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Dodgy dealings in the woods..

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LostPups · 19/12/2024 22:16

I walk my dogs though a wood every day. I've walked there for a couple of years, but the last few months it's been daily rather than sporadically as my previous walking area has closed to the public. The wood is quiet and because noone really goes there, I can let my dogs off lead to run and chase pheasant and squirrels etc... and they r safe and other dog walkers and dogs aren't disturbed by them. I enjoy the walk and so do the dogs.

But in the last couple of months I've noticed men hanging around at one particular spot which is accessed from a nearby pathway adjacent to a train track. They seem to arrive by bicycle and they r always in the same spot, usually sitting or standing behind a tree (which made me jump the first few times!)

The men I see are usually always alone. They look very out of place as they are generally young (18 to 35), wear puffer jackets, nike trainers and have their phones out. Looks out of place in a muddy wood! Occasionally there'll be a more vulnerable looking man instead of or a little after/before the more trendy looking men.

Anyway, the first few times meeting or seeing these random lone men, it didn't bother me. I:d say hi, they'd say hello back, and I'd carry on my way.

But recently I've been feeling quite unnerved and if I'm honest, a little scared.

I am almost 100% sure the men in the woods have something to do with drugs. I don't know what is happening, who is dealing what, the ins and outs of what they r up to, and nor do I care. But I am starting to get paranoid someone might be finding me annoying and might try to bump me off!! Please tell me this won't happen!?!!

I really don't want to stop walking the pups in this wood, but equally I don't want to spook or piss off a drug dealer!

So .. am I'm being crazy to feel scared and paranoid I might get hurt because I have inadvertently found myself stumbling into the middle of a large drug operation!

Do you think the dealers or whoever they are, actually care im there?

Should I stop walking in the woods? (this will.b hard as nowhere local to let dogs off lead except the woods, and one of my dogs needs to run far and fast)?

Is it a known thing that drug deals happen in woods? Or could something else be going on?

Not far from this field there are also a couple of spots where people seem to regularly have fires, and also an area where there's lots of litter (cans, crisps packets etc..) and evidence of further dodgy stuff - clothes with shop tags still on sprawled.on the ground - stolen goods?

I'm so sad my country walk now feels like I'm intruding into the criminal world and that I shouldn't be on their turf :(

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DarkAether · 19/12/2024 22:35

it is a mix in the woods at times

LostPups · 19/12/2024 22:35

ThePoshUns · 19/12/2024 22:30

If you don't want to report it just stop going there

Thanks. I think people r right and I should stop going there. I just don't know where else to walk the dogs and they need a good walk. But I'll have to figure something out I think as I'm not feeling safe.

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Radishknot · 19/12/2024 22:33

Defo sounds like drugs. I don’t think you’re in danger per se but I guess if they keep seeing you then it might spook them. If you report to police I wouldn’t walk that way in case they twig it was you.

LostPups · 19/12/2024 22:30

Lavender14 · 19/12/2024 22:27

I would also report to the police non emergency line. But tbh it would put me off walking there if you're going alone. I don't imagine they'd set out to cause you harm but knowing dodgy people are hanging around where I'm walking alone somewhere secluded would make me feel unsafe. If you are feeling that then I think listen to it.

Thanks

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ThePoshUns · 19/12/2024 22:30

If you don't want to report it just stop going there

ThePoshUns · 19/12/2024 22:29

I'd say drugs.
Could be where they keep their stash out of the way and they are runners picking up to deliver. I'd ring 101 and ler local police know. I'd also stop going there , drugs always equal trouble.

LostPups · 19/12/2024 22:29

SnapdragonToadflax · 19/12/2024 22:23

I would probably report it to the local police number and ask that they send someone to take a look. Hopefully it will scare them off and they'll go elsewhere, at least for a bit.

I doubt they're interested in you, and they're unlikely to risk hurting/killing someone just for being around low-level crime.

Yeah I should probably do this. But in my mind I've built it all up and convinced myself they will definitely want to murder me if they think I've grassed them up! Hence why I've not said anything to police yet.. (and will the police even do anything/care?)

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Lavender14 · 19/12/2024 22:27

I would also report to the police non emergency line. But tbh it would put me off walking there if you're going alone. I don't imagine they'd set out to cause you harm but knowing dodgy people are hanging around where I'm walking alone somewhere secluded would make me feel unsafe. If you are feeling that then I think listen to it.

LostPups · 19/12/2024 22:27

scorpiogirly · 19/12/2024 22:19

Either drugs or dogging I'd imagine. Take a walking stick and a can of deep heat in your bag.

🤣 definitely not dogging. It's only one man at a time, though pretty sure one goes in, waits ages, then another goes in and out quickly (probably to deal). Today a man saw me and he literally hid behind a tree! I could see him because he had a white stripe on his black hoody that was easy to spot!. I wanted to shout out 'dont hide on my account. I don't care what you r doing! Just don't kill me!' but instead I just walked really fast in the opposite direction calling my dogs over for protection (but instead they went to find him, tails wagging 😵‍💫)

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SnapdragonToadflax · 19/12/2024 22:23

I would probably report it to the local police number and ask that they send someone to take a look. Hopefully it will scare them off and they'll go elsewhere, at least for a bit.

I doubt they're interested in you, and they're unlikely to risk hurting/killing someone just for being around low-level crime.

scorpiogirly · 19/12/2024 22:19

Either drugs or dogging I'd imagine. Take a walking stick and a can of deep heat in your bag.