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Electric scooter kid went flying after hitting my car door

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LoveMyPiano · 26/12/2024 18:06

I was just about to get out of my car - door opening onto the pavement - this afternoon, not dark by any stretch of the imagination, although the car door does have a light that stays on even when ignition off.
I had seen a girl (I think I know her, she's 8 or 9) go zooming past "up" the road - wearing black, on her no-doubt Christmas present, large electric scooter.
I pushed the door open, not fully, an was about to get out when I heard a skidding sound and she hit the car door and went flying onto the ground.
When I look afterwards, the tyre marks were about 2/3 of the way across the pavement, closer to my car. Had the door been fully opened, it would have been badly damaged, I think - or she might have been.
She rolled on the ground but didn't hit her head (no helmet) and seemed to want to check her scooter thoroughly herself.

I didn't say sorry - more like "Oh God!" - and checked she was OK, briefly saying that she was very difficult to see, but that's all, even though I think a whole lot more.
This will no doubt come back to me as "she was knocked off her scooter by that woman up the road" etc - but AIBU to think it was her own fault, even allowing for the fact she is a young child?

OP posts:
Runningoutofthyme · 26/12/2024 18:13

Always wise to check in the mirror to see if anything is coming before opening the door

Miloarmadillo2 · 26/12/2024 18:12

Chowtime · 26/12/2024 18:08

Regardless of fault, I think I would have waited for her to pass before i opened the car door, just to be on the safe side.

I don’t think OP saw her and opened the door deliberately! I read it that she had been aware of her going up the road and she didn’t see her coming back down and crashing into the door.
The scooters are a) illegal on public road or pavement and b) bloody lethal
Hopefully her parents will see sense and get rid of it.

MotorwayDiva · 26/12/2024 18:12

I don't think electric scooters are legal to be used on uk roads and pavements. Maybe this is a good reason why they aren't as yet.

LoveMyPiano · 26/12/2024 18:12

Chowtime · 26/12/2024 18:08

Regardless of fault, I think I would have waited for her to pass before i opened the car door, just to be on the safe side.

I couldn't wait for her to pass, she came zooming down behind me.
I didn't deliberately open the door into "her path"... I had seen her go past and out of sight; she must have turned round to come back.

OP posts:
Chowtime · 26/12/2024 18:08

Regardless of fault, I think I would have waited for her to pass before i opened the car door, just to be on the safe side.

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 26/12/2024 18:08

Sounds like classic Darwinism.