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The oldest you've known someone to get pregnant naturally?

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ineedtowomanup · 29/12/2024 10:56

My Grandmother was 44 when she had my youngest uncle, a healthy pregnancy and my uncle is now 47.

What's the oldest you've known someone to conceive and give birth?

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mondaytosunday · 30/12/2024 02:31

Sister 45, friend 46. I had mine at 41 and 43. All conceived naturally.

IHateMozzies · 30/12/2024 02:04

55

Ladymuck2022 · 30/12/2024 01:45

Someone with a birth year of 1969.
But they were a different nationality and suffered a premature delivery in complications unfortunately.

I’ve also had an aunt with successful pregnancy in 40’s when their previous children were turning adults themselves.

hellywelly3 · 30/12/2024 01:29

52, never been pregnant before. A total surprise. Healthy little boy. A friend of my mums.

Thursa · 30/12/2024 01:27

Friend had a surprise baby at 45.

Bewareofstepfords · 30/12/2024 00:50

ineedtowomanup · 29/12/2024 10:56

My Grandmother was 44 when she had my youngest uncle, a healthy pregnancy and my uncle is now 47.

What's the oldest you've known someone to conceive and give birth?

A friend of mine became pregnant for the first and only time at age 47 after a night of booze-induced fun with an old flame from way back who was passing through the town she'd moved away to.
She and everyone else were utterly gobsmacked but she had a healthy and very beautiful baby a few days before she (the mum) hit 48.
And the even older first time dad stuck around and co-parented.

Chocolatetoothache · 30/12/2024 00:32

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 29/12/2024 23:10

47 is the oldest I have known a woman have a baby through natural conception...This was 2009. She and her 43 y.o. DH already had a son. So this was their second child. (She had her first son at 30, then got pregnant at 46, and had another son. Didn't know she was pregnant until she was 6 months in.) This is the ONLY woman I know who had a baby by natural conception as old as 47 though.

Apart from her, I have known (in my life) around half a dozen women have a baby at a similar age - 45 to 46 years old, (by natural conception,) and every last one (including the first woman) had a problem with the pregnancy, and the birth, and the child had some kind of health issues/problems. Some they didn't discover til the child was a bit older. But they all had some kind of health issue. (Not saying every child born to a 45-47 y.o. mother via natural conception will have some kind of health issues, but they are far more likely to than if the mother had been early 40s or less...)

As for the people saying their gran/great aunt etc had a baby at 51/52-or older. Highly unlikely. Chances are high that she took on a child of one of her daughters, or nieces...Or even a child of one of her sons... Happened quite a lot pre mid 1970s. (Still happens now occasionally...) The chance of conceiving naturally even in your early 50s is vanishingly small. Mid 50s, nigh on impossible.

@Rubyupbeat · Today 13:17

Twin boys, mum was 55 and Dad was 80, their 3 other children had grown up and left home and the twins were a complete shock, their youngest being 22.

I met them at the clinic I worked at.

100% certainty this was IVF.

@YouLookinSusBro · Today 20:05

56! A woman at work. Was a surprise natural conception too.

No it wasn't. No woman would ever conceive naturally at 56. It was either IVF, or this woman took on a grandchild and attempted to pass it off as her own.

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Edited

The oldest recent verified natural pregnancy/birth was at age 59. It’s in the record books. So, though very rare, it does actually happen to women in their 50s.

unclemtty · 30/12/2024 00:32
  1. Was my primary school teacher. Baby was born healthy. The teacher was very strict at school but an absolute pushover as a mum, absolutely smitten with her baby 🥰
ineedtowomanup · 30/12/2024 00:27

AxolotlEars · 29/12/2024 23:46

52... naturally conceived, first baby

Wow!!

I was not expecting these ages.

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cherish123 · 30/12/2024 00:27

46

ineedtowomanup · 30/12/2024 00:25

Crazybaby123 · 30/12/2024 00:02

52, not me, someone I know.

No!!

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Lobsterteapot · 30/12/2024 00:04

46 - she had just adopted a daughter thinking she couldn’t conceive!

Moonlightstars · 30/12/2024 00:04

A colleague at 49. By mistake with her soon to be ex husband. She retired as her DD went to primary school. Child no 5 a blessing and a curse.

Crazybaby123 · 30/12/2024 00:02

52, not me, someone I know.

Funnywonder · 30/12/2024 00:02

I was 45 when I had my youngest. I haven't met anyone older, but obviously they're out there😆

YourGladSquid · 30/12/2024 00:01

My grandmother had her last baby at 43 or 44.

PreferMyAnimals · 30/12/2024 00:01

KimberleyClark · 29/12/2024 23:51

You may still be ovulating but it’s highly unlikely your eggs are viable.

Based on my personal and family history, it's not a chance I'll take. I really hope my eggs are not viable though. Now, if all the rest would just stop, I'd be thrilled.

LuluBlakey1 · 29/12/2024 23:58

My mam's friend had her first son at 18 and her 4th at 48.
Not IVF - first was at the start of Second World War and 4th was in 1969.

BruFord · 29/12/2024 23:57

@KimberleyClark You're right, it’s just interesting how we all have different experiences. I assumed that everything would have wound down or at least be irregular by 50, but that’s not the case!

Vintagevixen · 29/12/2024 23:54

48 - second husband, two late teen children already.

She now has a six year old at 54!

WomanFromTheNorth · 29/12/2024 23:52

My aunt. 48.

KimberleyClark · 29/12/2024 23:51

PreferMyAnimals · 29/12/2024 23:47

Mine too. Not taking any chances. 😄

I was rounding down when I said 50. I'm actually 52 coming up in a few months and regular as clockwork, still ovulating. Everyone I meet seems to have stopped in their 40s, though I read of women continuing till their later 50s and find that a bit discouraging. I'm ready to be done.

You may still be ovulating but it’s highly unlikely your eggs are viable.

Nano234 · 29/12/2024 23:51

48 naturally and baby is healthy and now 5yo!

tediber · 29/12/2024 23:49

My great gran was early 50's when she had my grandfather. I think my mum said 53. This would have been around the1930's.

I know of a few who had them in early 40's. Mostly first time mums.

GroovyChick87 · 29/12/2024 23:49
  1. I found out recently that she sadly died at 49, 5 years ago.