In December 2024 DH inherited £700K.
AIBU to ask him to give me £30K to repay the dividend taken out of my company to pay for moving costs for our house?