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IcyPlumCrab · 23/12/2024 09:48

I have a credit card with a £2,300 limit and have about £30 left on it. I have got it up to a couple of hundred but the interest rates are high and I've found myself needing to dip into it due to cost of living.

Other than that I don't have much, I have a £400 overdraft but I'm not worried about that, and a credit card with a £200 limit but it's 0.
However the first credit card keeps me awake at night. I know people have much worse but it honestly makes me feel ashamed and fret. Currently have no savings as I recently bought a flat, so anything I did have went into that.

I've cancelled my pension contributions and waiting on a refund (civil service), but it's just taking forever to hear anything. However when I get that back it'll be around £1000 which will really help.
Without my pension I take home around £2060 net per month and I'm currently looking for a second job.

My mortgage is £440 a month.
Just cancelled my tv licence and gym membership which in total will save me £60.
Electricity is only about £35 a month.
Gas £35 a month atm.
Water haven't been billed yet but hopefully no more than £25 a month.
Council tax is £189 a month until March :(
Internet £24 a month.
Phone including handset £34 a month.
Pet insurance and monthly vet health care plan £32 (i have a cat)
As of March will be paying £120 service charge/ground rent a month.

There always seems to be something coming up like the dentist, household things etc. I think it's the credit card that's killing me, even if I pay £100, £50 is charged in interest.
I have a holiday planned to see a relative this month and in total that's set me back around £400, but that's not something I do very often.
Everything left good on food, transport (public transport, don't have a car), pet food, toiletries etc.
All my clothes and shoes are second hand.

OP posts:
Sarahconnor1 · 23/12/2024 10:01

Are you still in the civil service? Paying for a holiday while cancelling your pension is not a wise choice.

Geneticsbunny · 23/12/2024 09:59

Don't start savings. Put all spare money on the credit card. If you have down your Christmas food shop then you shouldn't need to spend much more between now and the end of the month. Can you stick £100 of your money on the credit card now?

Iwouldratherbemuckingout · 23/12/2024 09:58

Please don't cancel your pension contributions, the civil service is an amazing pension and future you will really regret it. If you post your outgoing we can try to help see where you can save.

IcyPlumCrab · 23/12/2024 09:57

This month was a bit more expensive due to paying for the holiday. I'm hoping now with this new job I can pay a couple of hundred on the card a month.
I've had to furnish the flat too which has made a dent.

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IcyPlumCrab · 23/12/2024 09:56

It just seems to be little things, honestly I look through my bank account every single day.
Atm I have £160 left until the 31st Dec.

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ueberlin2030 · 23/12/2024 09:55

IcyPlumCrab · 23/12/2024 09:52

I applied for a 0% card but apparently wasn't eligible sadly.
I don't make any big purchases, sometimes go out with my boyfriend or family, I think I'm just finding living alone expensive and seem to need to replenish stuff every other day.
I think having no savings anymore makes me insecure, but I'll try to start this month even if it's just £20.

You need to sit down and list ALL outgoings and see where you can cut down.
With that income and the fugures you've given do far you must be spending on other stuff.

Vaxtable · 23/12/2024 09:54

What else are you spending your money in? The bills you quoted leave £1060pm for food, credit card bill, travel so surely it’s doable and you don’t need to take out of your pension

IcyPlumCrab · 23/12/2024 09:52

I applied for a 0% card but apparently wasn't eligible sadly.
I don't make any big purchases, sometimes go out with my boyfriend or family, I think I'm just finding living alone expensive and seem to need to replenish stuff every other day.
I think having no savings anymore makes me insecure, but I'll try to start this month even if it's just £20.

OP posts:
ueberlin2030 · 23/12/2024 09:50

Transfer balance to a 0% interest rate card?
What else are you spending your money on?

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