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To wonder how this is legal and what can be done to prevent it

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Fawnly · 30/12/2024 17:26

Over the last few weeks I’ve heard 3 separate stories of young British girls, moving to the Middle East, getting married, changing religion and having children with men who are older.
One was on here and it seems it ended in abuse.

One of the others has really disturbed me, this girl started a relationship with a doctor from Qatar who was late 20s when she was 17!! As soon as she turned 18 she started getting the documents needed to move. 6 weeks after turning 18 she has moved to Qatar, married just weeks after that (had to change religion first). Then almost immediately conceived a child. Her parents (who are my friends), haven’t been able to visit as she refuses to let them. She now has 2 children, totally distant from her family etc.

Another was similar but the UAE.

AIBU to wonder how this is legal? Why are these countries letting 30 year old men marry teenagers who they have just moved 4000 miles from home!

I have teenagers and I’m beside myself at the thought of this happening to them!

How and why does this happen? How can it be prevented?

OP posts:
Fawnly · 30/12/2024 17:32

AgnesX · 30/12/2024 17:30

You're looking at another culture through western eyes.

They allow it, so the effort to stop it has to come from their families at this end.

What can they do, that’s my question.

OP posts:
AgnesX · 30/12/2024 17:30

You're looking at another culture through western eyes.

They allow it, so the effort to stop it has to come from their families at this end.

NotPossibleToSay · 30/12/2024 17:30

What do you imagine can be done in the UK to prevent it?