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DP going through phone

78 replies

loveydoveyloon · 30/12/2024 14:02

I've just caught him out again!

It's getting to the point I am paranoid to leave my phone in the front room when I go to the toilet. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing on there to hide. But personal stuff like banking and text messages, I don't share with him cause quite frankly it's none of his business.

I got a text message about a bill the other day which i left on my home screen on purpose, when i came back down it was gone off the screen, which means someone has read it, then the day after he started asking how i never have any spare money and what's exactly do i spend my money on. In 12 years he has never paid an interest in what i spend my money on

If i change my passcode he will think I do have something to hide.

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AwakeNotThruChoice · 30/12/2024 14:04

100% change it. This is invading your personal space and is disrespectful.

iwillnotstaycalm · 30/12/2024 14:04

Red flag

Chillilounger · 30/12/2024 14:03

Change it and tell him that you don't appreciate him snooping.