I turned 40 (still young) 6 months ago and it's like a switch has gone off.
I no longer give so much of a shit about pleasing people or what anyone thinks.
It's liberating!
I can't believe I've wasted so much energy in the past going to events I didn't want to attend, or making effort with crap friends, or doing a favour as it was the 'right' thing only for it never to be appreciated or favour returned.
I'm kind and considerate with loved friends and family, but the crap selfish people can do one.
I've been such a mug in the past.
Loving being 40!!