Nc for this one.
For context, Im a lone parent to a 4y and 5m old. I have no support or childcare options, which isn't really an issue usually.
A month ago, my grandad asked me to go out to our local pub for boxing day to play a domino handicap for a couple of hours. We begrudgingly asked my mum to watch DC for 3 hours max so I could go (I obviously will reimburse her for her time). She agreed and so me and my grandad put our names down and paid the necessary subs to play.
About an hour ago my mum has just informed me that she no longer knows if she can watch DC because her friend is now putting a food buffet on which she wants to go to. She will let me know in the morning, once she's arranged times with her friend, if she can have the DC and how long for but she now will only likely be able to have them for half an hour because of these other arrangements.
AIBU to be peed off with this?
Just I had arranged this with her first, a whole month a go and have checked in several times since to make sure that's okay. I will only be out from 11.45am until 3pm and will not be drinking but otherwise spending time with my grandad doing something we usually enjoy. I've not had a break from the DC in over 4 years, had to manage a csection recovery, a close bereavement, DC & work all on my own for years and now the opportunity for a few hours with my DGD is being took away because my mum now wants to go drink and eat food with a friend she sees every single day.