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To think there is not enough disabled bays for how many badge users there are

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thecherryfox · 29/12/2024 09:00

I have been disabled my entire life, as a kid and even as a teenager getting access to a disabled space was a lot easier than it is now. I believe now with the intake of how many people can access a badge with many different conditions - the amount of disabled bays have stayed the same but the influx of badge holders have risen.

Between 2021-2022 there was a 25% increase in blue badge holders from the previous year, but there wasn’t a 25% increase in disabled parking spaces. It’s rising each year, but there is no increase in parking spaces.

I’m physically disabled and the difference between me not getting a close space often means I cannot physically go. I know people with ‘hidden’ disabilities like bowel diseases would feel the same about accessing a close space. I’m truly not blaming individuals for getting badges because if they at eligible they are entitled to one - but it’s within the government to know that an increase of blue badge holders should mean an increase of spaces for people to access.

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Moglet4 · 29/12/2024 18:37

TigerRag · 29/12/2024 15:07

Where are these mythical empty BB spaces? I think I've only come across them a few times. Certainly not as often as PPs claim!

Supermarkets, retail parks and leisure centres.

SerendipityJane · 29/12/2024 17:50

I once saw a very clever car park design that eliminated abuse of BB spaces. As it was just paint (which you'd have to put down anyway) I would assess it as being free to implement.

The fact I have only seen it once - despite suggesting it a few times when consultations for developments locally have gone out is it's own answer.

What we really need to do, is create a system were a bunch of folks with more money than they will every need can make more money from the provision and correct use of BB spaces. Then you'd see gold star service.

Sheeparelooseagain · 29/12/2024 17:43

"It states in the booklet that if you are driving a disabled person you are not entitled to use the space, you drop the person off and park as normal."

No it doesn't.

helpmepleasewiththis · 29/12/2024 16:39

I have problems getting a space with a blue badge. The TK Maxx in my town has only one space and it's shared with parents and children!! It makes me cross every time I visit there and think it should not be allowed. Also the number of people who park in the disabled spaces without a badge is outrageous.

Pericombobulations · 29/12/2024 16:30

@EmmaMaria Sadly this is the case in other hospitals. Have seen someone eatting their lunch in their car in a disabled spot without a blue badge, I had to park elsewhere and watched her get out in full hospital staff scrubs and walk back inside. I complained, but expect she and other staff still do it, as there are never any free spaces at the hospital.

And to others, I bet the always free disabled spaces you see are in locations that are not disabled accessible or not suitable.

We often find in motorway services that the electric charging spaces are closer to the building than the disabled spaces.

But its the case, there are always free disabled places when you dont need or have a blue badge, but disability can suddenly occur and once you get a blue badge, you suddenly discover the spaces you need one (such as the local drs or hospital) are always full with many not displaying a blue badge. I have too often had to turn the car around as the places are full.

HaleyBrookeandPeyton · 29/12/2024 15:28

@itsitsgettingweird - is that fareham by any chance? If not, that same thing happened there recently too!

UndermyShoeJoe · 29/12/2024 15:19

If your talking smaller business type parks. Well they just don’t have enough parking spaces full stop but again 9 out of 10 there’s normally one empty. I know because you go oooo finally a space, oh wait no it’s a disabled one. Keep circling.

LadyKenya · 29/12/2024 15:19

I am obviously living in the wrong area!🤔

UndermyShoeJoe · 29/12/2024 15:18

Big Tesco. Has three seperate car parks. Disabled along side long parent spaces, disabled along the store front. Never have we gone shopping and not seen at least two disabled spaces empty in the two main car parks.

aliceinawonderland · 29/12/2024 15:17

Where I live there are so many empty disabled bays especially in supermarkets ( ie at least 30 free ones at various times of the day).

UndermyShoeJoe · 29/12/2024 15:15

TigerRag · 29/12/2024 15:13

It's most odd that only abled bodied people claim they're empty.

We've been shopping (and to the hospital) at various times. It's rare not to have to drive around or wait

I’m thinking back to when we used parent spaces seeing them full while many empty disabled bays.

Our local Morrisons has three seperate sections where it hosts disabled bays, one basically by the cafe but right at the under cover, one lot within the parent bays, one lot on the side of the store. Side of the store is pretty much always empty all of the spaces.

TigerRag · 29/12/2024 15:13

UndermyShoeJoe · 29/12/2024 15:10

Maybe it’s the time of day people go shopping?

A bit like the busses nobody who doesn’t need to be on them at 9am does as that’s when the disabled and oap free passes start to work for the day.

It's most odd that only abled bodied people claim they're empty.

We've been shopping (and to the hospital) at various times. It's rare not to have to drive around or wait

LadyKenya · 29/12/2024 15:12

TigerRag · 29/12/2024 15:07

Where are these mythical empty BB spaces? I think I've only come across them a few times. Certainly not as often as PPs claim!

I wonder about this as well. There are not enough where I live, near Essex.

UndermyShoeJoe · 29/12/2024 15:10

TigerRag · 29/12/2024 15:07

Where are these mythical empty BB spaces? I think I've only come across them a few times. Certainly not as often as PPs claim!

Maybe it’s the time of day people go shopping?

A bit like the busses nobody who doesn’t need to be on them at 9am does as that’s when the disabled and oap free passes start to work for the day.

TigerRag · 29/12/2024 15:07

Where are these mythical empty BB spaces? I think I've only come across them a few times. Certainly not as often as PPs claim!

LadyKenya · 29/12/2024 14:55

Where I live, there is not enough BB parking. The local supermarket parking spaces are nearly always full. I have on occasion used a PC space, if all the BB spaces are taken.

UndermyShoeJoe · 29/12/2024 14:41

There always seems to be empty disabled bays even when the rest of the car park is fit to burst round here.

Wolfwalkssoftly · 29/12/2024 14:39

My nearest Tesco has doubled the amount of disabled bays recently.
The town centre car park has reduced the number of disabled bays by 75% and made them electric vehicle charging bays.

Ponoka7 · 29/12/2024 14:26

"Whenever I go past a lot of spaces seem to have the driver's sitting in them, isn't that an abuse too?"
My partner is the driver, blue badge holder. He likes to get his own toiletries, meds, underwear, use Max Speilman/Argos etc, so he'll partly shop with me, then when he's struggling (breathing issues) he'll go back to the car. Or sit and then join me. He couldn't do a full shop.

Bad driving is one of the things which I support AI for, it's starting to be trialled for bad driving. I think the fines should then be spent on the roads. I think cameras should be everywhere. It isn't difficult to drive/park safely and be a decent person.

MrsSkylerWhite · 29/12/2024 14:19

Whenever I go past a lot of spaces seem to have the driver's sitting in them, isn't that an abuse too?

I’m one of those drivers on occasion. My husband is disabled. Occasionally he wants to go into a shop or the pharmacy himself, so I need to park nearby.

If I’m going into the shop and he’s waiting in the car, obviously I use a regular space.

lleeggoo · 29/12/2024 14:14

@Yellowpingu

Unsure if it’s still the case but a colleague with bowel issues was given a card they could show to staff in any business premises which indicated they should be given access to staff toilets as they need to go as a matter of urgency.

Nobody had the right to staff toilets. Urgency cards are not for that.

Pomegranatecarnage · 29/12/2024 14:09

It’s the opposite where I live-lots of empty disabled bays and nowhere to park for non-disabled drivers.

Yellowpingu · 29/12/2024 14:05

Livelovebehappy · 29/12/2024 10:10

I disagree. Absolutely dozens of often unused disabled spaces at my local town and shopping centres. I view them as spaces for the physically disabled to be able to get in and out of vehicles safely, with minimum distance into the shop or supermarket. Whilst other hidden disabilities shouldn’t need these spaces, unless there are no other spaces. Someone with bowel issues isn’t going to be advantaged with a space next to the shop, as shops generally don’t have toilet facilities unless cafe etc. it’s just a case of people with the hidden disabilities also being conscious that others are a lot more in need of these spaces than they are, and therefore to use as appropriate.

Unsure if it’s still the case but a colleague with bowel issues was given a card they could show to staff in any business premises which indicated they should be given access to staff toilets as they need to go as a matter of urgency.

whatsgoingon2024 · 29/12/2024 13:19

we have increased the numbers of conditions that now qualify for a disabled space and we expect the same space to cope with this by magically producing extra spaces. It’s clearly something that needs to be incorporated into the construction of new services, existing ones are going to struggle. We want more blue badge areas and more parent/child spaces, all the while we are producing larger cars which need more room. It all contributes to these issues.

lleeggoo · 29/12/2024 13:14

@NippyCrab

It annoys me when I make the effort to use a normal space and the disabled spaces are used up by people sitting in their cars waiting on either the driver or passenger to return. That's not what the spaces are for!

That is exactly what the spaces are for. DH has a BB, I drive the car. He gets out and then returns to the car when he is ready. It does not matter if I go with him, stand outside or sit in the car while he is at his appointment. He has used the BB appropriately.

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