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To think there is not enough disabled bays for how many badge users there are

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thecherryfox · 29/12/2024 09:00

I have been disabled my entire life, as a kid and even as a teenager getting access to a disabled space was a lot easier than it is now. I believe now with the intake of how many people can access a badge with many different conditions - the amount of disabled bays have stayed the same but the influx of badge holders have risen.

Between 2021-2022 there was a 25% increase in blue badge holders from the previous year, but there wasn’t a 25% increase in disabled parking spaces. It’s rising each year, but there is no increase in parking spaces.

I’m physically disabled and the difference between me not getting a close space often means I cannot physically go. I know people with ‘hidden’ disabilities like bowel diseases would feel the same about accessing a close space. I’m truly not blaming individuals for getting badges because if they at eligible they are entitled to one - but it’s within the government to know that an increase of blue badge holders should mean an increase of spaces for people to access.

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ButterCrackers · 29/12/2024 10:37

The blue badge spaces should be next to the entrance/exit and numerous. On the road parking should have more blue areas. The poster who mentioned hospital parking as well is right - there need to be more spaces. The able bodied can park further away and walk and this includes family parking.

thecherryfox · 29/12/2024 10:37

EllieRosesMammy · 29/12/2024 10:19

I feel like it's not a lack of bays that are the issue - it's people abusing them who don't need them (same with parent and child spaces). I've seen a lot of people park in disabled spaces without displaying a badge (some may have forgot them I guess but surely not all of them?) and with the parent and child spaces I've seen far too many people without kids use those. Or I know people who have kids, who won't even be in the car with them, who use the spaces because they think that they're entitled to them? Weird behaviour.

There’s a clear correlation with people who park in disabled bays without a badge, and child spaces without a child - it’s the people who have expensive cars and entitled behaviour. It’s always the people with the ‘decent’ cars who don’t want to have their car scratched in a normal space, or generally because they’re large range rovers who technically don’t fit in normal spaces so they think they’re entitled to use disabled and parent and child spaces. I know of people who do this and get fined, but because a £70 fine is like a pound to them, they’ll continue to do it.

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thecherryfox · 29/12/2024 10:33

crackfoxy · 29/12/2024 09:20

I agree OP my mum has a blue badge and we regularly can't find a space for her, more recently at our local hospital on 2 occasions meaning I've had to drop her off, run her in and find a seat then move my car to miles away and run back for her.

This is what often happens with me. I drive but because I often cannot get a disabled space close, especially at the hospital - I have to have my mum drive me so she can drop me off and pick me up from right outside. It shouldn’t be like that, I’m only in my late 20’s and it severely is impacting my independence

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OliveLeader · 29/12/2024 10:27

wastingtimeonhere · 29/12/2024 10:23

It annoys me when parent and child bays are closer to the door than disabled. DH could manage a few steps...but not down the side and round the building. It renders them useless.

I think it’s less about closeness and more about accessibility. Parent and child spaces tend to be close because of the dangers of trying to traverse a large car park while corralling small children who might run off and are hard to spot by reversing cars. But blue badge spaces should have a clear, flat and unobstructed path to the door. In my supermarket they’re along two sides of a central, wide walkway leading to a zebra crossing, so that although some of the spaces are quite far from the entrance you have a direct route there.

I also think blue badge holders should feel free to use parent and child spaces if they’re what’s available or if they’re more suitable for another reason (like proximity).

wastingtimeonhere · 29/12/2024 10:23

It annoys me when parent and child bays are closer to the door than disabled. DH could manage a few steps...but not down the side and round the building. It renders them useless.

OliveLeader · 29/12/2024 10:23

YANBU - I hadn’t realised that blue badge users had increased to that extent, but it makes sense that it’s having a knock on effect on space availability. I suppose it varies regionally as there always seem to be loads of blue badge spaces at my supermarket (which is a very good thing!) but I imagine in other areas it’s much more limited.

Its the kind of thing you could consider writing to your MP about. They could advise you on who makes decisions about mandatory minimums for blue badge spaces etc. It may be that a policy needs to change to account for the large increase in blue badge holders.

Samcro · 29/12/2024 10:20

Ratfinkstinkypink · 29/12/2024 09:14

I find our local hospital is one of the worst offenders for having minimal BB parking and to add to the pressure they often have a mobile scanner on the limited spaces they do have.

BB parking can be an absolute nightmare. I also hate the way I have to unload into live traffic, I have had near misses with reversing drivers who can't see a small child in his wheelchair (it takes time to unclamp his chair so he has to sit in the middle of the lane while I do it), he's registered blind so the traffic around him can scare him, and a friend had her ramp destroyed by a driver who ran over it!

oh yes. its awful. I am actually glad that we are getting a new WAV will a smaller ramp. I hate unloading her and just praying drivers see the ramp.

ItsSoStimulatingBeingYourHat · 29/12/2024 10:20

It’d be useful to have some BB spaces further away, but with wide gaps between them, and next to a walk way.
That way the people who need to be closer to shops can use the current ones , and people (like us) who just need a lot more room and direct access to a path can park a little further away.

Livelovebehappy · 29/12/2024 10:20

isn’t going to impact anything

itsgettingweird · 29/12/2024 10:19

I* don't think you read that PP's post properly...how would them being temporarily in a disabled space whilst there are other available spaces impact on your DS getting a space?*

NO! You've read it wrong and so will also be part of the problem.
It's not hard or different to understand ir comprehend that even by sitting in a space that's empty you may be making life harder for someone who is disabled.

For example they may be single hatched spaces. So we need to wide space ds side. There may be 10 spaces of only which 5 are suitable.
If someone thinks they aren't making life harder for ds by being in the nearer of the 5 spaces for just a few minutes they aren't listening to what's been said clearly by disabled people for years.

They aren't empathising. They are thinking they know better.

No blue badge. DO NOT PARK THERE. it's easy. If you cannot comprehend such a simple thing then you don't have the right level of intelligence to be behind the wheel of a car.

It's not the impact on getting a space. It's the fact that someone who needs a space and could have the space to make their already barrier faces life easier cannot because someone who doesn't need the space but wants it for convenient in is it.

Don't be part of the problem by failing to comprehend this. Be part of the solution. My DS friends go nuts at their parents using the spaces for drop offs. They get it as teens.

EllieRosesMammy · 29/12/2024 10:19

I feel like it's not a lack of bays that are the issue - it's people abusing them who don't need them (same with parent and child spaces). I've seen a lot of people park in disabled spaces without displaying a badge (some may have forgot them I guess but surely not all of them?) and with the parent and child spaces I've seen far too many people without kids use those. Or I know people who have kids, who won't even be in the car with them, who use the spaces because they think that they're entitled to them? Weird behaviour.

Livelovebehappy · 29/12/2024 10:18

Pigeonqueen · 29/12/2024 10:14

You clearly have no idea about bowel / bladder issues. It isn’t just about being able to be near a toilet by parking nearer to shops (although this is part of it) it’s also about not having to suffer the indignity of shitting or peeing yourself in public without being able to get back to your car quickly- not to mention the sudden pain and discomfort often associated with bowel and bladder conditions which can often mean you have to suddenly completely abandon an outing half way through and limp back to your car. I have these types of issues and it’s awful.

I get that, but for example, if you park at a supermarket, if you’re caught out with urgency to use a toilet, you’re in the supermarket,with a toilet in there, to go and use. I wouldn’t imagine you rushing to get back to your car quickly is a better option than using the in store toilet? I would imagine the extra two minute walk into the supermarket from your car, as opposed to parking directly outside, is going to impact anything? Access to a toilet is more important I would think than access to your car?

TotemPolly · 29/12/2024 10:18

Both me and dh Have our own blue badges , I used to drive but don't anymore but have kept my car in the hope I will be able to one day . Dh has his own plus also drives mine .
We nearly always struggle to find a space especially in shop car parks .

Lolypoly14 · 29/12/2024 10:18

I’ve noticed that the out of town supermarkets/shopping centres have plenty of blue badge spaces and are never full. Our big Sainsbury’s has a 2 storey carpark and about a third of the ground floor is blue badge spaces. Whenever I’ve been in there, it’s never more than half full.

However, blue badge parking in town doesn’t make a whole lot of sense to me.

There’s a huge park and ride carpark with loads of BB spaces - which are never full. The long stay carpark which is slightly out of town has lots of BB spaces which are also never full. The pay and display carparks/on street blue badge parking spaces actually in the town centre are always full. The biggest p&d carpark in town only has 4 bb spaces. There are only 2 bb spaces in the on-street parking in the high street and are always full. It would make more sense to up the BB parking in town, and reduce the spaces out of town. I suppose the council can claim they’re fulfilling the required disabled parking spaces, but it doesn’t seem to work for those needing to use it.

Kitkat1523 · 29/12/2024 10:16

derbiee · 29/12/2024 09:03

Maybe some of these disabilities make it unsafe for people to drive?

Eh? Lots of people can’t drive due to their disabilities….they still have a blue badge tho and use the spaces

StormingNorman · 29/12/2024 10:15

YABU. I’m sick of seeing rows of empty disabled bays in otherwise full car parks.

Sirzy · 29/12/2024 10:14

I have seen a few people mention P and C spaces and making the normal comparisons.

can I just clarify they aren’t the same.

P and C spaces are a curtesy normally provided by shops which are handy if you can get one but not an issue if you can’t. Many places don’t have P and C and parents still manage.

Disabled spaces are legally required and that’s because without them many people with disabilities are unable to go out and access the world at all. They need those spaces.

Pigeonqueen · 29/12/2024 10:14

Livelovebehappy · 29/12/2024 10:10

I disagree. Absolutely dozens of often unused disabled spaces at my local town and shopping centres. I view them as spaces for the physically disabled to be able to get in and out of vehicles safely, with minimum distance into the shop or supermarket. Whilst other hidden disabilities shouldn’t need these spaces, unless there are no other spaces. Someone with bowel issues isn’t going to be advantaged with a space next to the shop, as shops generally don’t have toilet facilities unless cafe etc. it’s just a case of people with the hidden disabilities also being conscious that others are a lot more in need of these spaces than they are, and therefore to use as appropriate.

You clearly have no idea about bowel / bladder issues. It isn’t just about being able to be near a toilet by parking nearer to shops (although this is part of it) it’s also about not having to suffer the indignity of shitting or peeing yourself in public without being able to get back to your car quickly- not to mention the sudden pain and discomfort often associated with bowel and bladder conditions which can often mean you have to suddenly completely abandon an outing half way through and limp back to your car. I have these types of issues and it’s awful.

Rustyfeet · 29/12/2024 10:13

I was at tesco the other day and there where about 30 disabled bays. Only one was used. I think it depends on the area.

Porcuporpoise · 29/12/2024 10:12

Got to say that's not been my experience. When I take MiL (wheelchair user) places I find it about 100 times easier to find a parking space with a blue badge than I normally do without.

Livelovebehappy · 29/12/2024 10:10

I disagree. Absolutely dozens of often unused disabled spaces at my local town and shopping centres. I view them as spaces for the physically disabled to be able to get in and out of vehicles safely, with minimum distance into the shop or supermarket. Whilst other hidden disabilities shouldn’t need these spaces, unless there are no other spaces. Someone with bowel issues isn’t going to be advantaged with a space next to the shop, as shops generally don’t have toilet facilities unless cafe etc. it’s just a case of people with the hidden disabilities also being conscious that others are a lot more in need of these spaces than they are, and therefore to use as appropriate.

LegoHouse274 · 29/12/2024 10:09

itsgettingweird · 29/12/2024 09:58

Hams you are part of the issue.

My local leisure centre has 12 BB spaces. All in a row outside.

Many people "just pulling in to wait for someone". Great. There are admittedly 5/6/7 spaces still available.

However - whilst for your convenience we park further away from the entrance for you it's no issue - for my disabled ds who suffers severe muscle spasms and use of walking aid or wheelchair it means travelling further than he'd need to whilst in severe pain for your convenience.

If you don't have a Bb and aren't dropping off and/or collecting someone with a disability - just DON't USE THE SPACE.

It's easy. And makes you a decent human being.

Any other option makes you a complete dick. Pure and simple.

If you think your need for convenience trumps a disabled person need for inclusion and equality you're a waste of human empathy.

I don't think you read that PP's post properly...how would them being temporarily in a disabled space whilst there are other available spaces impact on your DS getting a space? In this imagined scenario there are other available bays for DS anyway? And the PP said if they filled up then they would immediately leave and free up the bay. I don't even drive but common sense tells you this isn't an issue, it's not like they're actually parking there.

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 29/12/2024 10:06

In my town we have 3 very large Tescos. All have dozens of disabled bays, 2 of the tescos always have the spaces full, the other is always virtually empty and I've been there various days/times. They are all within a 15 min drive of each other.

P & C bays are nice and useful, but were never a deal breaker for me. I've had 3 kids, and I never used to get the baby seat out, I always wore a sling or just took the pushchair basinet (or if lucky, found a trolley with a lie down baby chair in it), I think the taking baby seats out the car are a "relatively" new thing. Wasn't really a big thing when I had my first child, by my 3rd child it was the norm to connect car seat to the pushchair frame. I always hated it though, because then baby is it the seat for ages! Still it's easier to pop baby in their seat through an open door and buckle them, than needing to fling the door open wide to get the entire seat in/out..

Maybe the badge scheme needs changing, blue badges for "mobility" spaces near the doors, then other spaces further away get a different colour badge for "needs more room"?

I don't agree with parking on double yellows. Yes, I get it, closer parking. But those lines are for safety reasons. At my kids primary school we have yellows next to a crossing and they are always parked on and it means you simply can't see the traffic coming down the road to know if if it's safe to cross. Been too many near misses.

Pigeonqueen · 29/12/2024 10:00

This is a particular problem in Norfolk where we have an ageing population where there are naturally a lot of older blue badge holders, coupled with people like me and my son (younger, hidden disabilities- I have lupus, bladder issues and all sorts and my son has autism and complex learning difficulties). I’ve noticed in the last few years it’s becoming harder and harder to find a disabled spot. Norfolk and Norwich hospital and the Riverside car park are particularly awful. If you need to be somewhere at a certain time you just literally have to hope and pray there’s a space. I need the width and of a disabled spot to get in and out of the car with my joint issues so if there’s no disabled spot I simply can’t park. That has meant missing hospital appointments at times even though I’ve given myself an extra hour to park!

SnowyIcySnow · 29/12/2024 09:58

The rules need to change, and the proportion required needs to reflect the demographics of that area.
Hospitals possibly need more spaces.
That ancient theatre that only has 3 wheelchair accessible seats doesn't need a dozen spaces.

I'd say round here, it is usually disabled and electric spaces empty, and the rest of the carpark packed. That obviously isn't the experience of everyone, hence each carpark needs to be tailored to its users.

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