Do I cancel? I’m in a flood of tears

132 replies

dustofastar · 20/12/2024 18:45

Meeting three friends for dinner, one of them has fallen out with me but I thought things were now ok.

She’s arranged to meet the other two before our meeting place. I feel like just saying I’m too ill to go out.

OP posts:

KezzaMucklowe · 20/12/2024 18:52

Does she have form for falling out with people ?
What fo the other 2 friends think about it ?

Gazelda · 20/12/2024 18:52

Don't cancel. Face it out. Otherwise you'll want to cancel next time, and the next ...

Go along. Big smile. Be friendly. If there's tension, raise it and clear the air. If there's no tension, you'll be relieved to know your friendships are still strong.

Original poster

dustofastar · 20/12/2024 18:50

BananaSpanner · 20/12/2024 18:50

No but I find it odd that your other friends are being drawn into it. How did you find out?

It’s on the group chat

OP posts:

Original poster

dustofastar · 20/12/2024 18:50

Tealpins · 20/12/2024 18:48

No! Don't cancel. She'll win in that case.

It’s just tiring.

I had dinner with three different (completely separate) friends last night and it was just so easy and lovely.

Now it’s mind games and pathetic “queen bee” type behaviour.

OP posts:

BananaSpanner · 20/12/2024 18:50

No but I find it odd that your other friends are being drawn into it. How did you find out?

Tealpins · 20/12/2024 18:48

No! Don't cancel. She'll win in that case.

LucastaNoir · 20/12/2024 18:47

No don’t cancel. The other two are friends of yours too.

Unflip

1 2 3 4 5 6

Swipe left for the next trending thread