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AIBU about library? If I’m not, can I say something?

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Amianidiott · 30/12/2024 10:06

the last few times I’ve taken DD (6) to the local library, we’ve been unable to stay. About 6ish months ago our library introduced a trolley of iPads. Since then, every time we go to the library there are about 8ish teenage boys (I’m guessing young teens - I don’t know if they’re the same boys everytime) congregate in the library and play video games. The problem is they are very loud - if anyone’s heard a teen playing video game at full volume, you know it’s repeated shouts of ‘kill, kill, kill’ plus lots of heckling each other. They usually congregate on a reading area with sofas which is in the middle of the kids section. DD finds it intimidating and it’s really difficult to concentrate on books with the shouting. The first couple of times, I saw someone from the library make a very disconcerted attempt to ask them to be quiet, but the last 10ish times, I’ve not seen the library staff do anything, despite being in the area frequently. The kids don’t appear to be accompanied either.

is this just how libraries are used now? Before DD, I didn’t use the local library frequently, so it might just be a change in use. I can also understand that these kids might not have devices at home, or anywhere else to congregate.

if it’s not how most libraries are used, would I be unreasonable to ask the staff if there are any work arounds (like times when the library could be made more welcoming for younger kids)? I’ve tried going at different times after school/ at the weekend but I’ve not been able to avoid the shouting yet.

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purpleme12 · 30/12/2024 10:18

I would have a word/send an email.

I can understand how your child is intimidated. My child gets intimidated by teenagers too.

Our library doesn't have iPads. Just the normal computers.

Annabella92 · 30/12/2024 10:17

The staff won't be happy about it either. They need to be in a seperate soundproof room. However, as we move into a post literate future, it's likely to be this, or no library at all.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 30/12/2024 10:15

I would have a word, but not with the staff on the library floor - this is a management issue. I would contact the head of library services. If they want to go ahead with the policy of allowing gaming in the library, they need to identify an area for it separated from the main children's area where very young children will be choosing and reading books.

TotallyTwisted · 30/12/2024 10:10

I'd have a word with the staff. There are a lot of teens and tweens that use my library for gaming and the staff are really good at keeping an eye on them and telling them to mind their language when necessary. If it's putting people with younger kids off using the library then they need to do something.

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