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Children at Auchwitz

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JuvenileBigfoot · 19/12/2024 08:44

I went to Auchwitz yesterday. There was a family on our tour with 2 young children. 6ish and 3ish. I was pretty surprised to see them to be honest. Even taking away where we actually were, it was a 2 hour coach ride each way and 4 hours of walking around. The little one had reached her limit before we even got through security and had a meltdown. And then walked around with her mum's phone during the tour. She also fell over a few times on the uneven ground. Her dad was then getting annoyed that she was crying and whinging.

And then.... well, we all know what happened there. The 6 year old did seem very interested but I think there's a bit more of a child friendly way to teach about the holocaust without being there, surrounded by horror. It was a lot even for the adults. Several people cried, some had to walk out of some of the exhibits. It just felt like it was a bit much. And who knows how much the little one took in. The parents started off with the ear phones on her, listening to the guide who did NOT hold back on the details (and nor should he)

Lastly, on a selfish level, it was very distracting having a whiny 3 year old there.

Overall it just didn't seem appropriate.

AIBU?

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Marblesbackagain · 19/12/2024 08:51

The reality is different cultures will have different opinions. A friend who grew up a very short distance away, brought her children once they could walk.

Her grandchildren now living in Ireland were brought there as young children also. She considers it her duty to bring them.

OrlandointheWilderness · 19/12/2024 08:51

I don't think anyone would actually think that is a suitable place to take small children, but clearly not everyone thinks that! But then I'm baffled by the people who take selfies etc there.
Purely selfishly it would irritate me as it's a distraction and I'd want to be able to concentrate without small child noise. But I'm grumpy and old 😂