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What are you doing on New Year’s Eve?

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CoolPlayer · 29/12/2024 11:06

Honestly can’t remember the last time we did anything other than get a take away an play games on New Year’s Eve! What’s your plans? Are you looking forward to them? Xx

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Justhere65 · 29/12/2024 17:24

Summerbreeze456 · 29/12/2024 12:38

We've got friends coming with their kids. We'll have raclette (which ex used to hate, which is why I picked it), do some little fireworks for the kids when it gets dark (they are 8, 8, 5, 1 and 5 months) and light the fire outside. They'll most likely leave by 10 or 11pm.
I'll have the hot tub on and, if DS is still awake, we'll enjoy a late night paddle and watch the fireworks at midnight. DD will be wrapped up warm and can sleep in the pushchair.
It's the first NYE without his dad and we used to just go to bed. I have no clue what he's planning this year. Perhaps going out with the OW...since he's on a trip to recover his lost youth...

Have a lovely evening and I hope 2025 is good to you x

PlumpHobbit · 29/12/2024 17:18

It just me and DH, and will do what we usually do - takeaway and staying in watching a film or something on the tv!

Can't stand how busy and expensive everywhere is, plus we have cats. Although they aren't usually bothered by fireworks, people round here like and excuse to set them off, so I'd rather be at home just in case, especially as one year we found the remains of one in the garden

I'm also pregnant and have no intention of going anywhere, even less intention if this bastarding cold refuses to go away

confusednana · 29/12/2024 17:16

its our wedding anniversary, we went away last year, but this year it'll be a quiet one at home. we have a table booked locally and have offered babysitting to anyone who might want it, but thats it, we shall probably be tucked up in bed well before midnight

Godfreydahling · 29/12/2024 17:12

I find it sad and scary too. When I was a child my abusive Dad would always be in a bad mood and make it a really difficult time and I've found it hard to shake off that feeling for the rest of my life.

SpicyMarge · 29/12/2024 17:00

I’m not a big NY fan- it always makes me feel a bit melancholy and sad.

I’ll be working on the 31st but hoping to finish early, then going to make a nice dinner and open a bottle of wine to go with it.

Never make a fuss at midnight. Always feels like you struggle to get through the year and then, bam, you’re back to the start again.
Plus, we had a difficult bereavement last year and moving into another year where that wasn’t person doesn’t exist is hard.

MrsPringledusts · 29/12/2024 16:55

Nothing. DH was usually on call on 1st Jan, so always stayed home, but our poor greyhound is terrified by the fireworks so will be keeping her calm. I've never liked NYE, nor understood the hysteria around it. On a plus point, it's always good for an early morning walk round the village, looking for dropped cash!

Radionowhere · 29/12/2024 16:34

Taxiing the grown up kids apparently. I'll have a few drinks on New Year's Day evening instead I think.

LostMySocks · 29/12/2024 16:17

Family movie night with our boys with party food.
Then they'll go to bed, DH and I will watch another film then wake the boys a bit before midnight for the bongs and watch fireworks from the big houses locally before everyone heading to bed.
Lovely cosy evening. Always have to watch the same film though as it is their favourite Christmas one.

Boing98 · 29/12/2024 16:13

Food, fireworks and friends over for a party

AuntieMarys · 29/12/2024 16:12

Nothing. Dh working NYE and the day from 6am.
Luckily we both hate it.
Can't wait to see the back of 2024

Jeezitneverends · 29/12/2024 16:11

itsjustbiology · 29/12/2024 11:14

Dh and I are supervising a house party for 15, 13 yr olds who want to have a first grown up (!!!) NYE party...I shall gladly fall into bed at the first opportunity! They are having pizza and movies.then a pamper session then outside to toast marshmallows and eat piping hot jacket spuds round the fire pit to see in the new year! then they will be out in the garden watching all the neighbours fireworks. If I can get them all in bed by 1 am I will be happy. Then NYD its breakfast n parents arriving to pick up by lunchtime.

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You have a big heart….I’m sure you’ll have a group of very grateful parents!

Nothing doing here, despite being in Scotland and people think we all go mental at Hogmanay! Kids and partners here for the traditional steak pie dinner on nyd

Eldermillennial2024 · 29/12/2024 16:10

I tend not to do much on New Years Eve except maybe for for a meal earlier in the evening and then we're home for evening and in bed before midnight! I have young DC and don't like staying up late anyway.

neverbeenskiing · 29/12/2024 16:07

We usually stay over at our best friends' house where we have a little party for the kids (buffet, music, party games) then put them to bed about 9pm. Once the kids are settled the adults have a few drinks, play some games, maybe watch the fireworks on TV. This year we're staying home as our friends DM is sadly very ill. We will either get a takeaway or some tapas type food from M&S for tea. Afterwards we'll make hot chocolate with marshmallows for the kids, they'll have sparklers out in the garden and maybe we'll all play a board game. Once we've put the kids to bed DH and I will share a bottle of fizz while we watch a film. We're not really fussed if we stay up until midnight or not, we'll see how we feel.

Bbq1 · 29/12/2024 15:45

Myself, dh and teen ds will be doing our traditional picky buffet then 2 films. We'll do the countdown, Auld Lang Syne then sparklers and some fireworks in the garden. We all really enjoy our Nye's. Used to go out when young but I think less young people bother going out nowadays.

Elektra1 · 29/12/2024 15:05

I'm not big on NYE, having had various fantastic plans derailed at the last minute when I was young. It's just another night. I hope to be tucked up in bed by 10pm.

I like New Year's Day. Seems more hopeful somehow. I'll be seeing my best friend for a nice walk and lunch.

BornForLeaving · 29/12/2024 15:04

We have friends coming over for dinner and they’re staying over. They’re all bringing their dogs as none of us leave them due to the fireworks so we’ll have a full house.

TheFunHare · 29/12/2024 14:55

We have friends coming over who are night owls. We are definitely not and would be happily tucked up in bed by 10pm if we had our way. We will have a retro 80s buffet with cocktails and board games.

IlooklikeNigella · 29/12/2024 14:47

I am very much looking forward to NYE this year!

I am going to see a show with my DC and parents followed by a really fancy early dinner in the city where we will be joined by DH and sibling. We are all staying in my parents - we are getting DC ready for bed then DH and I are driving over to another couples house for some champagne to ring in the new year. It's only 5km away and a very safe neighbourhood so we are going to skip the taxi battle and walk home.

Silly as it sounds I'm looking forward to the walk home the most. 2024 was a great year after some really awful ones and I'm feeling very grateful and happy.

aCatCalledFawkes · 29/12/2024 14:47

I think myself and boyfriend might go out to the pub earlier in the day for a couple of drinks. Then it will home home for party food with the kids. I can't imagine we will all stay up lates. NYD he is cooking a roast for us all.

Legendofthelostkeys · 29/12/2024 14:38

The same as usual.

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muddyford · 29/12/2024 14:35

Nothing. DH too frail and I have never been bothered. So supper as usual, listen to The Archers, walk dog round the block, bed at 9.00. Woken at midnight by fireworks.

lifebyfaith · 29/12/2024 14:33

Nothing. The same every year.

pimplebum · 29/12/2024 14:31

Just us and mil bubbles and m and s nibbles

Elphamouche · 29/12/2024 14:29

We us y ally have a get together with friends or family but it’ll just be us this year.

Nibbles, TV, games and playing with DD. Quite happy with a quiet one this year!

MrsSkylerWhite · 29/12/2024 14:07

Family over, dinner together then telly. We’ll all be asleep before midnight 😁