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To buy boring house to be near good school

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HouseMoveHopeful · 21/12/2024 22:57

Honestly just that. We live in a town where one secondary has massive bulling issues and the other is physically crumbling. Houses are pretty affordable, but the town is really really run down with a lot of obvious drug problems. Current house is far too small, I need office space and another bedroom for DC.

We’ve been gifted a big chunk of money to move to catchment for an outstanding school, modern building, great facilities, naice rural village. But to get the space we need inside for the house we can only afford a modern build with postage stamp garden, lovely area, but just not what I thought we’d be able to move to.

This is a total, total, first world problem I know, but currently we have tiny house but huge garden, and I adore the garden. There is literally nothing else on the market in our price range.

AIBU to have massive wobble? I can’t talk to my friends locally because they all went to the local schools and think they are perfect. DC are all really academic (but probably on the high functioning autistic side and haven’t gelled with kids at their school)

YABU - get over yourself, enjoy bigger house and better school. Plant wildflower meadows guerrilla style on the local verges and walk in the hills more.

YANBU - stay put/stay local, enjoy your massive garden.

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Agix · 21/12/2024 23:03

Lovingly, YABU. I get it, I really do, I'd love the big garden too... but a nice house in a nice area with the space you need inside? It'll be worth it. A good school will have lasting positive impacts on your kids. You can go adventuring into the countryside in evenings and at weekends, and plant those wildflowers as you say too.

hazelnutvanillalatte · 21/12/2024 23:01

I'd say B but I'm in the EXACT same position, living in a lovely small period property at the local school (good, but not great) with the option of moving to a cookie cutter new build that looks the same as every other new build in the neighbourhood - but next to an amazing school. I know I should bite the bullet but I honestly felt a bit sick on the viewing like I couldn't wait to get out of there.

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