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No Christmas card from my baby

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mumtoababygirl · 21/12/2024 06:01

This year is my first Christmas as a Mum. It took us over a decade to have our baby. I asked my DH back in November if he was going to get me a Christmas card from the baby, he said yes.

I know it’s silly and I know it’s not really from her, but I just would love something that said Mum on it.

He hasn’t got me one.

I’ve been laid here awake for the best part of two hours being so upset about it. I’ve come to the conclusion that he just doesn’t care about me. I’m not asking for a special, custom card from Etsy, just to pop into Tesco (which he passes) on his way home from work. He knows how much I would love it and it would mean to me.

AIBU to be so upset? It’s just a card and not even actually from my baby?

OP posts:
LuckyBea · 21/12/2024 06:06

Christmas is next week. In our household, cards for each other are put under the tree and given with the rest of the gifts, on Christmas day.

Rainallnight · 21/12/2024 06:04

Kindly, I think you are being unreasonable. But if this is important to you, then just remind him.

Mercedes45 · 21/12/2024 06:03

There is still time. Remind him