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To think we shouldn't be funding this on the NHS?

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AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:29

I recently had my first stay in hospital due to a respiratory issue and I kid you not, every other person in the bay smoked+had a smoking related disease.

I have no idea if this is typical in other specialties/hospitals but it really hit me how much gets spent on completely self inflicted stuff. AIBU to think we shouldn't be funding stuff like this?

OP posts:
Funnywonder · 28/12/2024 10:24

Everyone should simply stop smoking. Because it’s so easy, not being addictive or anything.

JudgeJ · 28/12/2024 10:24

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:29

I recently had my first stay in hospital due to a respiratory issue and I kid you not, every other person in the bay smoked+had a smoking related disease.

I have no idea if this is typical in other specialties/hospitals but it really hit me how much gets spent on completely self inflicted stuff. AIBU to think we shouldn't be funding stuff like this?

I would also include other life style choices, drugs, alcohol, most addictions. No-one is born addicted to alcohol, betting, being an untidy slob etc yet they are now under the MH banner and are palmed on to the public purse.

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 28/12/2024 10:24

@AgileJadeDog and druggies!!! dont forget the druggies!!!

taxguru · 28/12/2024 10:24

PandoraSox · 28/12/2024 10:22

Is this in England?

Yes

ButterCrackers · 28/12/2024 10:24

Auburngal · 28/12/2024 10:20

Charge those who are receive treatment, yet carry on smoking. Seen patients on deaths door feebly clutching a cig whilst connected to a drip on a wheeled stand. This is also happens in the hospital grounds which are smoke free.

Agree. That’s a good idea. It should extend to living with smokers because of passive smoke. It’s also disgusting to walk through the smokers to get into the hospital.

Purgepossessions2025 · 28/12/2024 10:24

Jifmicroliquid · 28/12/2024 10:20

I’m torn on this.
I used to think this way, but then I partake in a dangerous sport and have needed hospital treatment. I suppose the difference is that my sport is actually a very healthy and ‘good’ way to spend time (ie many health benefits), but there’s an inherent risk.
Whereas smoking has no health benefits at all and is not a ‘good’ or ‘healthy’ activity.

I think now that the dangers of smoking are so well known and that the warnings are out there, the NHS should have some sort of notice that they will be stopping treatment for new cases of smoking-related illness from 2035 or something. Ongoing cases will still be treated. The idea being that in say 30 years, the NHS will no longer fund smoking-related illness at all.

Risk is risk. Doesn’t matter if you perceive your risk justified because of the benefits. If we did what you propose your sport should be on the NHS list of banned activities.

TMGM · 28/12/2024 10:24

PandoraSox · 28/12/2024 10:17

Come on @AgileJadeDog where in the UK is this hospital that allows smoking in its grounds?

Southampton, selfish people smoking standing literally in front of the entrance doors to the children and babies A&E.

Anyone selfish enough to be smoking where children can breathe it should get a hefty fine and/or jail time, but that’s a whole different thread.

HoppingPavlova · 28/12/2024 10:23

@taxguru At the very least, those with self inflicted conditions should be put down the list behind people who equally need treatment but havn't abused themselves

That’s way too simplistic though. Many people who ‘abuse themselves’ have underlying factors that have never been addressed. Childhood abuse, dysfunction, mental health issues etc. So, you would actually be punishing them twice really, which is pretty poor.

What about people who play sports and ‘abuse themselves’. Some of mine played a (I would think fairly common) contact sport, and most games between the two teams someone would be carted off to hospital. We just leave people with broken bones and dislocations, putting them on some naughty list?

What about people like myself who is pretty much riddled with skin cancer? I’m old, older than the knowledge of sun and skin cancer. When we were kids our parents had us out in full sun (in a hot country, not UK), to burn like crisps to ‘toughen your skin up’ because ‘it’s good for you’. Sunscreen didn’t exist when I was a child. There was some useless thing called sunblock that was pure liquid and not waterproof so came off immediately with water (we all swam) or a lick of sweat, not to mention with the slightest grain of sand brushing your skin. The tv was packed with ads promoting tanning reef oils (you literally tried your skin in the sun, albeit with a nice smell of coconut), and we spent hours under tanning lamps and sun beds as there was zero link between them and cancer at the time. Should all of us oldies be told to get to buggery with our resultant skin cancer?

The whole premise of ‘fault’ is so ridiculous in healthcare, it has no place.

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 10:23

PandoraSox · 28/12/2024 10:22

Is this in England?

Yes, but this obviously happens everywhere in the country even at private hospitals.

OP posts:
BeatrizBoniface · 28/12/2024 10:23

thepariscrimefiles · 28/12/2024 10:22

Maybe I only want my taxes to be used to treat nice/kind people. Unkind, judgemental people should be covering it themselves.

Me too. Let's make that a condition for getting NHS treatment 👍

Miffylou · 28/12/2024 10:22

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:43

Doing anything which is very widely known to be harmful and can easily be avoided.

Smoking (it literally says on the packs you will get cancer if you smoke)
Obesity
Drugs
Alcohol
Extreme sports/irresponsible behaviour

Who decides which sports are "extreme" and what behaviour is "irresponsible"? You?

Which of these would you deem unworthy of free treatment?

  • injury incurred while skiing
  • injury incurred while skateboarding
  • injury incurred while roller-skating
  • injury incurred while running for a bus while wearing high heels
  • injury incurred by slipping on ice while going out in icy weather to the shops to buy a treat (or something unnecessary)
  • illness brought on by unbalanced vegan or vegetarian diet
  • illness brought in by pregnancy, which the patient had been warned could be dangerous to her
LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 28/12/2024 10:22

My DH always bangs on about this.. 'the NHS shouldn't fund ANY smoking related diseases for anyone who started smoking after 1985! People have known the damage it can cause for YEARS now.' (Because he loathes it so much!) I used to smoke (gave up in my mid 20s before I started trying for a baby,) and in some ways think 'yeah why should we fund self inflicted shit?' But where do we draw the line?

Stop funding illnesses/injuries/conditions caused by (for example....)

  1. Being fat.
  2. Extreme sports
  3. Being in a car crash if you were driving over the speed limit by more than 1 mph
  4. Cycling without a helmet.
  5. Drinking too much alcohol.
  6. Taking any kind of drug, that you get addicted to.

As I say, where do we draw the line? Option 1 would rule out the NHS paying for treatment for about a third of the population!

It's a slippery slope.

Newhere5 · 28/12/2024 10:22

Coatsoff42 · 28/12/2024 09:32

Yes, like kids who skateboard and break their arm. Self inflicted.

I think all diseases ( including self inflicted ones) should be treated on NHS but comparing smoking to skateboarding is quite wrong.

Breaking your arms whilst skateboarding = accident
Getting lung cancer after smoking 20 years = predictable result of stupidity. Sorry
And I say that as a child of father who has been heavily smoking his whole life.

Georgyporky · 28/12/2024 10:22

The NHS spends far more money on obesity-related diseases.

And smokers contribute far more in taxes than obese people.

dragonfliesandbees · 28/12/2024 10:22

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 10:19

I have never been to a hospital where there aren't a load of smokers by the main entrance next to the no smoking signs. Try your local one.

Nice side step. I'm a nurse and we no longer have smokers by the main entrance of hospitals because smoking is banned on hospital grounds.

Please answer the question. Which hospital were you in that allowed/encouraged this?

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 28/12/2024 10:22

A lot of my patients with smoking related illnesses are victims themselves. Either taught to smoke by their parents before starting work aged 14/15 or working back breaking jobs where smoking was their only pleasure. Remember, it was glamourised years ago. Today cigarettes are hidden away in shops.

Pussycat22 · 28/12/2024 10:22

CountZacular · 28/12/2024 10:15

Right, so on that basis let’s not treat smokers but equally the money cigarettes generate shouldn’t go into the NHS either. Smokers can have that money go directly into their own healthcare instead.

It would be grossly unfair for them to be paying significantly more into the system than you (cigarettes are very, heavily taxed), you get treatment but they cannot.

But THEY make that choice!!

thepariscrimefiles · 28/12/2024 10:22

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:56

Pulmonary embolism (blood clot in lungs). I've never smoked, have a BMI of 20, exercise regularly and eat a good diet.

I don't hate these people it's just to think that this has got to be where a good percentage of my pay check is going... it's grossly unfair. They should be covering it themselves.

Maybe I only want my taxes to be used to treat nice/kind people. Unkind, judgemental people should be covering it themselves.

PandoraSox · 28/12/2024 10:22

taxguru · 28/12/2024 10:21

Yup, I have to go with OH to our local main hospital several times per month (he's on chemotherapy), and there is always groups of patients smoking outside the main entry doors (on hospital grounds) with staff smoking in more hidden corners (still on hospital grounds). So, whilst they're not smoking within the hospital buildings (as it would be illegal), both staff and patients ARE smoking within their grounds.

Is this in England?

taxguru · 28/12/2024 10:21

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 10:19

I have never been to a hospital where there aren't a load of smokers by the main entrance next to the no smoking signs. Try your local one.

Yup, I have to go with OH to our local main hospital several times per month (he's on chemotherapy), and there is always groups of patients smoking outside the main entry doors (on hospital grounds) with staff smoking in more hidden corners (still on hospital grounds). So, whilst they're not smoking within the hospital buildings (as it would be illegal), both staff and patients ARE smoking within their grounds.

PandoraSox · 28/12/2024 10:21

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 10:19

I have never been to a hospital where there aren't a load of smokers by the main entrance next to the no smoking signs. Try your local one.

Ah, you 're not going to reply. What a shock. Where I live smoking in hospital grounds is illegal.

Jifmicroliquid · 28/12/2024 10:20

I’m torn on this.
I used to think this way, but then I partake in a dangerous sport and have needed hospital treatment. I suppose the difference is that my sport is actually a very healthy and ‘good’ way to spend time (ie many health benefits), but there’s an inherent risk.
Whereas smoking has no health benefits at all and is not a ‘good’ or ‘healthy’ activity.

I think now that the dangers of smoking are so well known and that the warnings are out there, the NHS should have some sort of notice that they will be stopping treatment for new cases of smoking-related illness from 2035 or something. Ongoing cases will still be treated. The idea being that in say 30 years, the NHS will no longer fund smoking-related illness at all.

Willyoujustbequiet · 28/12/2024 10:20

HRkittenheels · 28/12/2024 09:40

I work for the NHS (backroom role) in a part of the country where I swear they're the reason British American Tobacco continues to operate in this country... I was speechless recently when I heard a consultant say the reason there was so much respiratory disease in the area was because of the area's industrial past.

So nothing to do with bad housing, pretty much the worst weather in England, and the fact most of the population has a cigarette stuck in their mouths most of the time then!

Edited to add I'm not sure if treatment should be withheld but there are some bloody tough decisions ahead for all of us including lifestyle choices and how much some of them cost the NHS.

Edited

I don't understand why you would be speechless. It's a statement of fact. Lung diseases in an industrial area where people have been breathing crap in at work seems pretty obvious to me.

Auburngal · 28/12/2024 10:20

Charge those who are receive treatment, yet carry on smoking. Seen patients on deaths door feebly clutching a cig whilst connected to a drip on a wheeled stand. This is also happens in the hospital grounds which are smoke free.

ineedsun · 28/12/2024 10:20

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:56

Pulmonary embolism (blood clot in lungs). I've never smoked, have a BMI of 20, exercise regularly and eat a good diet.

I don't hate these people it's just to think that this has got to be where a good percentage of my pay check is going... it's grossly unfair. They should be covering it themselves.

How do you feel about people with your sort of mind set needing mental health treatment because they are wedded to a world view which is the opposite of that which we know is positive for mental health? Or those affected by that attitude? They should probably get it for free as it’s not their fault if someone is selfish, whereas the person who holds that world view should be left to suffer alone because they’re capable of making positive changes.

I also don’t believe for a minute that qualified nurses took people out to smoke while they were on shift. There just aren’t enough staff to do that. I’d be surprised if anyone did given that part of the initial assessments are about smoking and NRT.