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To have found this a bit excessive at the cinema?

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mrsmilesmatheson · 24/12/2024 14:20

We went to the cinema last night to see Wicked. Obviously lots of teens/tweens there.

We sat on the end of a row as I knew I may need to pop for a wee at some point and I would rather not disturb others.

There was a family of 9 in our row who made a big fuss on arrival and arrived in 3 separate groups, faffing around, shoving past, making a lot of noise etc.

The young teenager/maybe 10 year old with them climbed over us (and back again) 8 separate times to go out during the film. She stood on my handbag, elbowed me in the face and knocked over our popcorn in her impatience to get out each time. The adults with her did nothing. I asked her to wait while we made space and she just sighed, rolled her eyes and shoved past.

Surely at that age, it's not unreasonable to expect a child to sit through most of a film without all this fuss!? She was not being accompanied by an adult on these trips so clearly mature enough in some ways!

There were plenty of spare seats in other rows. I realise now we probably should have just moved, but really why should we have to... I'd never have allowed my child to disturb people to this extent. I'd have moved her to another row or stopped her doing it.

OP posts:
Mrsttcno1 · 24/12/2024 14:35

Wicked is a long film so especially if they’ve had a drink etc I’d expect needing the toilet once/twice but 8 times and knocking things over to rush out isn’t okay

ShortyShorts · 24/12/2024 14:35

mrsmilesmatheson · 24/12/2024 14:29

I've already mentioned this in the OP. Maybe you missed that?

Honestly, I think we were just shocked and kept thinking, 'surely this is the last time?'

I wish we'd just moved, yes. Doesn't make her behavior ok though Or in any way our fault.

All the staff were teenagers/young, probably on minimum wage. Her parents/grandparents should have stepped in IMHO.

Reasons why I don't go to the cinema much and probably won't go again soon.

Edited

No I didn't miss it, I'm just really puzzled?

Regardless of the wages people choose to earn, staff are more than willing to tell people to pipe down if they're spoiling enjoyment.

No-one's saying it's your fault, but a simple move to another seat would be the normal thing to do for most people.

mrsmilesmatheson · 24/12/2024 14:35

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 24/12/2024 14:33

Probably going out to check her phone. If I were with her I would have been knocking it on the head after the second go. Spoilt little madam with the rolling eyes and shoving past 😡

I think you're correct!

There was me feeling slightly guilty that she may have a UTI or bladder issue, but yes maybe just messing about or phone checking.

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sandrapinchedmysandwich · 24/12/2024 14:33

Probably going out to check her phone. If I were with her I would have been knocking it on the head after the second go. Spoilt little madam with the rolling eyes and shoving past 😡

Itwontsuckitself · 24/12/2024 14:32

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mrsmilesmatheson · 24/12/2024 14:29

ShortyShorts · 24/12/2024 14:25

How/why on earth didn't you move?

How/why on earth didn't you nip outside and tell a member of staff?

I've already mentioned this in the OP. Maybe you missed that?

Honestly, I think we were just shocked and kept thinking, 'surely this is the last time?'

I wish we'd just moved, yes. Doesn't make her behavior ok though Or in any way our fault.

All the staff were teenagers/young, probably on minimum wage. Her parents/grandparents should have stepped in IMHO.

Reasons why I don't go to the cinema much and probably won't go again soon.

OP posts:
ShortyShorts · 24/12/2024 14:25

How/why on earth didn't you move?

How/why on earth didn't you nip outside and tell a member of staff?

niadainud · 24/12/2024 14:23

Behaviour in cinemas these days is often appalling, particularly when it comes to phone usage. I mainly go during the day on a weekday if possible, especially if it's a film likely to appeal to teens.