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To persue this man

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BringBackWorshippingCats · 26/12/2024 22:17

Fancy a man at work
we text back and forth and he’s eluded to me coming over for dinner but he has ALOT of personal issues ,problems with his sons behaviour and a recent split from his partner.
i don’t want anything serious as I’m recently divorced but just want sex and company once a week or so
i definitely feel an attraction,am I being silly to persue it

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Pyjamatimenow · 26/12/2024 22:23

Yes. You’d be ridiculous. Coming over for dinner is just another way of saying he might shag you if you’d be willing to deliver yourself to his front door like a dominoes pizza. The sex won’t be on your terms it’ll end up being on his and then it’s awkward at work and you’ll feel stupid

tinydynamine · 26/12/2024 22:22

Leave it...sounds like a lot of hard work.

TTPDTS · 26/12/2024 22:21

Nope, not with someone from work who also has issues.

Basically begging for trouble!

Livinginadream · 26/12/2024 22:21

So you want sex and company and no strings? Please tell me how that works.

BCBird · 26/12/2024 22:20

Look.elsewhere

Whoowhoopitstbesoundofthedapolice · 26/12/2024 22:19

Don't do it. So many ways this could go wrong especially with you working together.

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