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To think there is not enough disabled bays for how many badge users there are

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thecherryfox · 29/12/2024 09:00

I have been disabled my entire life, as a kid and even as a teenager getting access to a disabled space was a lot easier than it is now. I believe now with the intake of how many people can access a badge with many different conditions - the amount of disabled bays have stayed the same but the influx of badge holders have risen.

Between 2021-2022 there was a 25% increase in blue badge holders from the previous year, but there wasn’t a 25% increase in disabled parking spaces. It’s rising each year, but there is no increase in parking spaces.

I’m physically disabled and the difference between me not getting a close space often means I cannot physically go. I know people with ‘hidden’ disabilities like bowel diseases would feel the same about accessing a close space. I’m truly not blaming individuals for getting badges because if they at eligible they are entitled to one - but it’s within the government to know that an increase of blue badge holders should mean an increase of spaces for people to access.

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LadyKenya · 29/12/2024 13:00

NippyCrab · 29/12/2024 12:03

YADNBU! I have a physical disability along with other broken body issues 😂 and I only use a space if I am majorly struggling with my mobility that day. It annoys me when I make the effort to use a normal space and the disabled spaces are used up by people sitting in their cars waiting on either the driver or passenger to return. That's not what the spaces are for!

As long as the BB holder has exited the car, then whoever else may be present in the car waiting, is doing nothing wrong! If you wish to struggle, that is your own affair.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 29/12/2024 12:59

I agree OP and I think the number of disabled spaces is decreasing. My local Sainsbury’s has just converted 5 of them into Tesla EV charger spaces! I have seen this at services on the motorway too….entire rows of disabled spaces being turned into EV charger spaces. These are not disabled spaces with EV chargers, they remove the disabled signage so these are for anyone EV spaces.

SlipDigby · 29/12/2024 12:56

Firmly donning my tin hat here but I do see the other side of the argument. With bricks and mortar retail on the bones of its arse at the moment, I can see why businesses wouldn't want to reduce the number of regular bays in their car parks. I also suspect the issue is very region specific which would make legislative change on minimum provision a rather blunt tool.

There may be mitigants like allowing blue badge holders to park across multiple regular bays and better enforcement but an actual solution would take some thought.

KnittedCardi · 29/12/2024 12:54

Children's spaces don't need to be near the entrances. Actually it would be better if they were the furthest away.

This would mean, more space for disabled nearer the entrances. Mother's and babies can walk from the end of the car park, with bigger child spaces there.

Way back in time, I would park furthest away from entrances/shops. Also it was not uncommon to just take the baby out, without the car seat, or pushchair, and just plonk them in trolleys. Or, get the pushchair/pram out, and then the baby. All this from a two door coupe.

Too many big cars, too many child carrier systems, with complicated devices, all needing big cars to accommodate them.

MargaretThursday · 29/12/2024 12:40

Willyoujustbequiet · 29/12/2024 12:33

I never come across an empty space where I am. People have to queue for them.

Yanbu OP.

It obviously does depend on the area. I would say the right number would be at the fullest still have a couple of spare spaces, to make sure there will always be spaces.

Round here there's always loads of spare spaces. Sainsbury's Christmas shop with a queue into the car park, due to lack of spaces still had 1/3 the spaces not used for example.
And I think that doesn't help because people then think "loads of spaces, won't matter if little me uses one just for a quick nip in", but it does when lots of people think that.

I wish that it would be more rigorous on catching people who shouldn't be using them -with a helping of common sense eg if the passenger currently has a broken leg, they can use it.

Bobbybobbins · 29/12/2024 12:35

Yanbu. Both my DS have blue badges but not for physical reasons so often we avoid using them where it's busy eg supermarket as we don't need extra space around the car.

Abbyk1980 · 29/12/2024 12:34

Sirzy · 29/12/2024 12:33

Plenty of people without a wheelchair will struggle navigating a car park safely due to their disability

Fine that’s an exception but I think we all know that majority of these hidden disabilities are not like that. Let’s not think about that. Let’s think about the majority of the issues are people with mobility issues. I think the government was wrong to open the boundaries.

Willyoujustbequiet · 29/12/2024 12:33

Toddlerteaplease · 29/12/2024 09:31

Same near me. I've never known them full anywhere.

I never come across an empty space where I am. People have to queue for them.

Yanbu OP.

Sirzy · 29/12/2024 12:33

Abbyk1980 · 29/12/2024 12:31

But if he needs a wheelchair, then obviously that’s because of mobility issues as well the point is I’m not saying about that. I’m saying majority of these hidden disabilities doesn’t need if you think about it to be closer.

Plenty of people without a wheelchair will struggle navigating a car park safely due to their disability

Abbyk1980 · 29/12/2024 12:31

Sirzy · 29/12/2024 12:28

It helps a lot. If we can park close it can make it much safer (and less painful) for DS to walk to wherever we are going. It actually means we may not need to use his wheelchair!

But if he needs a wheelchair, then obviously that’s because of mobility issues as well the point is I’m not saying about that. I’m saying majority of these hidden disabilities doesn’t need if you think about it to be closer.

Sirzy · 29/12/2024 12:28

Abbyk1980 · 29/12/2024 12:26

Being closer isn’t really going to help that if it is that unsafe then get help the point is to people who literally cannot walk very far that little bit of extra walking is a big thing and I wouldn’t think that majority of the hidden disabilities are because of unsafe

It helps a lot. If we can park close it can make it much safer (and less painful) for DS to walk to wherever we are going. It actually means we may not need to use his wheelchair!

Abbyk1980 · 29/12/2024 12:27

Sirzy · 29/12/2024 12:26

No it doesn’t. If it is being used for the benefit of the disabled person and they are there you can rightly park in one.

I don’t drive, but I can hardly walk. My friend will sit there wait for me so I can get back and also because it’s a wider space it means they can get my equipment out that helps me.

Sirzy · 29/12/2024 12:26

NippyCrab · 29/12/2024 12:06

It states in the booklet that if you are driving a disabled person you are not entitled to use the space, you drop the person off and park as normal.

No it doesn’t. If it is being used for the benefit of the disabled person and they are there you can rightly park in one.

UmopapIsdn · 29/12/2024 12:26

NippyCrab · 29/12/2024 12:06

It states in the booklet that if you are driving a disabled person you are not entitled to use the space, you drop the person off and park as normal.

No it doesn’t.

Abbyk1980 · 29/12/2024 12:26

TigerRag · 29/12/2024 12:25

Mobility isn't just about walking though. It's about doing it safely too

Being closer isn’t really going to help that if it is that unsafe then get help the point is to people who literally cannot walk very far that little bit of extra walking is a big thing and I wouldn’t think that majority of the hidden disabilities are because of unsafe

TigerRag · 29/12/2024 12:25

Abbyk1980 · 29/12/2024 12:19

You are very correct and it often annoys me when I see people that can actually walk alot more than I can. You can see them they don’t need anything to help them to walk. People keep saying oh well it might be hidden disabilities well I’m not being funny, but half of these hidden disabilities really if you think about it do not need to be close to the front whereas people with mobility issues do and I have noticed it’s very difficult to find car park spaces.
I think they widened the scope too much and I’m sorry but people don’t like that it’s unpalatable but that’s the truth. There is a difference between not being able to walk very much and those who can

Mobility isn't just about walking though. It's about doing it safely too

Abbyk1980 · 29/12/2024 12:19

thecherryfox · 29/12/2024 09:00

I have been disabled my entire life, as a kid and even as a teenager getting access to a disabled space was a lot easier than it is now. I believe now with the intake of how many people can access a badge with many different conditions - the amount of disabled bays have stayed the same but the influx of badge holders have risen.

Between 2021-2022 there was a 25% increase in blue badge holders from the previous year, but there wasn’t a 25% increase in disabled parking spaces. It’s rising each year, but there is no increase in parking spaces.

I’m physically disabled and the difference between me not getting a close space often means I cannot physically go. I know people with ‘hidden’ disabilities like bowel diseases would feel the same about accessing a close space. I’m truly not blaming individuals for getting badges because if they at eligible they are entitled to one - but it’s within the government to know that an increase of blue badge holders should mean an increase of spaces for people to access.

You are very correct and it often annoys me when I see people that can actually walk alot more than I can. You can see them they don’t need anything to help them to walk. People keep saying oh well it might be hidden disabilities well I’m not being funny, but half of these hidden disabilities really if you think about it do not need to be close to the front whereas people with mobility issues do and I have noticed it’s very difficult to find car park spaces.
I think they widened the scope too much and I’m sorry but people don’t like that it’s unpalatable but that’s the truth. There is a difference between not being able to walk very much and those who can

itsgettingweird · 29/12/2024 12:19

I've been known to park across the empty normal spaces, get ds out and his mobility stuff and then reverse into space.

Repeat when we return in reverse.

I've had people beep and abuse me for holding it up - or move as they want the space.

I simply tell them we'd be grateful for the email I'm sure they send to our MP about needing more wide BB spaces so the disabled population have more access and don't inconvenience the non disabled population trying to access the same things!

NippyCrab · 29/12/2024 12:16

Ratfinkstinkypink · 29/12/2024 12:12

How does that work? My 4 year old IS the blue badge holder, I can't drop him off and park 'as normal'.

Well obviously you wouldn't be letting your 4 year old our the car on their own lol ffs! 🤣 you would be accompanying your child 🙄

itsgettingweird · 29/12/2024 12:13

ButterCrackers · 29/12/2024 11:58

Access is important so would it be an idea to allow blue badge holders who need wide or long access to the car to park across or over two non blue badge two parking spaces? Park over the space line that divides the parking spaces - longways or across. The car could have a sign up that says I need access. Put this in law - and this would increase parking availability right away.

That's such a good idea.

A blue badge scheme with symbols explaining need and increasing access.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 29/12/2024 12:13

Lolypoly14 · 29/12/2024 10:18

I’ve noticed that the out of town supermarkets/shopping centres have plenty of blue badge spaces and are never full. Our big Sainsbury’s has a 2 storey carpark and about a third of the ground floor is blue badge spaces. Whenever I’ve been in there, it’s never more than half full.

However, blue badge parking in town doesn’t make a whole lot of sense to me.

There’s a huge park and ride carpark with loads of BB spaces - which are never full. The long stay carpark which is slightly out of town has lots of BB spaces which are also never full. The pay and display carparks/on street blue badge parking spaces actually in the town centre are always full. The biggest p&d carpark in town only has 4 bb spaces. There are only 2 bb spaces in the on-street parking in the high street and are always full. It would make more sense to up the BB parking in town, and reduce the spaces out of town. I suppose the council can claim they’re fulfilling the required disabled parking spaces, but it doesn’t seem to work for those needing to use it.

Planned by people who have no concept of disability beyond somebody with a carer pushing a wheelchair - if somebody is as disabled as to require a blue badge, they're significantly less likely to want or to be able to access the 'ride' or to wait for it to come.

After all, if you're able to stand and wait for a bus for an indeterminate period of time, get on the bus, stand on the bus, fit on the bus with three buggies or a bunch of schoolkids already in the disabled space, (assuming they're allowed on the bus with a mobility scooter), go and do your thing and then repeat all that in reverse, you'd be doing that and not need the blasted blue badge in the first place, wouldn't you?

All the 'we need to encourage the use of public transport' excludes many disabled people - and when it comes down to it, councils aren't making money from having disabled on-street parking.

Ratfinkstinkypink · 29/12/2024 12:12

NippyCrab · 29/12/2024 12:06

It states in the booklet that if you are driving a disabled person you are not entitled to use the space, you drop the person off and park as normal.

How does that work? My 4 year old IS the blue badge holder, I can't drop him off and park 'as normal'.

WeWillGetThereInTheEnd · 29/12/2024 12:10

It annoys me when I make the effort to use a normal space and the disabled spaces are used up by people sitting in their cars waiting on either the driver or passenger to return. That's not what the spaces are for!

Yes, it is! DD has a blue badge but she can’t drive. If DH and I took her out somewhere, one of us could take her into an appointment or shop, and the other stay in the car - say they are feeling ill. It’s a legitimate use of the space, because she’s the one who could easily not be able to walk back to a faraway space. What is not allowed is if the disabled person stays in the car, and their able bodied companion goes off shopping!

viques · 29/12/2024 12:08

SnowyIcySnow · 29/12/2024 09:58

The rules need to change, and the proportion required needs to reflect the demographics of that area.
Hospitals possibly need more spaces.
That ancient theatre that only has 3 wheelchair accessible seats doesn't need a dozen spaces.

I'd say round here, it is usually disabled and electric spaces empty, and the rest of the carpark packed. That obviously isn't the experience of everyone, hence each carpark needs to be tailored to its users.

Are all disabled people in wheelchairs? That’s news to me.

EmmaMaria · 29/12/2024 12:07

The ignorance of just why taking a space that's designed for someone with a disability affects them is disgusting at best.

For reasons that aren't relevant I have spent the last five months visiting a fracture clinic. I travel there by taxi as my mobility is very poor and there are never any disabled bays empty. However, I know why. My appointment time is always the same - 8:30 am - so to be sure of getting there I usually arrive about 8am. The doors for the clinic don't open until 8:30 so I sit and wait. And what I see is NHS staff putting their cars in the disabled spaces, not displaying a blue badge, and sprinting in to work. This is like, yes I will repeat it, taking up the blue badge spaces at the fracture clinic, so we are talking about spaces that are primarily designed to cater for people with disabilties who also very likely have a fracture of some sort! It's often the same cars every time. I have reported it but nothing changes.

And yes, Doncaster Royal Infirmary, I am looking at you....

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