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Why do people get massive amounts of lip filler?

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CobaltRewind · 24/12/2024 17:58

And AIBU to say it shouldn’t be allowed?

I would love to hear from someone who thinks it looks good on them and why?

Is it an addictive thing? Once you start you keep going bigger and bigger?

I have NO ISSUE with nips and tucks and women doing whatever makes them feel good but I do not understand lip filler it’s the one thing looks universally awful.

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PeloMom · 24/12/2024 22:14

I know someone who whenever is see them I think their lips will burst, that’s how much filler they have. But if they like it, who am I to judge?

haje · 24/12/2024 22:12

@TomorrowTodayYesterday agree

@ChubbyBubbyBoo

Not everyone has millions of pounds but they don't go out robbing banks.

For me, I'm really not attractive, and I do care. But I care more about others. If that makes sense. So if I have spare money I will keep my scruffy hoody and dad's nose and help someone else.

I probably have bigger mental health issues. But I do think that kind of extreme lip fillers, is a strange one.

TheHateIsNotGood · 24/12/2024 22:11

So, some people like it. Like using fillers or even too much make up, it's a few people's idea of beauty/mate-worth. Such a shame when naturally beautiful/handsome people alter their looks to suit a trend. Even more of a shame when looks=the best.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 24/12/2024 22:08

TwigletsAndRadishes · 24/12/2024 22:06

I honestly don't understand them at all. Not only are they massively impractical and very unhygienic but they are ugly as fuck.

YES that that. ^

TwigletsAndRadishes · 24/12/2024 22:06

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 24/12/2024 22:00

They look as tacky as fuck don't they? There's no way you can go about your day and do chores and normal stuff with them. Just for show they are, and for a few instagram pics! What on earth is the point? Waste of money!

I honestly don't understand them at all. Not only are they massively impractical and very unhygienic but they are ugly as fuck.

Radionowhere · 24/12/2024 22:04

Mercurial123 · 24/12/2024 18:00

You'll get people who have it, telling you theirs looks natural. It rarely does, especially the side profile.

Yes! The side profile! 🦆

Pleasealexa · 24/12/2024 22:01

I think it's for photos. 2 young girls I know aged 19 & 21 have excessive filler (and big eye lashes) and it looks pretty awful close up but in photos its less noticeable and perhaps does enhance photos.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 24/12/2024 22:00

SailingOnAWave · 24/12/2024 18:17

I hate the fake "art and craft" nails more, just so weird!

They look as tacky as fuck don't they? There's no way you can go about your day and do chores and normal stuff with them. Just for show they are, and for a few instagram pics! What on earth is the point? Waste of money!

Why do people get massive amounts of lip filler?
Why do people get massive amounts of lip filler?
Why do people get massive amounts of lip filler?
Why do people get massive amounts of lip filler?
LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 24/12/2024 22:00

@CobaltRewind I agree! They very rarely look good. The worst ones I see are on the (female) Love Island contestants!

TwigletsAndRadishes · 24/12/2024 21:58

eklaljdj · 24/12/2024 18:16

This look is dying out a bit now, like the big slug eyebrows, I wonder if a more natural look is around the corner after what's been quite an intense overdone look.

I've been saying for a while now that very thin eyebrows 20s/70s style will be back soon. These things always go on a cycle. And lo and behold I saw my first pair of very thin, drawn on eyebrows last week on a girl in her early twenties. Her own eyebrows were completely waxed off and the drawn on ones were very theatrical and flambuoyant in shape.

As someone else upthread also mentioned, the other thing I've noticed is that when lip fillers are too extreme they push the upper lip up in such a way that creates a dark sort of 5 o' clock shadow on the upper lip. It looks like a moustache. Not quite what they were aiming for, I'm sure.

I also agree that in a few years time loads of women are either going to have a lot of lumpy scarring to their lips, or if they stop having the filler their lips will probably never recover their natural elasticity and shape, but be stretched, droopy and lax.

thecherryfox · 24/12/2024 21:53

I’m honestly sick of this cosmetic treatments and surgeries being the ‘norm’. The bright white gum shield looking teeth, the huge lips, the unattainable body type that is completely thin but toned in the ‘right’ places. Then there’s the eyelashes and the nails, then the hair having to be kept on top of and ‘perfect’. I’m so tired of seeing all these women morphing into one another and no one showing their quirks anymore. Someone with freckles, embrace it don’t cover it either foundation. Someone with a gap in their teeth, again embrace it don’t replace them.

its these ‘influencers’, social media and shows like love island that are changing how young people view beauty. The celebrity culture of celebrities in their 40’s still looking 20 that are making people terrified to age. I strongly believe if we wasn’t in this culture of social media, the world wouldn’t be like this.

ChubbyBubbyBoo · 24/12/2024 21:52

TomorrowTodayYesterday · 24/12/2024 18:02

I would hazard a guess that every single person that has cosmetic surgery such as lip fillers will have self esteem issues, whether they're aware of it or not. I'd love there to be enforced mental health assessments before anyone is allowed to disfigure their natural looks in this way. It's really quite sad.

Why does everyone have to like the way they look naturally? Not everyone is a supermodel and wanting to improve yourself doesn’t mean you have mental illness.

ThatsCute · 24/12/2024 21:49

Some women really like the “just punched in the face” look.

Jifmicroliquid · 24/12/2024 21:43

I’ve never looked at lip fillers and thought “what lovely full lips”
They all look fake and pretty dreadful.

LoyalTaupeTiger · 24/12/2024 21:40

Why on earth are you ok with chopping bits off a body, but not ok with putting bits in?
What's your view on boob jobs, or bbl?

WalterdelaMare · 24/12/2024 21:40

I wonder if it’s like Botox, in that you only notice it when it’s bad?

CinnamonJellyBeans · 24/12/2024 21:36

I can see why people might go for some stuff, like a bit of filler or botox.

The obvious treatments are a way of showing financial status, like a used car salesman sporting a thick gold chain.

It also sends a message to a particular type of man who likes his women to be malleable: "I will transform my face/hair/teeth/breasts for you. Let me be your doormat.

twobluehorses · 24/12/2024 21:35

I suspect lots of people who you think have real lips don’t

FatFiatMultiplaWhopper · 24/12/2024 21:34

Lip fillers always, always look awful. And anyone who uses the word "tweakments" to describe having gunk put into their face is kidding themselves that they look natural and fresh and that no one can tell.

Starseeking · 24/12/2024 21:27

I have naturally very full lips and a large sticky out bottom. I've been asked before by strangers where I got both of them done 🙄🙄🙄

It's very much the fashion these days. I know of ladies between 20 and 45 who've had them done. None look good, or natural, but if they like it, and it makes them happy, it's their money to waste---- spend as they see fit.

teatoast8 · 24/12/2024 21:27

ppqqrrss · 24/12/2024 18:49

"often single parents" nice bit of stigmatising there. As a single parent I have to disagree!

I disagree too!

twobluehorses · 24/12/2024 21:10

Michelle keegans are lovely. Nobody could disagree that it’s an improvement. Keira knightlys are also good and tess dalys.

Bluevelvetsofa · 24/12/2024 21:04

Where’s the individuality? They all look so generic. I think the slug eyebrow trend is fading, but the acrylic nails are unpleasant.

ItOnlyTakesTwoMinutes · 24/12/2024 21:03

Bluebellsnbowbells · 24/12/2024 18:31

Why pay money to have fuller lips though? It just looks terrible. Does no one take you to one side and say how bad it looks? I have never seen any lips ever that have thought need to look fuller.

Some are actually really subtle and can look beautiful, you wouldn’t know.

We have the impression all lip fillers look shit because the ones that clearly are fillers really do look horrible - by that point it’s way too far. I wonder if it’s a body dysmorphia kind of thing?

stargazerlil · 24/12/2024 20:56

It’s just fashion, like in the 17th century when they wore huge powdered white wigs with birds in.