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Is this too much?

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Shirtskillme · 23/12/2024 11:02

So I broke up with my exh about 7 months ago and recently been casually speaking to a guy I met on a dating app. I wasn’t really looking for anything just a bit of fun. Anyway after we met up for a date he messages me every morning and night and also throughout the day. I am just not used to this as my exh was always out doing various things. I feel like he is too needy and wants to see me all the time, he has even bought me and the kids a Christmas present. Is it just that I am not used to it or is this a bit too much?

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Justmuddlingalong · 23/12/2024 12:37

Yip too much too soon.

Shirtskillme · 23/12/2024 12:35

He has met them briefly as he called round to drop me some wine and chocolates off whilst they were supposed to be asleep! Of course I just said he was my friend

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Hufflemuff · 23/12/2024 12:28

Its too much to buy your kids a present! I'm assuming from the OP that he hasn't even met your kids?