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General Anaesthetic / for 4 Year Old

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LDN1 · 18/12/2024 18:55

Hi all,

Following on from my last thread regarding some dental issues with our DD4, there are two teeth that never fully formed and they are causing issues. We have been given the options (we see a well respected specialist this weekend so will see if there's any other options) - of a potential crown situ' or removal of the two teeth in question.

Now... with DD4 being very timid and nervous, we've already been told that gas might not be an option, which leaves general anaesthetic.

Of course, with her being only 4, we have some reservations and anxiety about that. Rather than lean on Google and the rabbit hole that might bring, I wanted to ask on here... has anyone else had their child, as young as 4, go under GA?

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TaggieO · 13/01/2025 20:12

One thing you can do is go on the nhs list and then call repeatedly to ask about cancellations - these happen all the time, so are a good way to get seen.

Strictlymad · 13/01/2025 20:11

My 2 year old has had multiple ga. You can have gas or canula. Can also have an oral sedate before (like calpol) which relaxes them. I’m not gonna lie of course it’s not a nice time as a parent and you always worry. But the teams we’ve been under have been fab, so reassuring and kind

Winter42 · 13/01/2025 20:05

Not quite the same thing.... But my elderly hamster recently had general anaesthetic for dental surgery amd he cam through it just fine.

Tupperwarefan · 13/01/2025 20:03

My 4yr old had his tonsils out. They put him under GA while he was looking at his iPad. I was taken to recovery and he was crying as he came around (v common) so I went on the trolley with him. Within an hour he was fine. He can't remember any of the crying now but does remember the hospital food!

LDN1 · 13/01/2025 19:37

Very interesting points made here and it sort of matches my own views after a lot of research.

I really appreciate the posts as it helps to build a picture. So thank you again.

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SI85 · 13/01/2025 15:41

DD did at 4 months for an MRI and was totally fine. I actually managed to get her to sleep before the GA which was easier, although she did get upset as she was going under. I just wish they'd had me there when she woke up but they called me in soon after. Needed to be done x

Greybeardy · 13/01/2025 15:37

I would want to know how many 4 year olds they were sedating each year and how they maintain their anaesthetic skills for that group if it's not many (even if it's 'just' sedation you need to be able to manage an anaesthetic because it's a pretty fine line). I'd also want to know how well the local is likely to work if there's current infection (local doesn't work so well when there's infection so the sedation may need to be deeper...which runs the risk of becoming an anaesthetic). I wouldn't be wildly keen on sedation for shared airway in a remote site in a 4 yr old (but perhaps that's just because I work in a hospital where it's not common practice).

AgeingDoc · 13/01/2025 15:32

Obviously as an anaesthetist I have a particular viewpoint as a result of my own training and experience, so read my comments with that in mind. I am also an experienced dental sedationist, though only for adults. Personally, I would not be enthusiastic about iv sedation for a small child, especially outside a hospital. People sometimes talk about sedation and general anaesthesia as if they are 2 completely different things but they are really just different points on a spectrum with many of the same benefits but also similar risks.

Both as a professional and as a parent my personal preference would be for a general anaesthetic in a small child because the airway is controlled and once the child is anaesthetised the dental team can get on with things quickly. As I say, I have no experience of dental sedation in this age group, but with adults the aim is to have the patient sedated enough to be calm and but still awake enough to maintain their own airway and to be sufficiently cooperative with the dentist. I can't imagine that is very easy with a very young child. There is a fine line to walk. Too little and the child may be distressed and the procedure difficult to perform. Too much and you risk crossing the line from heavier sedation into a GA but without a controlled airway.
I'm sure the clinic you mention does have very well trained staff, enough equipment etc or they they wouldn't get through the necessary statutory inspections and so on, and I'm sure it's possible for a skilled practitioner to provide safe sedation for even very small children but I think the fact that it is not something that is widely offered in either the private sector or the NHS does say something. Personally, if a small child of mine needed to be sedated I would prefer the safety net of being in a hospital and for them to have a GA with the airway controlled from the outset.

LDN1 · 13/01/2025 14:12

Thank you again to everyone. You've all been a help. We are now a few steps along in the process and looking at dates. We can only see two private options as it stands / as the NHS route could be months (or in one case we heard, years (two to be exact!)):

  • GA at a private hospital
vs
  • IV sedative at ToothBeary in London

The IV sedative route seems to be exclusively for over 6 year olds (from what we can find), but they say they can do it in younger children.

Our own dentist seemed to think it an odd route for a 4 year old, which raised some questions, but their reviews seem very good.

Does anyone have any experience of Toothbeary and the IV sedation route - that seems to be off limits to young children and toddlers, everywhere else other than here?

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Chersfrozenface · 09/01/2025 16:13

LDN1 · 09/01/2025 15:52

We now have antibiotics. But another twist... the dentist wrote two different amounts for the dose. One record states '3 x 250mg daily' and another states '3 x 5ml daily'.

I've called them and they say it's the same
thing ... but doing online conversions... that is not the case!

What to do?

They are the same. For instance, medicines.org gives details for an antibiotic called Clarithromycin 250mg/5ml Oral Suspension.

CesarSoubreyon · 09/01/2025 16:11

My daughter had lengthy surgeries at 5 months old, 1 year, 3 years and 8 years.

She's absolutely fine (apart from the issue that required the surgery in the first place) and doesn't remember much of any of them expect the most recent one.

Please don't worry about it, if it needs doing for her health then it needs doing.

You'll generally find that the doctors and nurses and especially the anaesthetists are used to dealing with anxious children.

Balloonhearts · 09/01/2025 16:10

I was put under 4 times between 2 and 5. Then again at 6 for dental work. It was fine. Kids tend to recover quickly from it. The bit I hated was having the numbing cream on the backs of my hands so I wouldn't feel the cannula. Apparently I was somewhat difficult about it and made my anesthetist crawl into the Wendy house with me for a pretend cup of tea before I let him put the cannula in.

Printedword · 09/01/2025 16:08

DS was prem and had surgery when under one.

Ineffable23 · 09/01/2025 16:05

What are the antibiotics and what is the strength of them? I.e. X mg per X ml?

LDN1 · 09/01/2025 15:52

We now have antibiotics. But another twist... the dentist wrote two different amounts for the dose. One record states '3 x 250mg daily' and another states '3 x 5ml daily'.

I've called them and they say it's the same
thing ... but doing online conversions... that is not the case!

What to do?

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AgeingDoc · 08/01/2025 03:47

I'd go back to your dentist in the first instance, to check that there isn't an abcess or something like that. If there is, antibiotics may help relieve the pain. Your dentist may be able to speak to the hospital dental service and ask them to expedite matters given your DD's pain, but I'm afraid that can't be guaranteed. Unfortunately there are a lot of children in the same boat as NHS dental services are overwhelmed. 6-12 month waits are common I'm afraid. The teams will be working flat out but the demand is just so high. But there is no harm in asking, and there may be something else going on that the dentist can help with in the meantime so I'd give your own dentist a call in the morning and let them know what's happening,

LDN1 · 08/01/2025 02:32

An update on this... and hoping for some advice.

We made it through Xmas and new year. Not remembering all that I've posted precisely, forgive any repeat info...

We were told it could be a six month wait on the NHS, for the GA / removal of teeth. And so we looked at the private route. Even this is a one month wait (from today).

We've just, this evening, had to take DD to A&E due to the pain and discomfort. It's the first time she's ever had to go to A&E and so we are not the type to rush there whenever she's poorly.

We were told to simply up the pain killer dosage... and that was that.

We are now all up at 2am with her in pain.

I cannot fathom how we find ourselves in this situation. Our daughter is in pain. She will now be missing school (weeks of it at this rate). NHS wait could be half a year and even private is a month. A&E can't do anything, which I understand.

What do we do? I've never been so genuinely confused.

Any advice appreciated...

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Needanewname42 · 19/12/2024 18:13

@AgeingDoc and @Greybeardy
Thanks that makes a whole lot of sense. It was Scotland on outskirts of Glasgow. DS was 3 and had finger caught in a door, the tip was hanging off.

When we got in the car I opted for the local general hospital, who did what they could before sending us on our way.

Growsomeballswoman · 19/12/2024 18:06

My DS had one at 4 for a hernia. He was fine but became delirious when emerging from the GA. It's apparently common but no one told me this could happen. It didn't last long though and we were home the same day.

Greybeardy · 19/12/2024 17:52

Not sure what the set-up in that hospital was (guessing possibly not England, so perhaps things are different wherever it is). As per PP though, it's not just the need for anaesthetic that determines where the best place for an operation is. Not every hospital has plastic surgery for example, so it may have been that anyone needing plastics gets shipped out. There needs to be adequate paediatric ward capacity & paediatrician cover too. Sometimes a child with medical problems might need transferring out for even routine surgery if that condition could be a problem perioperatively that would be difficult to manage at the original hospital.

AgeingDoc · 19/12/2024 16:47

Needanewname42 · 19/12/2024 16:05

@Greybeardy
Is it maybe just a Heath Board policy that children should be treated at the Children's Hospital?

I'm going off a rushed comment from an A&E nurse. Almost 5 years ago but it feels like yesterday, LO and a finger injury, that had a plastic surgeon put back together.

It may have been the need for a plastic surgeon that was the limiting factor rather than/as well as anaesthestic factors. There's generally quite a few factors involved in the decision where the best place for someone to be treated is and for a child age and size will come into it as well as what the required surgery is and whether the child has any coexisting medical conditions. All UK consultants will have been trained in paediatric anaesthesia but those who work in specialist centres doing more complex work with children will have done more and will have the necessary experience to deal with tiny children, those with underlying medical conditions and those having complex surgery. But it's the whole team that matters,not just the anaesthetist, so the surgical paediatric and nursing staff as well as the anaesthetic team. You need a critical mass of patients of any particular type for clinical teams to be able to maintain the necessary skills so a lot of straightforward paediatric surgery can be done perfectly well in general hospitals but sometimes it is preferable for particular children to be in a specialist children's hospital.

Toddlerteaplease · 19/12/2024 16:27

It's bread and butter for our daycase unit. He'll be absolutely fine.

ItGhoul · 19/12/2024 16:06

Tiny babies go under general anaesthetics all the time, let alone four-year-olds. Obviously any parent worries about this kind of thing, but it's really not a big deal at all.

I had a general anaesthetic when I was younger than your child. It was no big deal at all. My friend's son had heart surgery as a two-year-old and another had a kidney operation when he was only a few months old. Your child's operation won't take very long and it will be much less traumatic for them than having to have it done under a local. It's all going to be fine - try not to worry!

Needanewname42 · 19/12/2024 16:05

@Greybeardy
Is it maybe just a Heath Board policy that children should be treated at the Children's Hospital?

I'm going off a rushed comment from an A&E nurse. Almost 5 years ago but it feels like yesterday, LO and a finger injury, that had a plastic surgeon put back together.

Starryknightcloud · 19/12/2024 14:44

After gently highjacking the OPs thread I just wanted to say how kind and helpful anesthetists are on here. There was another thread recently about C sections under GA and they couldn't have been more supportive.

I feel we are in very good hands. Thank you