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Ageism,ignorance, intolerance. class bias on mumsnet re Waspi women

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CAJIE · 20/12/2024 00:27

I did not honestly expect any compensation though I might have hoped. Iwas aware of this change but did not have the chance to make extra provision for it.I do have a professional pension but will have to wait a while longer for the state pension which is extremely challenging.My plans were changed by covid and I doubt I will be employed again except possibly on poor and temporary contracts or gig economy.Secondary school supply on a daily basis has more or less gone.
However what appals me is the attitudes of many mumsnetters who assume that everyone has the abiity to understand pensions and that the Waspi women should have taken so called control of their situation.Maybe some could but there is a hell of a lot of class bias towards the women in lower paid jobs who perhaps were overwhelmed by struggling to survive and did not understand or read the news or the pension changes were not clearly explained to them.Pensions can be hard to understand and provoke anxiety.This appalling prejudice that all older people are rolling in it and this nice habit of some younger women to be sadly quite misogynistic and ageist towards women who are in poverty is very concerning.All sections of society should thrive even in older age and perhaps you younger women should be challenging society, housing costs, the whole ideology of owning a house and actually trying to build something new rather than bitching about what boomers have and their endless cruises etc.
.You are turning against your sex and the comments are cruel and harsh.You know nothing about these womens lives.
Starmer wants to punish older people and older women are always a good target.Your spite about all the things that boomers are supposed to have and you apparently dont is unpleasant.Women beware women.Very sad and against justice.

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WearyAuldWumman · 20/12/2024 02:34

natwalesrug · 20/12/2024 01:01

Absolutely.Some posters should be bloody ashamed of their comments!

Well, as my late husband used to say, they'll be old themselves some day if they're lucky.

WearyAuldWumman · 20/12/2024 02:32

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/12/2024 00:54

It's entirely relevant. Solidarity has to work both ways. Sell younger women's futures you can complain when they sell yours.

I'm 64. I voted Remain, for what that's worth. The majority of people in Scotland did.

StrikeForever · 20/12/2024 01:53

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/12/2024 01:07

The poster asked a question. There wasn't an assumption. Almost half of the WASPIs would have voted remain.

Of course there was an assumption 🙄

MerryMaker · 20/12/2024 01:38

I don't think younger people understand how open the sexism used to be. I started work straight from school in a factory. All the boys were automatically given higher paid work and the girls lower paid work. You did not apply for a particular post, just to work in the factory, and they decided what post they would offer you. Unemployment was incredibly high, so we took what work we would get.
I did many jobs where there were no employers contributions to pensions. So any pension consisted of only my contributions.
There was ni help with childcare costs at all.

Mumofacertainage · 20/12/2024 01:36

I think like all debates some take extreme views, 68 year old remain WASPI here.I do think we all have a responsibility to educate ourselves about tax and pensions and there were endless readable articles about the changes ,in the press over the years. A lot of women I know could not be bothered to keep informed or left it to a husband. Many of the poorest women of my age are those who depended on a man and lost out big style in divorce. We have to be as self focused on our financial interests as most men are.

If over 90 per cent knew, compensation for all, is a luxury too far. I never expected any. However the women at the bottom of the financial heap, who really suffered , should be helped. Perhaps those on pension credit should be helped more and the rest of us not? I personally do not feel due to anything and would have passed it on to younger family. I appreciate I am fortunate. There has to be a balance

MerryMaker · 20/12/2024 01:34

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I am a woman who has been on a low income all her life. I will not get pension credit as I also saved.

Donttellempike · 20/12/2024 01:29

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Bully for her

ClicketyClickPlusOne · 20/12/2024 01:21

I dunno.

I felt so depressed by the end of today.

As a feminist since 14 I have leant support to so many battles, seen so many good progressive changes.

And yet the seething contempt for women as a sex seems stronger than ever (the treatment of Gisèle Pelicot being only one example. The pathetic sentences most of their unrepentant rapists got, the fact that so many who lived locally could so easily be recruited as rapists). This year we have seen women robbed of sporting medals and physically endangered because gender trumps (tramples) class. Andrew Tate made himself a fortune from his followers lapping misogyny.

Women need to stick together.

ClicketyClickPlusOne · 20/12/2024 01:10

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That is a fair question and discussion.
And most women (and men) my age are deeply concerned about their children and grandchildren’s futures.

What isn’t disappointing is the vitriol that is spewed , and the divisiveness that people have fallen for.

Like the first comment on this thread.

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/12/2024 01:07

Throwingpots · 20/12/2024 01:05

So angry with the presumption that because Im over 60 I must have voted to leave the EU. For those who make these ageist assumptions, just don't, it paints you in a very ignorant light.

The poster asked a question. There wasn't an assumption. Almost half of the WASPIs would have voted remain.

Dimpliy · 20/12/2024 01:05

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Throwingpots · 20/12/2024 01:05

So angry with the presumption that because Im over 60 I must have voted to leave the EU. For those who make these ageist assumptions, just don't, it paints you in a very ignorant light.

Hazeltwig · 20/12/2024 01:03

In 1975, when most of us "boomers" were in our late teens, early 20s, the referendum vote was 67.23% in favour of the EEC, which became the EU. I didn't change my mind about staying in, and neither did anyone I know of my age. However, of those I know, the ones that voted out were those 10 to 20 years younger than myself, ie young adults in the 1980s.
The UK was desperate to join. We had to wait for the president of France to snuff it. Britain first began talks to join the EEC in July 1961. The UK's applications to join in 1963 and 1967 were vetoed by the President of France, Charles de Gaulle.

natwalesrug · 20/12/2024 01:01

ClicketyClickPlusOne · 20/12/2024 00:59

I am in much the same boat and would you believe it? I voted Remain. And I am a life long Labour voter. And I spent my teens to my 30s actively campaigning for women’s rights and the equal pay etc that younger women rightfully benefit from.

Does that entitle me to an opinion, in your view?

Actually I have only a tiny private pension because I always worked in the charity sector, and before it was compulsory (I.e the majority of my working life) we got no employer’s contribution at all.

The gender pay gap was still huge for most of my working life, schools didn’t used to have nurseries , no free childcare hours.

I did know about the changes to the pension, but women as a class were less able to catch up then

But this thread is about the contempt and vitriol sloshed around MN for older people and especially older women.

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Absolutely.Some posters should be bloody ashamed of their comments!

ClicketyClickPlusOne · 20/12/2024 00:59

nepkoztarsasag · 20/12/2024 00:41

How did you vote in the Brexit referendum as a matter of interest?

I am in much the same boat and would you believe it? I voted Remain. And I am a life long Labour voter. And I spent my teens to my 30s actively campaigning for women’s rights and the equal pay etc that younger women rightfully benefit from.

Does that entitle me to an opinion, in your view?

Actually I have only a tiny private pension because I always worked in the charity sector, and before it was compulsory (I.e the majority of my working life) we got no employer’s contribution at all.

The gender pay gap was still huge for most of my working life, schools didn’t used to have nurseries , no free childcare hours.

I did know about the changes to the pension, but women as a class were less able to catch up then

But this thread is about the contempt and vitriol sloshed around MN for older people and especially older women.

Dimpliy · 20/12/2024 00:57

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natwalesrug · 20/12/2024 00:55

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Oh well glad to hear that..the lovely people I work with who have worked 12 hour shifts at least 48 hours a week will be able to claim pension credits! Not sure about savings,the people I work with, literally work one month to pay next month’s bills .

Twanky · 20/12/2024 00:55

StrikeForever · 20/12/2024 00:52

I agree with everything the OP said. I am 65 and I voted remain, as if it’s relevant!

But the simpletons assume everyone over 60 voted to leave, bless!

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/12/2024 00:54

Twanky · 20/12/2024 00:52

And which horse did you back in the Grand National? Just as relevant as this idiotic spew.

It's entirely relevant. Solidarity has to work both ways. Sell younger women's futures you can complain when they sell yours.

StrikeForever · 20/12/2024 00:52

nepkoztarsasag · 20/12/2024 00:41

How did you vote in the Brexit referendum as a matter of interest?

I agree with everything the OP said. I am 65 and I voted remain, as if it’s relevant!

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/12/2024 00:52

Your post is a great reason to increase pension credits, or minimums. But it's not a good reason to give 1-3K to a lot of people who knew, and can afford it. 10 billion quid FFS.

But poorer older women should be assisted. This is a terrible way to do it.

Twanky · 20/12/2024 00:52

nepkoztarsasag · 20/12/2024 00:41

How did you vote in the Brexit referendum as a matter of interest?

And which horse did you back in the Grand National? Just as relevant as this idiotic spew.

Redrosesposies · 20/12/2024 00:51

Horrible isn't it.

spoonfulofsugar1 · 20/12/2024 00:49

There are a lot of people who agree with the decision not to award compensation and have been vocal about it on MN. It doesnt make them ageist, etc...

mankell · 20/12/2024 00:47

There seem to be some very embittered people out there these days, everyone is a target and everyone else is to blame. Women need to support each other not be constantly having a go.