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To do a Christmas food shop in person on 23rd?

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LostittoBostik · 18/12/2024 21:45

I'm hosting Xmas for 6 this year but this is the first time I've hosted without having a food delivery slot booked. This is because we've dropped deliveries in favour of doing a shop ourselves this year as part of drive to save money on our food costs as a family, so I missed things like the Ocado booking slot reminder.
I've never done a Xmas the old fashioned way - going around the shop with a giant trolley.
I'm only doing a large chicken rather than turkey as only 4 of 6 eat meat. Will there be a chicken left to buy on the 23rd in a large superstore? And will things like mince pies be left?
Sorry if I sound quite stupid! The mental load overwhelm is out of control and I'm suddenly having a massive panic attack about it all.

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DelicateSoundOfEchos · 18/12/2024 23:39

I go to M&S on 23rd every year at 6am and it's fine. Everything is fully stocked and the shop is always fairly quiet. I'm done and driving away by 6.30am.

Elizo · 18/12/2024 23:36

LostittoBostik · 18/12/2024 21:45

I'm hosting Xmas for 6 this year but this is the first time I've hosted without having a food delivery slot booked. This is because we've dropped deliveries in favour of doing a shop ourselves this year as part of drive to save money on our food costs as a family, so I missed things like the Ocado booking slot reminder.
I've never done a Xmas the old fashioned way - going around the shop with a giant trolley.
I'm only doing a large chicken rather than turkey as only 4 of 6 eat meat. Will there be a chicken left to buy on the 23rd in a large superstore? And will things like mince pies be left?
Sorry if I sound quite stupid! The mental load overwhelm is out of control and I'm suddenly having a massive panic attack about it all.

I think you’ll be fine. Go earlier in the day? Then you can always go to other shops. Shelves are full on 23rd in my experience. Although people are grabbing the turkeys!

thriftyhen · 18/12/2024 23:36

Christmas Eve is the best time to go as there is always so much food reduced in price.

LostittoBostik · 18/12/2024 23:33

NotABeliever · 18/12/2024 23:32

Much better to go early on 23rd than to rely on an online delivery which may have missing items or substitutions! At least in person if something is out of stock, you have control over a plan b.
Couple of years ago I had a disaster on
Christmas Eve with a failed Waitrose Deliver order which was going to be my main course for 14 people! It just didn't turn up and they said the supplier had staffing issues. Real nightmare and never again will I rely on an online order for a big event unless it's days in advance I can make a plan b!

Good point!

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MushMonster · 18/12/2024 23:32

You will be OK OP. I have done it myself, middle size town, with no knoen supply chain issues, and I always got my dinner items.
I would suggest you to go early morning, just to avoid the crowds and massive queues at the tills.

LostittoBostik · 18/12/2024 23:32

mondaytosunday · 18/12/2024 23:01

Before online shopping was a thing, my DH and I went to a huge super Tesco and had to wait 45 minutes in line to check out. Then one hour and a half to get out of the parking lot! We got the food but never ever again. I imagine things are different now with online but I want to be spending the days around Christmas with my family and not stressing out about getting the specific Christmas cake or turkey etc. I booked my slot late September for Dec 23. Still enough time if there's something missing/forgotten, but much less stress.
I don't understand how not having a delivery has saved you money? Surely the, what, £5 delivery is on par with the cost of petrol used? Not to mention the time involved.

It saves money generally across the year as I'm a massive impulse spender online whereas in person I go with a list and buy just what we need for the meals we're having that week. It's saved us over £150 a month on average. I was in some v bad and expensive habits after the shopping "treats" all crept in during lockdown.

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NotABeliever · 18/12/2024 23:32

Much better to go early on 23rd than to rely on an online delivery which may have missing items or substitutions! At least in person if something is out of stock, you have control over a plan b.
Couple of years ago I had a disaster on
Christmas Eve with a failed Waitrose Deliver order which was going to be my main course for 14 people! It just didn't turn up and they said the supplier had staffing issues. Real nightmare and never again will I rely on an online order for a big event unless it's days in advance I can make a plan b!

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 18/12/2024 23:28

@LostittoBostik believe it or not I always do my food shopping on christmas eve and have never had any bother getting what I want!! go for it! I also find it quieter!!

MumOfOneAllAlone · 18/12/2024 23:25

You'll have to go as early as possible, like 5am

I'd say crowds are the bigger issue. It seems like the supermarkets have got loads of mince pies this year, whenever I'm in Asda or Tesco, there are stacks of them, and they've been discounted too

You should be able to get a chicken tbh, but obviously I wouldn't risk the turkey, but not an issue for you

Have a lovely one x

Mumbleitsoftly · 18/12/2024 23:08

I hate online food shopping.

I'm going for opening on 23rd to my local supermarket. I buy bits along the way throughout nov/Dec and get the last minute fresh things and household things on the 23rd.

It's always been fine. I don't really need to go early either but I like the excitement of it!

mondaytosunday · 18/12/2024 23:01

Before online shopping was a thing, my DH and I went to a huge super Tesco and had to wait 45 minutes in line to check out. Then one hour and a half to get out of the parking lot! We got the food but never ever again. I imagine things are different now with online but I want to be spending the days around Christmas with my family and not stressing out about getting the specific Christmas cake or turkey etc. I booked my slot late September for Dec 23. Still enough time if there's something missing/forgotten, but much less stress.
I don't understand how not having a delivery has saved you money? Surely the, what, £5 delivery is on par with the cost of petrol used? Not to mention the time involved.

NeedWineNow · 18/12/2024 23:00

There’s only 3 of us on Xmas Eve/Xmas Day. I’ve been buying bits like sauces, Elmleigh cream etc over the past few days. I’ve got a slot at Sainsbury’s on 23rd to pick up my veg pack and will collect turkey etc from our butcher on Xmas Eve. We’ve got an 11-12 collection slot on the 23rd but planning get there earlier for any last minute bits. A few years ago I ordered everything to pick up on the 23rd and had to pop out on the 24th for some more beers. The supermarket was stacked, I could have left all my food shopping until then!

FusionChefGeoff · 18/12/2024 22:59

You can certainly get all the mince pies / chocs / crackers etc now though. Do you have a garage or shed? Veg will keep well in a sealed box outside.

WhitestShadeofPale · 18/12/2024 22:50

Put it this way: one year we had a second Christmas dinner with friends and I got everything I needed on 27 Dec

xTheLoudLeaderx · 18/12/2024 22:36

I got a turkey from M&S in a train station on Christmas Eve for £3.00… ! If you are open to what meat you have you will be fine.

I saw a ham joint for £32 in M&S yesterday. That’s absolutely insane. Who is paying them prices ?

Mrswhatsit40 · 18/12/2024 22:30

You'll be fine so long as you get to the supermarket at 4am.

And then do the Organic Turkey Trot to grab your bird.

If you don't know what I'm talking about watch Grumpy Old Women at Christmas on YouTube - I watch it every year 😂

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 18/12/2024 22:30

I did a lot today making sure any fridge stuff had a decent use by date on including the turkey crown which were thin in the ground. Bagged the last one in Sainsbo's (for today).

Will grab the rest after my last nightshift at 7am on Christmas Eve (expecting it to be a bit busy after this thread!) then my partner and I might take a walk to our nearest Waitrose in the eve to see if there are any bargains to be had.

Tumbleweed101 · 18/12/2024 22:28

I've got a shopping delivery slot booked at the weekend so that if anything isn't available I still have time to look in the shops on 23rd or 24th. I always get my shopping delivered each week so it isn't just because it is Christmas.

Differentstarts · 18/12/2024 22:27

Why don't you go now and do the bulk of it then you just need the fresh stuff on the 23rd rather then a full shop

GoingOverToTheDarkSide · 18/12/2024 22:25

I always go first opening on the 24th. Weirdly enjoy it. I really hate the long Christmas build up so present shopping is done over mid Dec, then food is the last thing and that feels suitably Christmassy to me. I usually order the joint from farmers in advance but that’s because none of us love roast Turkey.

LolaLouise · 18/12/2024 22:24

Im going 23rd, no online slots, literally my only option around my work shifts. If they dont have everything then we dont have it, it is what it is, but i cant shop any other day.

Differentstarts · 18/12/2024 22:23

Everyone goes early to avoid the crowds, this creates crowds its quieter in the afternoon. Also remember supermarkets opening times will be different with them closing early Sunday some will open at midnight others won't reopen until around 8am

LuubyLuu · 18/12/2024 22:22

I go in the evening and it's usually quiet (everyone else going at 6/7am!).
The shelves are continually refreshed so you should be fine.

CalicoPusscat · 18/12/2024 22:22

I'm going on 22nd, it should be fine

CautiousLurker01 · 18/12/2024 22:20

All teh shops will have loads in stock. You’ll be fine.