I hate all the advice to stop looking because a man will appear when you least expect it - especially because in my case, it was true. It pissed me right off - I felt hyper alert all the time and vaguely prickly and grumpy.
We were in a coach trip, and we spoke before we got on the coach. He asked to sit next to me, I said no then I remember I listened to Alanis Morissette"s song Moratorium on repeat ("I declare a moratorium on things relationship, I declare a full time out on all things commitment, I do need a breather from the flavours of entanglement") while scowling and giving off leave me alone vibes. But he was polite and smiled and was happy, and 16 years later we've 2 kids and he still dislikes Alanis Morissette.
I love the dress. I normally like a good repeating print, but the detailed bodice works for me.