Ok, i know 11 is a bit old. I have basically told her that he isn't real BUT she looked so beyond heartbroken. So i ended up saying, 90% of people believe he isn't real but a few still believe and that he doesn't do the standard things like come into the house (creepy) and leave pressies. I more kindof explained it in a guardian angel way.
I don't know why. I basically screwed myself.
Yes i know im a twat for this and not being 100% honest it was just soooo hard.
So my question is, has anyone got any better advice for me in terms of how i follow on from this?